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[b]Is it hard being a single guy on here[/b]
Hi Pots,
There was another quite recent post on this very topic, but I'll chuck my two penn'orth in here as well 
Speaking as a single myself, I can confirm that it's most definitely possible to get meets off here, both with single fems and with couples. However, don't expect it to happen quickly unless you're very lucky. It took me 6 months to get my first meet, but once the ball had started rolling (so to speak!) I've been lucky enough to have met a large number of people from here, many of whom have continued to be genuinely good friends as well.
Best thing to do, in my opinion, is to start frequenting the chatroom and just joining in and getting to know people to begin with. It can be a little daunting in there if you're new to all this, so some time ago I posted a thread in this forum called "Chatroom Tips for Newbies" - it's still there, stuck to the top of the forum threads, and got a very pleasing response when I first posted it, so I guess I was thinking along the right lines at least :)
General rule of thumb is to be yourself, be respectful, be patient, and if you can demonstrate some degree of a fun personality too then you'll be pretty much home and dry eventually.
Good luck - I hope it works out :)
Suds
Speaking as a single myself, I can confirm that it's most definitely possible to get meets off here, both with single fems and with couples. However, don't expect it to happen quickly unless you're very lucky. It took me 6 months to get my first meet, but once the ball had started rolling (so to speak!) I've been lucky enough to have met a large number of people from here, many of whom have continued to be genuinely good friends as well.
Best thing to do, in my opinion, is to start frequenting the chatroom and just joining in and getting to know people to begin with. It can be a little daunting in there if you're new to all this, so some time ago I posted a thread in this forum called "Chatroom Tips for Newbies" - it's still there, stuck to the top of the forum threads, and got a very pleasing response when I first posted it, so I guess I was thinking along the right lines at least :)
General rule of thumb is to be yourself, be respectful, be patient, and if you can demonstrate some degree of a fun personality too then you'll be pretty much home and dry eventually.
Good luck - I hope it works out :)
Suds Hi Pots and welcome!
Take note of what Sudsy says. He is one of the good, decent genuine guys on here and knows what he is talking about.
From a single female's point of view I can just say be patient, have a sense of humour and don't be pushy. Single guys on here greatly outnumber everyone else so yes it is harder at first. But like I said...patience.
A good thing for you to do is get yourself to a social. They are often advertised in the 'Lets Meet Up' section of the forums and these are just a bunch of us getting together over a drink and a laugh with no pressure attached for anything to happen.
So just have fun and enjoy yourself. get yourself in the chatroom and say hi. it can be a bit daunting at first for a newbie but we were all new once.
Oli x
Hi there welcome to you.
Its always a good idea to also get a cam and get in on your face preferably while in the chat room, then people can see your face and get more of an idea about u. I appreciatet hat not everyone for work reasons are able to get a cam on your face, but you are more likely to get interest in you if you have a cam on you.
Just dont expect a meet within the first month to 6 months and wait for someone to suggest a meet rather than you, but show your interest clearly but not in your face. Personality and respect are most importnt so get reading any tips on the site you can.
Good luck xxx
Fruit
Hi Pots, as another single male on here who has had some success, I would back up everything that's been said above by my esteemed fellow members!
The other thing I'd add, which I also mentioned in a post yesterday on a related topic, was that as well as patience, keep a positive attitude and don't get demoralised when people don't always respond.
As has been said, there are loads of single males on here and for every one good one, there are probably fifty that are just timewasters or idiots. So persistence and a respectful and friendly attitude will get you a long way.
As has been said, get yourself known in the chatroom, try and make a social when you can and also check the forums and parties section ... sometimes couples post in there looking for guys to join them. Basically, try and be in the right place at the right time! My first meet happened just like that after about 3 months on the site so it can and does happen.
Good luck and have fun.
LL
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