My partner and i had our first mmf thing this weekend after much talk and disscussion. we both wanted it and made rules etc first. however i got into it and kissed the other guy, which wasn't against the rules. my partner stoppped me but is now not pleased about it and keeps bringing it up. do other guys get hung up on this issue too? i now feel like i'm justifying my actions when it was all just in the swing of things. is there anything i can say to him to make him see its all just the same as any other act i may do with someone else with him there?
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first time and probs already
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i know its going to sound strange but try mff, and kiss the girl, see if he likes that.
just remember it was your first time swinging. think back to your own first time as a couple - nerves, fumbles etc. its probably no more than that.
equally, although you had rules about the do's n don'ts, what were your expectations from an mmf 3some? was hubby actively participating or simply watching? perhaps he wanted more or less action for himself and maybe felt left out. was it 3-in-a-bed-at-once session or each guy taking turns?
what i'm saying is whilst rules are needed, talk about your fantasies. r u going to play tonsil tennis with one whilst the other fucks the hell out of you. r u going to :wank: and :P: both guys at once?
basically, what floats your boat and what floats his boat?
work at it and enjoy. don't give up before you have started.
take care and keep :doggy:
slightly different but we had our first mff a few weeks back ..i wasnt sure how i would feal seeing my lover with another female but having talked through and feeling secure in our relationship i have to say it was fine..it helped that the other female was married and only wanted fun not my man!!!honesty and rules are important as is trust all ways
