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Forum Virgin
Can you give me adress/location of clubs in the midlands. I'm based in Stafford. I'm not having any success on this site so any help advice you can give to get me started i.e meeting people would be appreciated. Thanks Paul.
Forum Virgin
Nuns, Cheers for the advice and i'm sure it will help me and others. I would also add one thing more for the single guys, patience!! One quick 1 liner message with your number and a piccy of your cock is not going to get you anywhere!! would this work in a club? No, so why is it going to work here? Cheers Alex
Couldnt agree more Alex, ive recently met a guy whos also into swinging, (newer than me though) and he seems to think that a quick email and a cock shot is all it takes. ( O how i wish to be as nieve as him someday!) Seriously though, any newbies reading this, take the advice, read the adds and take time with your reply. be patient and youll get results. Also, try not to pester people, it doesnt work and you just get blocked. Mikex Post edited 18-11-2005 17:39
Warming the Bed
elliot01 asked about a club in the Midlands that is single guy friendly. Well I can recommend Chameleons based in Birmingham, The club is a 3 story building were we have large jacuzzi, steam room, sauna, tv lounge, large bar area, couples only room, themed lockable and open play rooms. I will send this to your email with a web address Pete & Jane :doggy:
Warming the Bed
Thanks on behalf of the many "temporarily" single guys out here for the advice. Its worth remembering all couples were two singles before they met. I agree a club is the great way of meeting people one on one. If only to get to know the scene more. My one request, if single girls or couples advertise for single guys and somebody takes the time to send a genuine e-mail, please drop a note if only to say no thanks. It can be very disheartening signing on, only to find an empty mail box. I often wonder if the people really exist in the first place.
Warming the Bed
skinnydip we see you live in Spain, someware we have a list of some good clubs in Spain (apparently there is a lot). As soon as we can find them we will email them to you. Kinkynuns :doggy:
Sex God
And how about up hear in the frozen north, I mean Scotland smile Are there many clubs?
Sex God
The law is different in Scotland and, unless it has changed recently, swinging clubs are illegal! Best reason yet for moving south of the boarder.....well that and the rain! k (Scottish born and bred!)
Sex God
What and give up the ironbrew...never smile
Orgasminator
Really useful info for the community, thank you kinkynuns...xxx
[quote user=latestarter]And how about up hear in the frozen north, I mean Scotland smile Are there many clubs?[/quote] Hi if u hear of any clubs latestarter cud u let us no plz ta xxxx :devil:
Warming the Bed
Oh well looks like our original post on here giving the advise isn't appreciated, as its been removed. Not sure why as it was just the benifit of being in the swinging scene for a few years, anybody know??????? Seems a shame as we had lots of emails thanking us for it Kinkynuns :doggy:
[quote user=kinkynuns]Oh well looks like our original post on here giving the advise isn't appreciated, as its been removed. Not sure why as it was just the benifit of being in the swinging scene for a few years, anybody know??????? Seems a shame as we had lots of emails thanking us for it Kinkynuns :doggy:[/quote] Kinkynuns, there's no problem with you being on the site and being the owners of a swinging club, but please don't advertise the club in the forum. We delete all commercial advertising and we cannot have one rule for some and another rule for others.
Warming the Bed
[quote user=redwhiteandblue][quote user=kinkynuns]Oh well looks like our original post on here giving the advise isn't appreciated, as its been removed. Not sure why as it was just the benifit of being in the swinging scene for a few years, anybody know??????? Seems a shame as we had lots of emails thanking us for it Kinkynuns :doggy:[/quote] Kinkynuns, there's no problem with you being on the site and being the owners of a swinging club, but please don't advertise the club in the forum. We delete all commercial advertising and we cannot have one rule for some and another rule for others.[/quote] Ok we take that on board, but thought our post was genuinely about the interaction of couples and singles and how to combine using this site with the club scene in general (you will notice we recommended other clubs other than our own, as people were nearer to those clubs than our own). Anyway point taken and we will refrain from mentioning our club in the forum. But as all of our experience is really about the club scene will it be ok to write/respond about this in a general way. And being a fair person and understanding that this site is a private enterprise that the owners have put a lot of money and hard work into (don't we know it from our own experience) we would like to offer a link from our site to this site. Also if any official would like to bring up any literature on this site we would be happy to show it to our guests. Anyway the most important thing is to enjoy the whole liberated adult scene, both on the swinging sites, at peoples houses, hotels and clubs. So smiles all round smile Kinkynuns :doggy:
I didn't actually see the post in this thread, so can't comment on this particular case. I'd say mentioning that you have a club is ok but mentioning particular nights or events is not, but then I and the other mods don't set the rules. I'd contact admin for a clearer answer.