advice

12 Sep 2007

hi all,i promise im not moaning but ive been a member for a month and not getting any response,im even finding it difficult to strike up a chat in the chat i was wondering if any of you good people could give me some advice and give me some tips(even if i have to change my profile) to get myself up and running.i would really apprecate any the way i can cam but find it a bit intimerdating

13 Sep 2007

Hi Clarke. I think if you read the chat room tips for newbies in the new and nervous forum (just abouve this post!) you may get some much better advice than i could give you. Also picutres i have read your profile and you say you hope not being able to load them up can be overcome. Well no not really would you meet someone you havent seen ??? You need to over come the problem and find a way to get them on. I know if you e mail admin with pics they\'ll do it for you. Hope this helps and say hi when your in chat xx kc xx

13 Sep 2007

Just stick with it cos things don\'t happen over night, when you enter the chatroom say hi and mention that you are a newbie, people will say hi back, but don\'t worry if not everyone does as they might be deep in conversation and miss your hi. People tend to like to get to know you first before meeting, and then it might only be for a drink first. Try getting to some of the social events taking place, these can be found in the parties section or the let meets part of the forum. People then get to meet you in the flesh and get to know you. Respect people in the chatroom and treat them how you would like to be treated yourself, and remember that the chatroom isn\'t a cattle market. As kc said, get some pics onto your profile, and not just pics of your cock. Hope this has helped you out.