good luck with this thread true. its a cracking idea, but i fear it will not be on here for long. we all know or have our suspisions on whos profiles are fake, who are single guys pretending to be couples. we can see the length of time peeps have been here without ever meeting people, and we have all sent out mail to people without getting a responce, but how do we really know if they are fake. i would hate to put someones name on here and then to find out i was wrong. i dont really think anyone can be judge and jury, as much as i'd like.
all in all, i think its something that we just have to put up with, tred this minefield of bogusness ( nice word if it actually exsists lol )
and enjoy the fun that can be had
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Casanova
... as we've ALWAYS said.. if you find a profile to be fake in any way, shape or form then please report it to us.
When people submit a profile we can't tell at the time if they are lying or not. This is a sad reality in the online world. The ONLY way we get to find out is through you guys and gals out there. We do what we can but if anyone can tell us (other than going to someone's home address) how to tell if a single fem's profile is really a guy.. or that a single is posing as a couple..then we will gladly take the suggestions on board.
At the end of the day we don't want sp to be a haven for liars and cheats anymore than the rest of you so work with us eh??
... and by the way jt.. I've not met anyone for eons! .. hope your not thinking I'm fake too??? lmao
Sexpert
[color="olive"]I completely agree with your reasoning for this Thread True.
However in a site like this (particularly this one) a tool like this forum thread would be used maliciously and people would get hurt. Example - Someone has to pull out of a meet for a legitimate reason, so the let down party slate them in here! Or a disgruntled member who has been turned down decides to get their own back.
There would be false accusations left, right and centre so the thread would probably be pulled anyway! And even if it wasn't pulled who are we to say who is fake and who isn't?
It's [size="18"]glaringly obvious[/size] that there are fake profiles (eg. [i]Missy, 19, USA. bisexual female with porn star looks. Too bad I live so far away!.... [/i]Ok she may not exist yet but i'm sure she will be along soon lol. Seems to be a fad among teenage american girls to join this site these days!! I mean [b]come on![/b])
We're pretty sure we know who the fakes are, when we're certain of it we know how to use the abuse report system. I think most people are the same and the genuine ones among us should just stick together and ignore them.[/color]
Sexpert
[color="olive"]Don't think this would be possible in this site due to the sheer number of members, but on another site we use, every member has to have a picture (including both partners in a couple) all pictures, profiles and profile changes have to be authorised before they're allowed in the site, and [b]ALL[/b] members have to phone and go through a voice verification process. Single females have to be nominated by a verified couple before they can even access the site! The only bit we think they have got wrong is that single males aren't allowed in at all!
:small-print:
Needless to say there are no fake profiles on there.
So come on, which one of you is going to volunteer to sit by a phone and wait for two hundred and eighty five thousand
phone calls!! True??? lol
:fuckinghell:
We've always thought that all new profiles should go through an authorisation process like the photos do, but that would just be more work for the mods and we certainly wouldn't envy that!!
:notes:[/color]
So come on, which one of you is going to volunteer to sit by a phone and wait for two hundred and eighty five thousand
phone calls!! True??? lol
:fuckinghell:
We've always thought that all new profiles should go through an authorisation process like the photos do, but that would just be more work for the mods and we certainly wouldn't envy that!!
:notes:[/color] Well if there was a vote to implement an authorisation and verification procedure as Sid_n_Nancy have stated we would vote [b][color="yellow"]YES[/color][/b].
As long as the rules applied to every member, including single males, the membership would only be strengthened. And if the FREE membership period was severely limited to say 3 days and deleted after 7 days us fully paid up members wouldn't have to wade through a load of non-starters. What happened to the identification of free members anyway?
Casanova
...and how many people would actually be willing to pay a premium rate number when they complain about the site making money as it is??
trust me - I work in customer services and we had a prem rate number for certain enquiries. The amount of people who complained that as they were already paying us so didnt see why they should have to pay more ... can't see that a lot of people would be happy with that.
At the end of the day there are flaws in anything involving people online.. not saying its right or fair... but I don't think its something we can ever eradicate fully
Sexpert
[quote user=truescorpio]So Nancy, let me get this straight - you have a membership on a site which has taken every measure to ensure that everyone who joins up is genuine, in an effort to eliminate all fakes, and yet men are denied membership to this site which is basically only offering the standard everyone should be entitled to?
[/quote]
Yep
Sexpert
[quote user=truescorpio]Ooooooh the OLD Truescorpio would have loved to have launched into a scathing rant about that one! :fury:[/quote]
[color="olive"]The "old Truescrpio" That's fucking hilarious!
Think it's great how you've caved and changed your entire persona in here now, well done![/color]
[quote user=ukbadman]I think a great place to start in the fake spotting is the single females gallery. Have a look. I know that some must be genuine, but there are alot of very professional looking pics there. Usually 3 to a 'too good to be true, looking for single males' profile. :-)[/quote]
Well from one of those single girls on here that has been accused many times so far of being too good to be true....
The pic on my profile does happen to be a professional one, but only because I am trying to show myself in the best light. And True can verify that is really me.... (even if I don't look quite as good on cam as in my pic :haha: ) so there are some of us who are genuine newcomers.
As I am only rather new to this site I am yet to have my first meet (although will be popping my SP cherry next week! :thrilled: ) but have made sure at the moment I see the person/people on webcam first to verify who they are and I also let them see me. If they don't have a webcam (pity you don't True 
but your comments speak for you 
) I at least make sure they have comments to show me they have had other meets and are genuine.
As a single girl I get inundated with private galleries of men's bits which I have to say I would rather not get as I prefer to be surprised!
So hopefully after a couple of meets of my own people can start putting up their comments and others can see how genuine I really amments and webcam....my way of verifying people. As a single girl I do of course need to be concerned for my safety more so than a lot of others. If anyone has any other ways of verifying people I would love to hear...
Anyway, that's enough of my two cents worth....
but your comments speak for you ) I at least make sure they have comments to show me they have had other meets and are genuine.
As a single girl I get inundated with private galleries of men's bits which I have to say I would rather not get as I prefer to be surprised!
So hopefully after a couple of meets of my own people can start putting up their comments and others can see how genuine I really amments and webcam....my way of verifying people. As a single girl I do of course need to be concerned for my safety more so than a lot of others. If anyone has any other ways of verifying people I would love to hear...
Anyway, that's enough of my two cents worth.... 
Warming the Bed
Our photos are pro but we are happy to appear together on cam although we do not like to perform on cam. Not into jacking off and chani if she does anything will do in private room. We think that basically the established system only works if well known people rate or unrated people can vote for the other. We intend to come south at the end of July beginning August to a meet where many group members will have the chance to meet and to taste us. If anybody have any suspicions of us then simply ask to see us together on cam and we will be happy to oblige. Thats the way forward in our opinion. xxxx dave n chani
[quote user=dave_chani]Our photos are pro but we are happy to appear together on cam [/quote]
Agree with the cam idea. Essentially, anybody who has appeared on cam and chatted, should be verified. Understand that some people don't want to perform (although we have), but just the act of appearing and chatting is enough to verify that they exist, just as much as the telephone idea. It would be good if the site could automatically flag that a user had attached a working cam at some stage. It could be used as a search field.
True - there is one 'woman' on here who I would love to name. I'm convinced she is not real, but I'm just not certain!
Warming the Bed
Having thought further on this matter and as we do sometimes swing solo as part of our relationship we think it would also be very helpful if people who are interested in this string would make a point of opening their mail and having the option of a push button automatic response which would at least let members know that someone wasnt interested. Obviously some people get more mail than others and have less time to reply in full to something that doesnt interest them but if it was possible to do this it would mean a lot less spam in our boxes because people would know that that particular person/couple just had different tastes. We have the problem of living in the beautiful but remote arsehole of the world regarding meets. We are 2 and a half hours drive from a tesco for gods sake. Keep it real. d + c
Sexpert
[quote user=dave_chani]Having thought further on this matter and as we do sometimes swing solo as part of our relationship we think it would also be very helpful if people who are interested in this string would make a point of opening their mail and having the option of a push button automatic response which would at least let members know that someone wasnt interested. [/quote]
[color="olive"]That's a good idea! It's really hard to politely tell people you're not interested without hurting their feelings. Usually when people don't mail us back we just take it as they're not interested and completely understand. But I think a lot of people regard it as rude.[/color]
Warming the Bed
fuck me you are a true scorpio. In a generalisation as put forward in the previous we would fail in 1. because we like to put ourselves out there in a way that is more memorable than a big dick and spread legs. And possibly 5 but thats cos we are 140 miles from the nearest city and even thats just a big town. The best swinging oportunities up here have got wooly coats and go mmmmaaaaa. Thats why we travel to meets. Agree with the other 3 though.
Sexpert
[quote user=truescorpio]5 The persistant ones: These can be males, females or even couples. Check the dates they joined up, then check the comments. If they have none, once again, you know what youre dealing with - NO ONE sticks around for three years paying hundreds of pounds if theyre not getting meets! 
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[color="olive"]Right I'm sure we've been here before True but swinging is not just about meeting up and having sex!
There are hundreds of people who just like to cam, some just like to share pictures and some like to exchange stories. some like phone sex or erotic chat in here or on messanger, the list is endless but in our opinion these are [b]ALL[/b] forms of swinging.
Some members would love to meet but just haven't found the right people or haven't got the time/baby sitters etc.
Just the fact that they haven't met people does not necessarily make them fake.[/color]
[/quote]
[color="olive"]Right I'm sure we've been here before True but swinging is not just about meeting up and having sex!
There are hundreds of people who just like to cam, some just like to share pictures and some like to exchange stories. some like phone sex or erotic chat in here or on messanger, the list is endless but in our opinion these are [b]ALL[/b] forms of swinging.
Some members would love to meet but just haven't found the right people or haven't got the time/baby sitters etc.
Just the fact that they haven't met people does not necessarily make them fake.[/color] Sexpert
[quote user=truescorpio]
Well of course its rude. This isnt like being approached in the street by someone going 'excuse me sir can I have a moment of your time?' where ignoring them is the natural response - but ignoring mails is a different topic altogether[/quote]
[color="olive"]
It's not rude true! If we don't get a reply then so be it. We know we're just not that particular members type and accept it. I would much rather that than putting somebody through the almost impossible task of telling someone you don't find them attractive without hurting their feelings!
We find it excruciatingly difficult to write 'Thanks but no thanks' emails, very rarely do we get a reply saying "Thank you for letting me know, I appreciate your honesty". Usually we never hear from them and get blanked in the chat room because they've obviously been offended.[/color]
- but ignoring mails is a different topic altogether[/quote]
[color="olive"]
It's not rude true! If we don't get a reply then so be it. We know we're just not that particular members type and accept it. I would much rather that than putting somebody through the almost impossible task of telling someone you don't find them attractive without hurting their feelings!
We find it excruciatingly difficult to write 'Thanks but no thanks' emails, very rarely do we get a reply saying "Thank you for letting me know, I appreciate your honesty". Usually we never hear from them and get blanked in the chat room because they've obviously been offended.[/color] [quote user=Sid_n_Nancy][quote user=truescorpio]5 The persistant ones: These can be males, females or even couples. Check the dates they joined up, then check the comments. If they have none, once again, you know what youre dealing with - NO ONE sticks around for three years paying hundreds of pounds if theyre not getting meets!
[/quote]
[color="olive"]Right I'm sure we've been here before True but swinging is not just about meeting up and having sex!
There are hundreds of people who just like to cam, some just like to share pictures and some like to exchange stories. some like phone sex or erotic chat in here or on messanger, the list is endless but in our opinion these are [b]ALL[/b] forms of swinging.
Some members would love to meet but just haven't found the right people or haven't got the time/baby sitters etc.
Just the fact that they haven't met people does not necessarily make them fake.[/color][/quote]
Nancy - are you Sagittarius?
[/quote]
[color="olive"]Right I'm sure we've been here before True but swinging is not just about meeting up and having sex!
There are hundreds of people who just like to cam, some just like to share pictures and some like to exchange stories. some like phone sex or erotic chat in here or on messanger, the list is endless but in our opinion these are [b]ALL[/b] forms of swinging.
Some members would love to meet but just haven't found the right people or haven't got the time/baby sitters etc.
Just the fact that they haven't met people does not necessarily make them fake.[/color][/quote]
Nancy - are you Sagittarius? Sexpert
[color="olive"]No i'm not, why do you ask?[/color]
Lets face it ... fake profiles are nothing new and are very difficult to police. We have seen it on other sites not just this one and have also wasted more than our fair share of time before we became wise to it. I don't pretend to have the answer because I don't, but I do agree that genuine people should share any info they pick up about the problem as long as it's accurate. In all honesty though, as well as the fake profiles our other pet hate is rude and ignorant people ... good manners cost nothing and the guilty ones are every bit as bad as the sad cases that invent profiles ... you live with it forget them and move on ... the cool genuine people more than make up for the numpties lol xxx
Sexpert
Hang on a sec ....... who is this Oliviak .... and why have i not seen her here before or mailed her ??!! lol xxx
Oh yeah ...... its cos i have been away a lickle bit - hmmmmm i REALLY need to get back in the swing of things on SP !! hehehe xx Mwah xxxx
Sexpert
Oh yeah ....... and fake profiles - they should all be taken out into a field, have their pants pulled down and get ten bangs on the bot with a slipper for being so naughty !! BAD FAKE PROFILES !! lol xxx
Sexpert
Fun you're weird! lol 
Sexpert
S & N ....... you really have no idea just how much tho !!! lol xxxx
Its all about having ' fun ' ....... i just wish more of you fab peeps would ' have ' me more often !! hehehehe - mwah xxxxxx
Sexpert
Another top tip for fake profiles tho ....... make a fake profile yourself professing to be hung like a Danish donkey, richer than the Aga Khan, that you are inanely boring and stupid and are totally careless and reckless with money ......... then mail ALL the fake profiles ....... just for fun !!! hehhehe
