Sexlightened
I have been looking to get into swinging for the last year to 18 months but just cannot get connected to ppl. I am 45, looking for no-strings sex and am interested in anything sexual, except bondage and defacation, I am looking for anyone between 18 and 50, so no real limits, love giving and receiving oral, love receiving watersports (as with most pleasures, it's not essential and only problem with giving watersports is I find it very difficult to pee when hard!) I can travel or accomodate, live in hertfordshire and, let's be honest, just want to get laid.
Any help in improving my case and getting into regular swinging will be greatly accepted.
Neil...aka harryriches
First thing to say is that advertising that you're just out to get laid probably won't win you too many fans! Most of the ladies and couples on this site, whilst admittedly being open to enjoying sex with others, are also looking for a little bit more - ability to be friends, to have fun without expectation, and to just have a good time. This doesn't mean that you can't "just get laid", but I'd be a bit more subtle about that if I were you!
Very few people will meet you in person before they've had a chance to chat to you and get to know you. The chatroom is invaluable for this, and although it can seem daunting at first it is well worth persevering with. I've posted a thread called "Chatroom Tips for Newbies" at the top of this forum, which may help :)
I hope you enjoy this site - I certainly have. Good luck, and have fun!
Suds