bad manners good manners

4 Feb 2009

hi guys as we only been on this site couple of weeks we have lot of people who cant be bothered to reply to our messages we think its bad manners is tis the norm those who do want endless txt tennis cam to cam are we expecting to much to quick xx

4 Feb 2009

From our experience lots (on any swing site) do not appear to bother replying to messages or actually swing. Whether or not people reply is their choice and you simply have to accept that on move onwards. However, when you do strike it lucky and find people you can have fun with, it is all worth the efforts to find them xxx

4 Feb 2009

quite agree jels,there are time wasters where ever you go,and people that cant be arsed to at least say thanks but no thanks,but keep ya chin up as the wait will be worth it, take care,the bays xxxx

4 Feb 2009

[quote user=jelandn]From our experience lots (on any swing site) do not appear to bother replying to messages or actually swing. Whether or not people reply is their choice and you simply have to accept that on move onwards. However, when you do strike it lucky and find people you can have fun with, it is all worth the efforts to find them xx x[/quote] so what your sayin lots of people join for a cheap thrill thanks anyway

4 Feb 2009

Sammi - Lots like the thought of swinging, but handling the reality of it is something different...lol

4 Feb 2009

[quote user=jelandn]Sammi - Lots like the thought of swinging, but handling the reality of it is something difwferent...lol[/quote] we can handle it problem is gettin meets xx

4 Feb 2009

Guys Leeds meet on Saturday Night..e along ....!!! Loads of people coming... especially the people above... E-mail us for the details and we will reply. Don't take it personally if people don't reply - we don't - go in the chatroom and ...well... chat. We are all nice people xxx Stay safe P&H xx

4 Feb 2009

Sammie it looks like you have only been on here less than a month so that is really not that long. It can, and most often does, take quite awhile to get a meet. The best way to get to know people is in the chatroom and at socials which are often advertised in the lets meet up section of the forums. By going in the chatroom and to socials people have a chance to get to know you before deciding to meet you. You do have to have some patience on this site a lot of the time and things do not happen straight away. Of course like jels said there are a lot of timewasters on here and sometimes it will take people a little while to figure out whether you are or not (and I am not saying that you are) but people don't know you from adam get so just give it a bit of time. In the meantime, get yourself in the chatroom and say hi!

5 Feb 2009

well Oli has summed it all up nicely,well done hunni xxxx

10 Feb 2009

Couldn't have said it better ourselves .... some people prefer the off the cuff type of meet, others prefer to get to know people a bit, decide what's best for you guys and take it from there but you have to take the rough with the smooth as they say, good luck anyway peeps .... debs and paul xxx

14 Feb 2009

R here... I think everyones' comments are very valid above... 'All good things come to those that wait' - or so the saying goes.... As with anything like this, what you put in is what you get out and there are many very good people here....So hang in there and you will find what you are after!! Best of luck!