Well got a hugh question - 1 male finds a fem in a couple very sexy and would love to play, problem fem in couple is not so sure about the other couples male.
So what happens is it a know meet,do you compromise. What if the tables turned fem finds a male single or attached,, should the male partner let her play and has the right to say you have had your fun,what about me.
Not everyone is matched or the same so whats the answer?????????????????????
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work it out?
Well we think that there has to be an all round mutual attraction otherwise it's not going to work. Ultimately a couple should really talk to each other and decide what their boundaries are and what they are both comfortable with. Just speaking for ourselves, it would be no good one or both of us thinking yes we would like to play with one half of a couple and not the other so that would be a non starter. It's one of the reasons that we take our time to get to know people, not only because that's our way but attraction can develop over time. As for the fem maybe wanting to meet a single male, then we go back to what a couples interests and boundaries are, if it's your thing then fine if not then no problem ... debs and paul xxx
Its all down to yourselfs to what you feel comfortable with, for us if one of us doesn't find part of the couple attractive then we dont go any further then friends. It cant be nice for the person who isn't attracted to the person to have any sort of fun. As we all know, all because we aren't attracted to a couple of single person, it doesn't mean that they are not attractive to the next person.
Hope this has help you guys.
Casanova
its commonly known as playing 1 for the team guys and its allways fuckin my turn lol
I agree that there has to be a mutual attraction and all parties are interested in playing, not just part of the couple. If one person is doing it for their partner then it doesnt seem fair as we all have a right to only play with those who attract and excite us.
I am lucky in the fact with being a single fem then I only have myself to please and the person I want to spend time pleasuring.
I have my first meet this eve after almost a years break,a m I nervous
Bugger there isnt really an emoticon for BRICKING IT:eeek:
Fruit xx
Bugger there isnt really an emoticon for BRICKING IT:eeek:
Fruit xx [quote user=serens40]Well we think that there has to be an all round mutual attraction otherwise it's not going to work. Ultimately a couple should really talk to each other and decide what their boundaries are and what they are both comfortable with. Just speaking for ourselves, it would be no good one or both of us thinking yes we would like to play with one half of a couple and not the other so that would be a non starter. It's one of the reasons that we take our time to get to know people, not only because that's our way but attraction can develop over time. As for the fem maybe wanting to meet a single male, then we go back to what a couples interests and boundaries are, if it's your thing then fine if not then no problem ... debs and paul xxx[/quote]
spot on serens :clap:
Orgasminator
[quote user=dj2]Thanks guys some interesting points of view. Started this thread to see how different people view this dilemma,not that we have a problem as such. Mrs DJ calls the shots :doh:[/quote]
So does Mrs Blondecouple and thank fuck she does to....god knows what 'bover' I would be in !!!!
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