first meet

8 Jul 2007

Hi everyone, we have our first meet soon biggrin

anyone got ant advise so we don't look completely mad on our first time out??

8 Jul 2007

Hi, First rule - don't meet anyone you've never seen pictures of, and ideally make sure you've all chatted online / by phone first as well. Chatting is by far the best way to get an insight into someone's personality, which is a better indicator of a good meet than sexy photos. I'd agree any ground rules before you meet. It's a bit of a passion killer to start talking about restrictions just as you're starting to get intimate. Make sure everyone involved is happy with such rules, too, and if you don't feel comfortable with anything the other party wants then don't meet. There is nothing worse than a meet that goes badly, especially if it's your first one. Having said that, most meets go well, particularly if you've all chatted in the chatroom or via M S N first, and disasters are generally the exception. Just relax, be natural, have a few drinks beforehand to relax that little bit more (but don't get drunk!). Then, just go with the flow. I'm sure you'll love it biggrin

Sudsy xx Post edited 08-07-2007 20:56

8 Oct 2007

[quote user=caridan]Hi everyone, we have our first meet soon biggrin

anyone got ant advise so we don't look completely mad on our first time out??[/quote]

8 Oct 2007

Hi Caridan, just relax and try not to expect anything too much ,if you click it will be an absolutely great adventure for you. Just establish some guidlines with what you want to do and have done , but as the fun begins just let it roll. I promise its great. Andy x