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[quote user=jelandn]Flirtig...??? What is that and why would we discuss in 20 words when we dont recognise...Is it flemish?[/quote]
why is it that some one who according to their own advert who is not looking for a single man keeps degrading single men? why even look at us? if your not interested fine but why do you feel as though you need to slate us single guys off?
though it may seem i am mad i am not i was just curious...i know i know curiosity killed the cat
but satisfaction brought it back...
Sexpert
Well said lean muscle......
I have to say that i have noticed an occuring theme with a lot of jel's posts and i am afraid that swinging cat is following suit .... without bad mouthing either of these people.
I know there are FAR too many pushy, obnoxious and disrespectful single guys on this site but it doesn't give everyone cart blanche to have a dig at every comment left on these boards. I am the first person to try and keep this site a nice place for nice, genuine like minded people and we are all here for roughly the same reason at the end of the day. There are some genuinely nice guys on here too and i thnik a lot of cpls don't consider that they were all singles once upon a time too - GENUINE swinging single guys will not bother cpls / singles who aren't looking for single guys.
I do realise a lot of guys just don't get the whole ethos of swinging and simply put ' i fancy a fuck , mail me ' etc but they are victims of their own ineptitue and quickly lose any hope when they have no success.... the best way to handle it is to leave them to their own devices rather than abusing them openly in the forums.... even if you think you are doing them a favour by pointing out the error of their ways.... its not benevolent behaviour but sarcasm thinly disguised.
This site will never be all things to all people i realise that but its somewhere where i hope we can all have fun xxxxxx 
[quote user=leanmuscle][quote user=jelandn]Flirtig...??? What is that and why would we discuss in 20 words when we dont recognise...Is it flemish?[/quote]
why is it that some one who according to their own advert who is not looking for a single man keeps degrading single men? why even look at us? if your not interested fine but why do you feel as though you need to slate us single guys off?
though it may seem i am mad i am not i was just curious...i know i know curiosity killed the cat
but satisfaction brought it back...[/quote]
Lighten up a little, Jelandn were just joking! At least I think they were....
Sexpert
RWB..... i think they were really in this thread..... but take a look at some of their comments in other threads !!
I am not badmouthing Jeln because they have always been nice, approachable and chatty with me, as i am sure they can tell i am one of the few genuine guys on the site, but they do seem to have been leaving either patronising or belittling messages on quite a few, admitidly pathetic and flipant, single male threads. I am sure they are entitled to their opinion..... but why feel inclined to leave it on so many single guy threads ?
AAhhhhh well......... it takes allsorts. I just hope we can all have fun xx
[quote user=fun4u2me2]Well said lean muscle......
I have to say that i have noticed an occuring theme with a lot of jel's posts and i am afraid that swinging cat is following suit .... without bad mouthing either of these people.
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Point taken fun4u, and I do hold my hand up to a few of my posts. But I do get rather annoyed at the single males who post absolute garbage with cringeworthy names and profiles to match, and expect a response! God give me strength: do all couples and females think we single men are all the same? I can't help worrying that a vast majority of them do.
I appreciate you're not bad-mouthing any of us, as you're great to get on with. You are an exception to the usual "single male" perception, and a lot of people look up to you for the person you are. It's not my intention to make anyone look small who doesn't deserve it, however I only feel that I post negatively where it is needed. I haven't posted anything like that on this thread, as I feel the guys here are making a genuine effort to get on, and I wish them the best of luck. I'm the type of guy who speaks his mind, and I don't believe in holding back. Anyone who knows me will know just how outspoken I can be, but that (most of the time) is with everyone else's interest at heart.
Finally, without trying to contradict myself, I do not favour the idea of deliberate belittling or patronising of all single males, whoever it is that chooses to do so. As I say, I only give my input where I feel something has to be said. Deep down, I really am not the trigger-happy type.
Cat.
Post edited 28-02-2006 18:24
Hey for what its worth - Yep RWB it twas a mere jest, because the mispell made me smile and made me think of Monty Python...Unfortunate how interpreted, but heyho we can please some people some of the time, no offence intended to anyone.
But we shall ignore forum postings from single guys from now on. At least we bothered, as does Swingin (who we have time and respect for!!)...xxx
