We've read lots of posts on this forum from disgruntled members who think this site is a waste of time, and that a lot of the members are timewasters who never want to meet.
We've been members of other swinging sites, as have a lot of others on here I guess, but we still find this is the most friendliest where the sole topic of conversation isn't sex. It's nice to get to know people. The chatroom is one of the friendliest we've been on, even if it is hard to get a word in sometimes, but we try.
We've been members of this site now on-and-off for about 5 years (under different names) and seen members come and members go. There are some members who have been here as long as we have.
We're not just here to meet and have fun but to make some friends too.
Over to you
Carl and Jeanne xxx
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Maybe it is different for couples who meet other couples, but i learnt very early, as a single male, you cannot get too friendly with couples, especially the female half. Ive met with 2 couples where the female half tried to meet me without her husbands permission(i turned them down and cut off contact). Ive spoken to many couples ive met, and nearly all of them told me they prefer to meet guys who keep a respectful distance.
As for chatroom, ive been on other ones where the couples have got 'friendly' and it has led to affairs.
Sexlightened
guys we are all here to find a shag , have sex with a stranger and if we happen to meet someone we like and get on with and they become friends then thats a very big bonus but it very rarely happens we have found. to make real genuine friends in the swinging scene is hard, lots say yes your our mates but really they just want ya naked and have there wicked way with ya, which is fair enough but can be a tad hurtful sometimes!
Warming the Bed
nortys
i class you as friends, and yes true do want to get you both naked :- but as for the affair thingy that was siad by kents im surprised, you would think that being on this scene wouldsort of pervent that happening.
as for women from couples wanting to play alone all to there own.i sandi have been asked many times by single men to meet them on my own, but seeing as were here as a couple i think thats preety stupid of them to ask?
right looks like i ranting, and making no sence as normal
so off i go
sandi xxxx oh and Al lol
Sexpert
[quote user=keithokent]Maybe it is different as a single male, you cannot get too friendly with couples, especially the female half. Ive spoken to many couples ive met, and nearly all of them told me they prefer to meet guys who keep a respectful distance. [/quote]
Sorry Keithokent but I completely disagree with you on this, we meet single guys quite often and we consider all the guys we've met as friends, a few have become close friends. we wouldn't even consider playing with them if that wasn't the case!
[quote user=keithokent] As for chatroom, ive been on other ones where the couples have got 'friendly' and it has led to affairs.[/quote]
I know of affairs that have happened due to the swinging scene but I think on the whole, considering how much swinging is going on up and down the country that they are actually quite rare. You have to ask yourselves if these people were happy, or swinging for the right reasons in the first place.
You wouldnt believe some of the fallout ive seen on other sites from people having affairs, bust ups at socials, perceived interest in a husband by a single woman, marriages breaking up, police getting involved after threats made, people running off with a wife/husband of someone they have swung with, a husband of a couple try to attack a single guy after getting jealous of his wife enjoying sex too much at a party. And a single women who have a met single guy for 'fun' then accused them of . And nearly everytime, it always starts people being 'friends'.
There is only one couple i would say im friendly with ive met in swinging, and even then i keep a respectul distance, as i know she blocks single guys who hassle her too much on The others i do talk to on now and again, but im sure they would say themselves, they only keep in contact with me for the swinging, and outside of that context they wouldnt have me on their
Sexpert
Don't tell me what I wouldn't believe, we used to be moderators in this site, have been swinging for over 6 years and have heard our fair share of horror stories.
The fact is 99% of people that use this site are here to enjoy themselves and do so when they can. If you don't lke the site, why are you still on here? Slagging it off to people who love it?
Sexlightened
[quote user=Sid_n_Nancy]Don't tell me what I wouldn't believe, we used to be moderators in this site, have been swinging for over 6 years and have heard our fair share of horror stories.
The fact is 99% of people that use this site are here to enjoy themselves and do so when they can. If you don't lke the site, why are you still on here? Slagging it off to people who love it?[/quote] well said xxxx
I do think that some people may have an affair, but alot of us out there are here for the fun and friendship, we left the site a couple of months ago as we really struggled to get sitters for our children, if we had regular sitter we would meet all the bloody time, lol. We so missed the chatroom and the laugh you get in there, we have been on about 4 years and met some really great people, yes you might get the odd tosser but you get that anywhere. If you are not happy with your relationship then simple DO NOT SWING, its people like that who are most likely to have a affair. If you are happy in your marriage/relationship and love the excitement it gives you then enjoy! My rant over, lol. xxxx
