been a member since start of new year was hopeing to enjoy a lot of sexy fun with ladies/couples posted a couple of times with no responce i have a profile on here with photos on it i am genuine so am i missing something or not doing something after all we are all on here for the same thing arn,t we good clean sexy fun
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am i doing something wrong
Considering there many, many single guy profiles that say little (other than the obvious!) and only have naked/cock pix, you have about a 1:90,000 chance. However, the profile is your advert to the swinging world and most ladies simply dont want to see cock shots!! So perhaps some normal pix and broader content to include your wider interests and background?...xxx
...and you've only been a member since "the start of the new year"?
Even a small amount of patience would't go amiss, would it?
Have to say it makes me laugh, all these guys who join and expect immediate action: then complain when, after a week, they haven't seen any! I waited FOUR MONTHS for my first meet - and for a single male, that is pretty damn quick in comparison!
Sorry to sound blunt and completely unsympathetic, but impatience only serves to hold oneself back from what they seek - so hang in there. Also, follow jelandn's advice - a more detailed profile, and less cock shots, will certainly help some of the way.
Additionally, you may be taken a bit more seriously if you changed your name to something a bit less suggestive - typical expressions of sexual prowess such as "orallover" really aren't going to attract much interest - completely the opposite, in fact.
Post edited 20-01-2006 21:35
Sexlightened
yeah I have to agree with both these guys....
I had a look at your profile & to be honest I wasnt that impressed...
A little more though & imagination & you could go a long way, with that profile it wouldn't move me to write or reply...
Mrs.F xx
[quote user=orallover01]been a member since start of new year was hopeing to enjoy a lot of sexy fun with ladies/couples posted a couple of times with no responce i have a profile on here with photos on it i am genuine so am i missing something or not doing something after all we are all on here for the same thing arn,t we good clean sexy fun[/quote]
What are you doing wrong? What are you doing right!!!
Your first mistake is thinking you will get laid just by posting a profile here. It doesn't work like that. A bit like expecting to pull just by turning up at a nightclub.
Second, your name. Orallover. As if you're the only guy in the whole world that likes oral sex! I have news for you, most of us do. It shows a lack of imagination.
Third, your pictures. Mostly just of your cock - well we've all got one of those so what is it you're trying to show?
Fourth, your profile text. Doesn't say much about you does it? You couldn't even be bothered checking your spelling, so why should people be bothered with you?
Fifth, the attitude that "we're all on here for the same thing"!!! Oh so we all just have to drop our trousers or knickers at the first guy that comes along? We are here to SWING, that means getting to know people who have like minds, having fun with them which maybe leads to some form of sex with them. It does NOT mean we're all desperate for sex and can't get enough - you will find that probably 99% of the genuine couples here have very satisfactory sex lives before they do any swinging at all.
If you think I'm being harsh, well you did ask what you were doing wrong. It's not just you, there are thousands of guys just like you who join up, show nothing of their own personalities or character, and then moan that they haven't had any success a week later.
Post edited 21-01-2006 12:35
Post edited 21-01-2006 12:37
I love those two couples, they may be direct and to the point but really there's nothing wrong with that.
Have patience, chill out, be yourself get on the video chat room occasionally and get to know people that way.
I'm sure we've been subscribed for nine months or there abouts and haven't met anyone from this site.
Why do we keep coming back? Cus it's a laugh and a banter and a chance to see what's new at the swingers clubs around the country.
Good luck.
