I've just seen the cam of someone who has long claimed to be a single female. Well, it's the first single female I've seen with such masculine features! Not to mention that when I kept the cam on, I noticed it being switched off - by his male friend!!!
Tonight, there has also been an instance of a single male, with no cam, who claims his "free member" female friend is chatting and "would any males like to chat"? He/she/it went completely quiet after a few choice words from me.
There is also one couple where only the male cams who, I susupect, is yet another single male posing as a couple. More so when, two nights in a row, "the female half is in bed", and he proceeds to direct women using the unmistakable preadtor tactics.
So come on - why the pathetic pretence? That's all I ask.................
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Why do some single males do this?
Referring back to recent thread about people pretending to be who they are not - Clearly some believe that the way to succeed is to try and cheat/lie your way into peoples good books, assuming that others are blinkered by a desire for sex. However, as most sensible people will know this is not the case and will endeavour to build relationships via chat and messaging...Generally that is where any deceit is uncovered, either in chatroom or this can create a generic distrust of single guys... However, as with all things there are some really nice, honest guys that play with respect and have gained trust through actions and words...xxx
its completely stupid dont see the point to it at all cos no one will ever wanna meet you again
was talking to a woman on here the other day who is a lesbian and she was telling me about a woman she met who claimed to be a lesbian as well but when she got her husband walked in on them and expected to join in!
i hate liars!
[quote user=swingin_cat]I've just seen the cam of someone who has long claimed to be a single female. Well, it's the first single female I've seen with such masculine features! Not to mention that when I kept the cam on, I noticed it being switched off - by his male friend!!!
Tonight, there has also been an instance of a single male, with no cam, who claims his "free member" female friend is chatting and "would any males like to chat"? He/she/it went completely quiet after a few choice words from me.
There is also one couple where only the male cams who, I susupect, is yet another single male posing as a couple. More so when, two nights in a row, "the female half is in bed", and he proceeds to direct women using the unmistakable preadtor tactics.
So come on - why the pathetic pretence? That's all I ask.................
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Well Cat you know I have the same morals as you and for my money I think it is about time admin put a bit more into trying to find out if they are what they say they are :fury: :fury: :fury: :fury: I do seriously suggest you put in an abuse report on the ones you mention above, as for now it seems it is the only way we can try and curtail their activities
[quote user=ur4it][quote user=marcgold4'I think it is about time admin put a bit more into trying to find out if they are what they say they are :fury: [/quote]
Funny you should say that marcgold4....that is precisely the topic of a conversation that I have initiated in the moderators forum. It is a problem that crops up from time to time but seems to go away when everyone finds out who they are/their accounts are closed.
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Glad to hear it ur as you say it comes and goes but it is a very hard job for us ordinary peeps to spot some times unless one of us does and warn others
not sure if my memory is fading fast, but when I joined, im sure i had to phone up and verify that I was a female??? - Is this still done, I know it wont cut out all of the timewasters, but unless you can put on an exceptionally good "female" voice at least it will get rid of the men pretending to be girlies?????????, and maybe even the women pretending to be men> (god knows why we would want to do that tho!!!)
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Well said guy's you are who you are and if your honest with people you get more results and respect. why cant these people understand that..???
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i didn't realise that you had to phone ej? but i think that is a really good idea. would really cut out a lot of odd ones. although i have to say that maybe some new women to the site might be a little nervous about that, but hopefully then joining a swinging site, they wouldn't mind doing it.
You will never will get rid of everyone doing this they shouldn't be, like you wont stop certain people being cocks! but at the end of the day what harm is it doing to us?? (other then if they upset someone obviously) if they want to waste their money and time then leave them to it.
if a 'couple' said to me, oh the mrs is in bed, but can you get your tits out for me. my answer would be the obvious... course i will bab! pmsl im joking, i just wouldn't do it. likewise i wouldn't do anything on cam, as in private cam, with anyone that i hadn't seen. and more importantly i wouldn't meet with anyone i hadn't seen and spoken to.
at the end of the day it is a swinging site, but there are a lot of people on here for the wrong reasons. i choose to ignore them. obviously if i found someone to be who they weren't i wouldn't be shy about telling everyone.
leave the sad acts to it i say, lol its them that aren't going to get anywhere on the site!!
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maybe i didnt phone, but my memory (or mamorries) aint as good as they used to be!! - btw admin i would be more than happy to filter the calls for you!!!!!, having the experience I have had with my "previous" jobs (marc dont larf hun!!!)
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[quote user=ejbj67]maybe i didnt phone, but my memory (or mamorries) aint as good as they used to be!! - btw admin i would be more than happy to filter the calls for you!!!!!, having the experience I have had with my "previous" jobs (marc dont larf hun!!!)
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Ej as if I would but must admit it did make me grin :P I do agree though some sort of screening would be a good Idea If admin want a personal checker better give me a call :lick: :lick: :lick: :devil:
I have just read this thread and i guess i was to late! I got chatting on AFF site lastnight with a couple, they even had a very sexy profile with female photos, we got to caming and what do you know the female half had gone out but would be back soon!
The guy was sat there butt naked with his meet in his hand as soon as i connected!
What is a guy supposed to do!
His Cock looked so hard and horny, i stripped off and joined in with his fun! we spent hours talking dirty, he kept telling me his wife will perform for us soon, we were watching each other wank for hours until i finally came over my keyboard at about 6 o'clock this morning.
Funny thing is his wife never did show up!!
So if she is not there tonight, i will not contact him again! 
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