im giving up

14 Nov 2005

hi everyone, just a note to say im off, it seems the stereotype of the single male has got the better of me or is it that i didnt word my profile very good anyway i would like to thank the few people i did chat to and wish you all the best of luck much love sam x x x x

14 Nov 2005

Hi, Saw your post about giving up, and I remember my time as a single on the scene, FUCKING BRILLIANT; once i found out about swinging clubs that allow couples & singles. However it takes a lot more than just posting a few things on any internet site, try going to a club and then writing or chatting to people about your experience, and don't just go once, like anything you have to work at this. Lets face it, if you want easy sex with women, then have a wank (and imagine the woman of your dreams), or pay for it. Other than that, it takes hard work and let's remember, you guys aren't offering any commitment here, you want free easy sex WELL ITS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN ON HERE, not without you making a dam site more effort than you are. Sorry if that was a bit hard, but thats what it took for me, I travelled 100's of miles and went to some really crap places before I really started to meet couples who wanted to play with singles, and nice places to party with them. And it was through the internet and a swinging club (happend to be my (Pete) club, but thats another story) that I met my lovely, sexy, horney swinging wife. We have lots of friends in the scene and we play all the time, but there is know way we would meet someone from the internet in our home or theirs without meeting them at a club first. Pete & Jane :doggy:

15 Nov 2005

Well Bigsam - its a shame to see you giving up so easily too as i can definately vouch for the fun to be had thro this lifestyle. I have met some fabulous, wonderful, decent like minded people thro this. Kinky nuns is offering some sound advice - its not easy sex but more of a lifesytle, but not many guys get that point and don't tend to have the right attitude or wthos towards swinging either. It is hard work to get known bit most things that are worthwhile are - i'm not patronising you one bit with all this - only to tell you that its not the same for all single males. All the best mate and keep ur chin up xxxx