just thought id ask - seems to be tons of profiles that are 'close by' but never arranged a meet with couple / single fem. looking for people aged 25 - 35 who are in good physical condition! Anyone had any luck?
i can understand that some guys get fed up looking etc but i can assure you that folks can and do meet from here. It may take a while but you never know... ;)
Hi Hot,
I can vouch for what Rosie has just said. You most certainly can get meets from here as a single, but it can take a while. It took me 6 months to get my first meet, and after that they were still scarce for a while. Since then, though, over the last 5 years I've genuinely lost count of the number of meets I've been fortunate enough to have, so they most certainly do happen.
The biggest single change for me was going to my first social. It happened to be almost everybody's first social, which may have helped, but it was fantastic! After that, I discovered the chatroom and from then on I've not really looked back :0)
The general default feeling amongst most people on swingers sites is that single guys are only in it for the sex, and that there's a good chance we can't be trusted. It's a cross we have to bear. Sadly, there are a lot of single guys out there who reinforce that viewpoint too often by being crude and rude, so to get to meet people you'll need to be as natural and as respectful as you can be. Never does any harm in any case! You may well find that you still manage to ruffle a few feathers occasionally - I've done it myself once or twice, despite trying very hard to do the right thing whenever possible. Hey - I'm only human!
Once people get to know you better there's more and more chance that they'll want to meet you. Get yourself to a social event though - best way by far of letting people find out what you're like with no pressure.
So, stick with it. If it worked for me it can work for anyone! lol
Suds
Well said Suds, hope to meet you at a meet soon ;-)
xx
im old but in good shape i have had no luck so anyone wanna break the mould help me out
The best advice Mr seds is to stop being so shy when you first meet people , Mrs ants said you were very shy when you first met her !
Lol
Thats me all over just a shy reserved guy :wank:
pmsl
lol
If Seds is shy then I'm a virgin...
Virgin oli pmsl:clap::clap:
Oh shut it kenty or I'll smack you.
Hang in there mate it took me a year and now me cocks worn to a point HaHa...:giggle::giggle::giggle:
:haha::love::P
It is difficult mate. Ive been on here for just over a year and only had one meet. Trouble is we all get tarred with the same brush like Sudsy says, but stick at it mate, I am lol.
theres plenty single guys on ere got shags... uv jus got to stik to it im afraid and put sum effort in xx
[quote user=northlondon12]Hang in there mate it took me a year and now me cocks worn to a point HaHa...:giggle::giggle::giggle:
:haha::love::P[/quote]
LMAO
I`ve not shagged yet i prefer to wine and dine my Lady friends, thats just me i like to take things slow. xxx