Hi just joined this seedy world and since me and the hubby discused it a week ago we have not stopped shaggin. lol I am a complete virgin on here so any advice is welcomed. Would anyone advise a private meet or going to a swinger club for first experience? Also I am a tad concerned about protection do people tend to mind using it? Even tho it does kind of ruin the fun a bit. thanx for your time. let me know if my profile is ok. cheers lil
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hi I have some questions
Hi there guys! Firstly your profile is great and lists what you are looking for. I would suggest you look at the "chat room tips for newbies" post in the "new and nervous" part of the forum it isn't actually just about the chat room it has some great tips on their regarding safety, swinging etiquette etc. We have been on this site since August '05 and are regular users of the chat room which can seem daunting at first but is a friendly place. Also there are social meets that people organise where you can come along, have a laugh and a few bevvies and generally make new friends and test the water. When it comes to clubs I can't comment on that as we haven't been to one my personal view is that if its your first EVER time might scare the shit out of you (well it would me lol). The social meets are listed in "lets meet up" part of the forum - Mansfield and Milton Keynes are coming up shortly so if you fancy it take a look.
Love Kelly xxxx
QUOTE FROM='lillyandchad]Hi just joined this seedy world and since me and the hubby discused it a week ago we have not stopped shaggin. lol I am a complete virgin on here so any advice is welcomed. Would anyone advise a private meet or going to a swinger club for first experience? Also I am a tad concerned about protection do people tend to mind using it? Even tho it does kind of ruin the fun a bit. thanx for your time. let me know if my profile is ok. cheers lil[/quote]
Hi lilly and chad...
nice to see you guys if ur in chat you will no doubt see me in there at some point and might see a flash of si all tho he dont talk much on line not that he dont want to just that im addicted and wont let him 
OK 1ST let me say its not a seedy world and more like a erotic sexy place to be...si and i only joined last june and found we did the same as u guys... shagged every day due to talking abt it so much...
we were to scared to go to a swing club and to behonest didnt realy know what this entailed...so we had a private meet 1st, we aranged to meet at a pub where we would feel happy, and if we wanted to take it further we could by going back to our house.. you may want to make this a hotel... just depends how u get on and what u feel comfy with...
we made rules right at the begin... of what we were both happy to do and not do.. we have since changed these. and are still doing each time after talking with each other of what we did or didnt like... talking with ur partner is a MUST...and also with the people u are looking to swing with.. be honest up front and dont be shy to say what u do or dont want... it makes life so much more easyer... and with genuine swingers you will find NO means NO...
After a few meets with some grt people and feeling a little more relaxed as to what the swing world ment we decided to try a club...( ask around for what ones are good) our 1st was utopia and what a great 1st it was...
we now like both private and club meets just depends what mood were in and what time we have avalible..we have been known to arrive at a club gone midnight " last min decision) :lol:
we allways use potection and would surgest the same... in the heat of the moment it dosnt realy matter as swinging we find is such an erotic sexy adventure it dosn't dampen the mood to much...and like i said genuine swingers will respect u and the same back.... again make sure u talk and say what ur happy and not happy to do be4 you swing..
Do remember things dont happen over night even tho were all horny sexy people.. every one will want to have seen pic's or you on cam in chat...not every one will be avalible to meet when u are.. so dont worry if meets dont happen right will get let down from time to time, dont worry it happens to us all.. also dont just sit there waiting for people to find you... get in there send lots of mail... get in to chat say hi meet the regs in chat... or even better come along to a social event... these are posted in forums under "lets meet up" they are pure social to say hi no pressure for anything... what u do with who at end of night is ur call...
ok i think that might just help :lol:
have fun guys and give us a shout if u need help with anything :P
MWAHHH
MO_ SI_ XX
OK 1ST let me say its not a seedy world and more like a erotic sexy place to be...si and i only joined last june and found we did the same as u guys... shagged every day due to talking abt it so much...
we were to scared to go to a swing club and to behonest didnt realy know what this entailed...so we had a private meet 1st, we aranged to meet at a pub where we would feel happy, and if we wanted to take it further we could by going back to our house.. you may want to make this a hotel... just depends how u get on and what u feel comfy with...
we made rules right at the begin... of what we were both happy to do and not do.. we have since changed these. and are still doing each time after talking with each other of what we did or didnt like... talking with ur partner is a MUST...and also with the people u are looking to swing with.. be honest up front and dont be shy to say what u do or dont want... it makes life so much more easyer... and with genuine swingers you will find NO means NO...
After a few meets with some grt people and feeling a little more relaxed as to what the swing world ment we decided to try a club...( ask around for what ones are good) our 1st was utopia and what a great 1st it was...
we now like both private and club meets just depends what mood were in and what time we have avalible..we have been known to arrive at a club gone midnight " last min decision) :lol:
we allways use potection and would surgest the same... in the heat of the moment it dosnt realy matter as swinging we find is such an erotic sexy adventure it dosn't dampen the mood to much...and like i said genuine swingers will respect u and the same back.... again make sure u talk and say what ur happy and not happy to do be4 you swing..
Do remember things dont happen over night even tho were all horny sexy people.. every one will want to have seen pic's or you on cam in chat...not every one will be avalible to meet when u are.. so dont worry if meets dont happen right will get let down from time to time, dont worry it happens to us all.. also dont just sit there waiting for people to find you... get in there send lots of mail... get in to chat say hi meet the regs in chat... or even better come along to a social event... these are posted in forums under "lets meet up" they are pure social to say hi no pressure for anything... what u do with who at end of night is ur call...
ok i think that might just help :lol:
have fun guys and give us a shout if u need help with anything :P
MWAHHH
MO_ SI_ XX hi guys, well don't think i can add much more to your questions that haven't already been answered fully by mo and kel too, except the social meets are a really good way of meeting people with no pressure involved and as long as you all agree on what you want you will be fine we have been on this site for getting on for 8 months now and have met some fantastic people and made some great friends too , so all that is left to say is enjoy yourselves and chat in chat room too take car kat and neil xxxxxx
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Just enjoy your self keep safe and you will have a fantastic time with all the nutters on here 
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:lol: :doggy: Hey Lilly/Chad
We are happy to meet newbies socially, so have a chat about the things they are interested in or nervous about. Whether we eventually play with them or not...
We remember how we felt at the start and how daunting things appeared. But after a hesitant start we are having a ball and some great sex with brilliant people we can truly call friends.
If you ever fancy such a chat at a location of your choice please drop us a message.
Take care, have fun
Jel & N
xxx
