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how did you feel doing it for the first time

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hey we was all thumbs n toes the first time and thats before we meet up with a couplelol. think the word nervous should be under swinging in the dictionary lol. we sat waiting for the couple to turn up and after drinks and chat it started .all the things you imagine went out the window went great by the end of the night ,after well the bonking bewteen us was brill n we not looked back since sam n carl
I was a nervous wreck before the first meet, but once we got started I was like a duck to water and nerves went out the window.:mrgreen:
I would be a little bit nervous if I met you S M cos you so hot.:haha::haha: :happy::happy:
Aww if you met me in person Northy you'd know there's nothing to be scared ofkiss
If you weren't nervous the first time you'd be pretty weird! Actually all new meets are 'nervy' but that's just the first time you're face to face I guess But the move to the next phase is always fun and exciting.
Nervous would be an understatement for the first time - and an appropriate term for following meets. As a single chap it seems that because of the amount of wasters out there it makes us fair game to be messed about so by the time I found a genuine couple and was phoning, on my way, for confirmation got the major nerves! Sat outside the house for about ten minutes worrying about all the worst things happening (not getting on, up etc.) but one I knocked on the door and was ushered straight through to the bedroom with the lady half starting without me! it was all go and a damn fine trial to work through! x d
I'm not YET qualified to write on this thread, but I will report back on Friday.....cant wait for Thurs night!!!!!!!! Im quite excited by the prospect.. Mmmmmm. Meeting for a drink in the bar is fine, and I'm not nervous about getting down and dirty in the bedroom......its the transition in between, from one to the other, thats getting me worried.I don't know anything about 'swinging etiquette' so I hope I don't make some major gaff. Its reassuring to know that everyone else felt nervous the first time!!!! Maggie xxx
We were so nervous the first time having only cammed before that. We got a bit tipsy (pissed) which wasn't a good idea and couldn't remember half of the fun lol xxx
First time I got Shanghaied. Met a random couple sitting with my mates in a bar in South London - thought they were friends of friends - came with us to a club then a house party - invited me back to theirs for a smoke and the Mrs jumped me - was a naive young ladster of 20 so naturally shit me pants - nerves wore off pretty quick - as they do when you have a fine pair of boobies in your face. My life was all downhill from there. biggrin
[quote user=tee-em-aitch]First time I got Shanghaied. Met a random couple sitting with my mates in a bar in South London - thought they were friends of friends - came with us to a club then a house party - invited me back to theirs for a smoke and the Mrs jumped me [/quote] Sod it,never happened to me and i've sat in a lot of barssmile
i was pissin myself.....but instead i pissed on them....rotflmao:rotflmao:
Funky ya nutter! :crazy:
Funkey,thats nice!!! lol
Funny thing was, I met up with my mates next day and asked them about this couple - who they were etc - assuming that they were friends of friends - turned out they were just randoms who nabbed the only free seats in the place - all of us assumed they were friends of someone else in our group. If your still out there Dunc and Katie -shame on your for corrupting a lad of such tender years - oh and thanks smile
[quote user=tee-em-aitch]Funny thing was, I met up with my mates next day and asked them about this couple - who they were etc - assuming that they were friends of friends - turned out they were just randoms who nabbed the only free seats in the place - all of us assumed they were friends of someone else in our group. If your still out there Dunc and Katie -shame on your for corrupting a lad of such tender years[/quote] What i want to know is if Dunc and Katie are interested in corrupting a lad of not such tender yearssmile
[quote user=freestyle550][quote user=tee-em-aitch]Funny thing was, I met up with my mates next day and asked them about this couple - who they were etc - assuming that they were friends of friends - turned out they were just randoms who nabbed the only free seats in the place - all of us assumed they were friends of someone else in our group. If your still out there Dunc and Katie -shame on your for corrupting a lad of such tender years[/quote] What i want to know is if Dunc and Katie are interested in corrupting a lad of not such tender yearssmile[/quote] who knows whewre they are now mate this was 8 years ago - but if you hang around enough bars around battersea rise you might bump into them
[quote user=tee-em-aitch] who knows whewre they are now mate this was 8 years ago - but if you hang around enough bars around battersea rise you might bump into them[/quote] Ok bud if i ever end up in battersea i'll sit down and keep a couple of seats free just in casesmile
Im still a 'meet virgin' (read MEET not MEAT). Bottled out of my first two times. As a younger single guy the nerves are rather over-whelming. Unfortunately during my 'learning years' I was spending all of my time getting careers on track that don't have any confidence. So I think my first time will be a while off until I can get over those initial butterflies -.-