After reading this part of the forums, we're left wondering why, there is never anyone asking for private meets, there only seems to be socials and club meets, which is a good thing, but where have all the private meets gone?
when we joined this site you could allways find posting of people wanting to meet? sad to see they seem to be a thing of the past...
do's anyone else feel the same?
mr mrs hots xx
Hi Both,
Yes we agree. Please get in touch and come and see our big new house.
Lol
A&K xxxxx
HMMMMMMMMM 40 OR so views and only one reply
do's no one have view on this
Hots x
We hadn't really noticed the lack of private meet requests until you said ........but yup there doesnt seem to be many.
We suppose the assumptions is that you contact the person/people direct if a private meet is wanted after reading profiles and adverts.
Hi just noticed this thread & yes you guys are right this site seems more like a social club these days than a swinging site!! BRING ON THE REAL SWINGERS!!!
im a real swinger..............:laughabove:
oldest swinger in town xxxx:mrgreen:
funkyD xx:P
Hi Guys
Yes you might be right it does seem very Social, we have put a few dates on here for a last minute meet, we didnt get 1 reply.
wendynsampson xxxxxxx
we dont like to put threads up inviting people to meet us. we like to chat to people and privately invite them to meet. also, we would not reply to a thread, but reply via the mail system we have on here . what is so wrong with that. there are genuine people out there guys. having said that, the few socials we have been to have been fun too
s & m xxx
jt com!! :inlove:
We couldn't have said it better ourselves and we totally agree!!
Lolly & Pete x x x :rose:
Re private meets, totally agree with and p2, last thing we'd want is to be bombarded (well maybe 1 reply at least) with "yes please" from couples we didn't want to play with and then have to say no. The socials also let you see in person, i.e. not photos from summer hols 5years ago, people you'd like the opportunity to meet, besides any excuse for getting in a room with loads of gorgeous swingers works for us.
xxxxx see you at Utopia xxxxx
Thanks hot
Nobodys getting into trouble, its a ggod talking point, all the dates we have put on here, were unsucessful thats not to say it was a pure waste of time. We think people struggle to get sitters/time these days to do things last minute, people seem to prefere a more planned social meet.
wendynsampson xxxxxxxx
for us we treat the social meets as exactly that social. As for private meets we have also tried a cpl of posts and got no replies:cry:We do have to organise kids n work but this done still find it difficult to get meets :giveup:
very tru guys we have put a thread on here 4 meet s and had some luck and it would b nice 2 c more xx
At last some reaction lol what i meant earlier people was i love the socials cant wait til they come round i try & make most of them work permiting. Met some great people on here & hopefully half of them will stay in touch!! As for the real swingers comment is have come across a few singles who would of been better off on a dateing site as there looking for some 1 more permenent. Sorry if i wound any foooooker up not meant to. Happy Swinger peeps Love Chunks xxxxx
we are with jt on this one we have had good meets