Can anybody give me some good advice on how to approach the subject of swinging without her asking for a divorce. My wife is quite straight laced and is happy to have sex once a month (twice if its my birthday), whereas I am constantly horny and would have it 5 times a day if I could. I really want to experience swinging with her.
Difficult, because she'll always think you're trying to catch her out and get her to admit to wanting to cheat, so she'll always deny everything. Ask her if she ever fancies other guys, she'll probably say she only wants you. If you can get her to see that you're not talking about her ever cheating, you may get somewhere, but it's really difficult to get across what you're suggesting without being mis-interpreted. Be careful.
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She probably thinks about it as well, just look out for programmes on TV or articles in magazines an watch it with her one night then ask her what she thinks
xcelent idea ian totally agree...but like red said it is a very difficult ome and you have to tread carfully.
Good luck
spose i'm one of the luckey ones, as me and Dee do everything together