why be nasty??????????????????????/

10 May 2007

hi guys an gals i am on my last few days on the site and i have to say im upset at the way someone was being nasty about a persons cam in the room!!! if you dont want to look then you dont have to its not in the site rules but why say nasty things about people??? im am dissappointed at what happened as i feel that the people involed were either jelous at the size of the willy or had nothing nice to say my mum always said to me; ' if you dont have anything nice to say then dont say anything at all' i think a few people could learn from this!! alot of people i have chatted to are here to make friens as well a swing but not everyone is to everybodys likes so you are not going to swing with them, but to be downright rude and nasty is not what i am here for as many other people i think i would like to see people getting on an having fun weather you have big willys small willys , long, short fat thin !! for me it shouldnt matter what size it is its the people that i find fun, attractive and in general good people to be around anyway please feel free to reply to this as i would like to hear your thoughts on this matter lub you all jen an jim xxxxxxx mwah xxxxx

10 May 2007

OMG I hope no one is expecting me as a Zero sized female to appear at MK social as they will be sadly dissapointed. lol

Well said Jen, IMO it is what you do with it, not the size, and if you don't like what you see / read, move on. Sarah x

10 May 2007

mmmmmmm deffo what they can do with it :doggy:size dont mean shit or i would never show me fried eggs lol lol

10 May 2007

well said jen hun, don,t think i was in when it happened but it,s not a nice thing at all, its so true what you said "don,t look if you don,t like" they aren,t bloody forced are they! well said hun xxxxx

10 May 2007

i agree i was in the room when it was happening like many people have sed and i sed it in the room everyone is differnt and size defo doesnt matter xx what u do with it counts xx :clap: Post edited 10-05-2007 13:05

10 May 2007

hi jen and jim I totally agree with what you have said and that sometimes people can make comments that they think are funny but actually hurt the person they are commenting on a lot. I have had comments made about my size b4 and it was very hurtful. I am a caring person and hate to see anyone upset and tend to take things to heart a bit. Luckily on this site I seem to have a lot of friends, and a few who I would class as good friends. We are all individuals and I was told by someone on site yesterday that its whats inside that counts, not what is on the outside. Maybe people should think b4 they type, I and many other people probably find it really easy to appear self confident etc in the chatroom but in real life am the total opposite. So come on people lets try to be nice to people, even if you dont think they are gorgeous or sexy or whatever everyone has feelings and those feelings shouldnt be hurt, until its happened to you you dont know quite how upsetting it can be. Sermon over ...WAKE UP.

10 May 2007

Treat other how you would want to be treated. everyone has feelings and one narsty remark can make a huge hurtfull mark on some people... live life each day knowing you made some one smile not cry mwahhh MO XX

11 May 2007

I was going to start a new thread and then i spotted this .Ive noticed alot of bitching and sniping in chat recently but what some dont realise is theres alot that goes on unseen in whispers .I was talking to a very special friend today who was in tears because of the way shed been spoken to in a whisper for doing nothing at all wrong .It is my opinion that some people really do not think or care how others will feel when they are spoken to in a disrespectful way !

11 May 2007

I must be blind haven't noticed any bitching or sniping recently qute but there was a few months ago directed at me but then I don't get involved in that crap so I suppose I wouldn't know if it's still going on. Sometimes the chatroom can be difficult in the sense that you can't always express yourself as you want to and things said in a jokey fashion can often come out wrong. Thinking back 18 months to when we first started out I suppose we were very sensitive too. Best thing to do is open up to people and ask them directly if you feel there is a problem rather than talk behind their backs. Mrs C xxxxxxxxxx Post edited 11-05-2007 14:44 Post edited 11-05-2007 14:46

11 May 2007

I must say iv'e not seen any nasty comments in the chat room but then ive not been in as much as i norm am. and we dont always know whats going on behind the whispers, well u do with me " i paste them in the room " i know im wicked lol

.. seriously tho.. there will allways be all sorts of people from all walks of life on a site like this... NOT everyone will like everyone its a fact of human life... if u can let it go then do its never worth taking things to heart and will only cause u more pain if u do. if its something really bad then take it to the top ADMIN thats what there their for.. like some have said its not easy to get across on chat how u might mean things to sound.. so peeps just take a little more though be 4 u type. that includes u MILF :lol: :lol: as im not UGLY :lol: i know u luv me realy :P. Anyway peeps have fun be nice be naughty mwahhhh MO XX

11 May 2007

wow mo you are not ugly your sexy as buggerylol same as everyone i no on the site you have all been so nice to me and welcomed me with opened legs ops ment arms lol

there are just some horrid people that make me upset for others, you are all sexy people and when we are back into swinging we wanna meet you all!! :doggy: thank for being so kind to me an jim we will miss you billions stay sexy and naught you lot and wait for us please lol sexy people lub you gazzilions jen an jim mwah xxxxxxxx

11 May 2007

Hi jen, woznt on when it woz happening i dont think, still fairly newbies so maybe we didnt pick up on it but what ur mum used to say is so true if u.v nothing nice to say then dont say anything. Theres no need to hurt peoples feelings and some comments can leave marks altho i also think itz true itz hard to get thingz across as u mean them sometimes. As in life not every1 will like each other but we can be respectful to each other . Every1 always been nice to us when we r on thx for that xx

12 May 2007

I would also like to add my thanks to all thoe on here who have made me feel very welcome. I don't know too many places where I can whip my dick out on camera have a good play with myself while watching the beautiful naked ladies on here giving a damned good show and so far have nothing but compliments if any comment has been made. I don't talk alot on here as I am still very much getting to know people, but those I've chatted to have all been extremely kind and pleasant towards me. To name but a few, sexyjen, kel of Ian and Kel, teecee, orangefruit, ccrider, g of happycouple and many more. I cannot wait for my 1st meet, but if it never happens I know that this site has brightened my otherwise quite dull and depressive recent life and look forward to a long time of participating. So chin up Jen, hope that you won't too long away from this site if you do decide you need a break and in the meantime just report the undignified moronic wankers to the list admin to deal with. xxx mwahh xxx Neil