What is considered a good profile?
For the words...should these be lengthy, detailed, descriptive, short and sweet, humourous, direct, subtle or something else. What do you guys like to read?
And photo wise...What do you need to see, what do you want to see and maybe more to the point what do you not want to see?
I know this will generate many different view points but it will be interesting to see what single males, single females and couple are looking for...wont it?
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What makes a good profile?
when looking for single males i prefer to read something about them personally i.e. what interests they may have. the amount that put 'no strings sex' bores me, and i immediately flick off their profile, because i would prefer to build up at least a friendship with them..not wham bam, thank you maam....
ofcourse, a little about what they would like sexually, to see if i fit their needs. perhaps what fantasies they have?
as for pics; a pic is totally necessary.... i rarely write to the person unless they have at least one. a face pic (even if in private folder) is totally necessary as attraction is a must. a body shot and perhaps one of a nice fat dick would get me writing and asking to see more.
good topic as i want to know what everyone looks for in a girls profile?
minxxx
[quote user=mwm69]And maybe I should have asked ...are words more or less important than photos?[/quote]
We think they are both as important ........ words can give an insight into the character of the person or people.
Personally I think a well written (but not novel length) profile is a must couple that with pics and you have our interest.
Cock pics tend to have me moving on to the next profile, I know what one looks like and yes they come in all shapes and sizes but I don't wear 3D glasses to view profiles so they are just off putting.
As we are all individual, profiles and their content will appeal to different viewers but thats our view on them and what we think to be the better ones.
As a couple, firstly if there are no pics on a profile......the question arises....Why????? It immediately arouses suspicion that the profile is not genuine. Pics help formulate us making a decision as to whether you are the type of people we are looking for. We are not asking for rude pics (although thats fine), its just nice to see the people who interest us.
Secondly, the most important thing is honesty!! We like to know what type of people you are, what you are looking for and a little bit about the sexual side helps. Be honest about yourselves, non of us are perfect and I think it helps if the profile is light hearted and shows a sense of humour. Swinging is about fun as well.
Thirdly, profiles are a good way to make friendships. Even if after you have mailed, chatted etc and the chemistry might not be there, you can still make some very good friends.
I think the mistake some people make is reading the beginning of the profile, then jump to the pictures and not fully reading what they are not looking for eg: no single guys, couples only!!.
So in our view, pics are a must, a good descriptive, honest write up about yourselves always works. And remember, if things change or you become more experienced, you can always keep updating your profile with new things, we did!!! When we first joined our profile was basic because we had not got a clue what to put, several months later, we had seen some great profiles and pics and that prompted us to update ours.
Hope that helps from us as newbies!!
Steph & Danny xx
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well i think bein honest and genuine.....not puttin on a front and pretendin to be b summat ur not!
wiv funkyD wot u see is wot u get........a maaad but damn sexy and naughty lil diva!
i love my pics.................well iv got fuckin loads of them!!
i like to see a nice pic..........i hate cock pix tho..............men tuck those cocks away.....smile at the camera instead!!
be frank, tell ppl wot ur lookin for.......saves on time!
and most of all.....be happy.....swinging spose to be fun!!!
rite housewk to do....
be good!!!
funkyD xx:P
