Ok, so we have been members for a little while, but are finding it difficult to find our feet so to speak... the do's and don'ts etc... we are both really enjoying it and having a wonderful time meeting all you gorgeous horny people...
We have been looking at La Chamabre (spurred on by previous thread) and it looks very appealing... just looking for advice as never having been to a venue before... should we gain some experience first or would this be an ideal way get things rolling??
Mrs Softly x x
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We have been looking at La Chamabre (spurred on by previous thread) and it looks very appealing... just looking for advice as never having been to a venue before... should we gain some experience first or would this be an ideal way get things rolling?? [/quote]
I wouldn't mind some advice on this myself...
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we have been swingers for a very long time (probably longer than anyone on here) and i would say take things one thing at a time theres no are by far the best way to dip your toes in the water .get a feel of the swinging lifestyle its not all parties and you feel ready then you can think about maybe meeting someone but i would advice you not to go str8 into the club some one on one experience first and see if swinging is for about your first meet and decide if the meet was all u had hoped for or completly different to what you thought it would this helps
Warming the Bed
We were the total opposite, we didn't meet anybody before going to a club and decided to jump straight in at the deep end.... and loved it!! We both knew exactly what we wanted out of the experience and were happy with the boundaries we had set for ourselves.
Although we did originally have our doubts about clubs we have never looked back, the most difficult part of meeting people at clubs is finding out what they are into and breaking the ice. As arranging meets with people you know already gives you chance to talk things through and can actually build excitement.
Good luck....have fun and be sexy!!!
Emma
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Warming the Bed
hi
erm clubs and meets well it all depends on what you want, we say.
me and carl look at it like this when we get out ,we out together and enjoy our own company. clubs are great to chat and get to know you have a option to play with people or by yourselfs ,and if there is any pressure then dont ,meets we not had many but we have had the pleasure of meeting couples in the last few years ,but the most important thing we found is honesty get that rite and you will have a blast .some meets ya might jump straight into the sack and some might take longer .its about been a couple at the end of the day and having fun.:happy:
sam n carlxx Softly
We remember our first time to La Chambre... we sat outside in the car for about 20 minutes watching people going in and thinking "should we?"... "shouldn't we?"...
We took the plunge and went in and found it to be the friendliest place. There is no pressure to do anything you dont want to do - in fact, if you dont actively make the effort to go and talk to people its very easy to just spend the night together as a couple without interruption. As such, its a great first introduction to the club scene.
If you want to have a chat about it or maybe meet up for drinks sometime, we'd be happy to "hold your hands" first time there and show you around?
Mail us and say hi!
P&H
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La Chambre was our introduction to swinging. We went for a look one Saturday evening and Barry was kind enough to let us in before opening time and show us around. We'd not planned on actually staying to swing that night but the staff were all so welcoming and friendly that we did and we haven't looked back since.
Saturday nights are couples only, on Fridays single guys are allowed.
We've found it to be absolutely no pressure and have had some fantastic nights!
We'd recommend La chambre to everyone :!:
