Well, hello there.

10 Aug 2006

So, I'm new to the site (obviously) so I thought I'd say hello. But having looked at some of the profiles, I'm getting the impression that single males are pretty much persona non grata here. Anybody care to give me some re-assurance? Or am I wasting my time???

11 Aug 2006

Brian given that swinging is derived from wife swopping its clear to see why single guys have a problem getting meets, most fellas in a couple want another lady to play with...Bi-fems have best of both worlds and most bi-fem couples are more likely to seek 3some fun with a lady...However, there are some couples that defo choose single guys for inclusion into their fun and you will find that the ones that get to play are generally the ones with patience, tolerence and above all respect for women...So best advice we can give is hang in there and communicate, communicate, communicate...If its to be, it will happen...xxx

11 Aug 2006

Hi Brian As a single male yes it is hard for us to get meets but if u spend time getting to know people and treat everyone the same and with respect u find that single guys can have loads fun i have myself and made some g8 friends here. Give it time and u will have meets, yes most meets are couples meeting couples or couples meeting females but it all down to how u click with someone if u get to meet. Just hang on there and read profiles and use search area and get to know people and it will happen. Good Luck Chris

11 Aug 2006

Hi Brian, I echo jelandn and trib's sentiments entirely and can speak from experience. I've been here since Nov 2004, and in that time I've had 9 (yes, nine) different, successful meets. Proof that single males ARE successful, given that they are patient, tolerant, non-pushy, friendly and, above all, respectful of others. I hope you found your time in the chat room a happy experience last night. Continue the visits there, as it's a great place to get to know people, and also to get a good idea of what they look like, as well as their personality. Above all, have fun and enjoy yourself - and the very best of luck in your adventures. By the way, I love your name - you blasphemer, you! Cat

24 Aug 2006

Thanks for the comments folks. I've actually come to the conclusion that, as far as the site is concerned, meets are less important than the friends I'm making among you guys. So thanks for that!