Fruit sounds like a good idea,but may have one "Guardian Angels",would have to be vetted as they might take advantage of there position.
I`m not saying all the peeps on this site are bad,but you never know,it only takes "one bad apple to spoil the basket".
I would just suggest to the person that is having a meet to leave contact details with a friend.
Hope this helps Fruit XXX,when do you waffle,just not you.
i have a person from the site who i can tell anything at all to and she gives me good advice. I think its a very good idea fruit, because u dont always have a close friend out of the swinging community who u can talk to about anything. Plus its a safety thing.
I've done this a few times fruit, i call it the secret keeper !!! (sounds mysterious)
Its a fab idea and i would do this for anyone, couple sg/sm. Safety must come first
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wow fruit what a fab idea,we would help any one out no worries,it can be very daunting meeting peeps for the first time and it is paramount that they stay safe,so we would be up for this idea,well done fruit,love from Kat and Neil xxxx
i do think its a good idea, although in saying that, i have someone on the site who knows my whereabouts, if that makes sense. I also have an ex boyf, who knows where i go, i do think its a good idea. in saying that i have never come accross any probs when i have gone on meets, but thats not to say it wont happen or cant happen to peeps.
i would be more than happy to help anyone out, not that im much good to anyone, i miss everything as im a bit ditzy lol
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Its a wonderful idea Fruit.. and i would love to be a Guardian Angel :angel:
you can vet me if you like so long as it doesn't hurt :giggle:
On a serious note i strongly advise anyone who goes on a meet to always and with out exceptions tell someone where they are going and with whom...
better to be safe than sorry all you guys.....
Well that's me done:smile2:
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Great Idea, safey must always come first, a good few years back i belonged to a date site, when arranging to meet a guy for a drink, i would always tell my best friend where, when and what time i was meeting, i would also give the guys mobile number to my friend, so if there had been any thing untoward it could be passed on, lucky for me they all seemed nice guys and i never ended up in any kind of trouble, then i met si and now were always in naughty trouble :grin:
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Hi all again
I think this is a great idea and I am more than happy to be a bit of a mentor to a newbie, I can't help but give my opinion and my advice to someone (if they want it or not lol) just ask anyone i have met. Also if newbies have a good experience here we all benefit in the end.
Great idea Fruity
p.s
Anyone want car, relationship, employment, law or hairstyling advice just ask - ignore me and your be fine.
J IMP
(relative of G IMP)
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hey fruit, think that cud hav bin me, u were referrin too at beginnin of thread thingy........from wen i first came on sp........look at me now.......my havent i grown.....thats all me porridge...................iv a ready brek glow......anyway if it wasnt me............sorry for buttin in.......but that is very sound advice!!! and hav done exactly that for all me meets, us single sexy girliees need to stay safe and dont forget ur pepper spray, alarm and metal toe post kitten heels!!!!
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I have been doing this naturally and pretty much without question for quite a while now Fruity ....... i like to look out for nice people and make sure they are safe and having fun.
Its usually single females who i have done this for as i know the stigma attached to swinging and single females by the uneducated, uninitialted narrow minded general public and if they have no one they can tell, i always just advise them to send me a text when leaving ..... and one on getting back home etc just to make sure all is well and this way is very unobtrusive.
In fact if i meet a single female myself i usually ask if someone knows where they are as it makes ME feel more comfortable that someone knows where they are too - i usually mention if they need to make a call / send a text etc they they should feel free too ........ even if its just to bail out !! lol xx
Its a good idea Fruit and in the immortal words of Hill Street Blues ...... ' Be careful out there ' ....... but they forgot to mention ' have LOTS of fun too ' !! lol xxxxx
i would nominate myself as a guardian angel fruit if necessary , think some of us off here kind of do it anyway, even some couples have asked for advice etc too, keeping safe whilst having fun is what is paramount on a site like this and the genuine people should look out for each other xxxx jane
Great idea ....... We already do this for a vanilla friend of ours who has met a few gentleman and not so gentelmen off a dating site.
Our friend texts us where she is going as well as the contact details for the intended date she has, when she gets there she texts us the registration number of the vehicle her date is driving then will send a text during the evening saying either she is happy or not and finally one when she gets home. We have done this on several occasions and we are happy she is safe whilst she knows she has a backup if need be.
We would offer to be just that for any one who is nervous of meeting anyone off here for their peace of mind......... and we do include single guys in that. I know some may scoff but there is a certain nervousness to them meeting unknowns who have deranged ex's etc who may be lurking (though we dont see this one being taken up often :smoke: )
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id love to be sum1's guardian angel.......can i have feather wings pls???
funkyD xx:P
THANK YOU TRUE ♥
True it was a pleasure to both meet you and save you from that long trek to the station.....
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