[color="olive"]Good thread!
I think the internet is the perfect mask or wall to hide behind. People can be who they want to be and live out their fantasy personas.
We like to think we are ourselves in here, what you see is what you get! The only difference when you meet us is probably that i'm a lot shyer and Sid is more confidant with real people. He finds the chatroom and cams too impersonal![/color]
What a fab thread True, well we are in room, what we are in reality. In my singular days (sonia) I used the internet a lot for dating so know of the falseness that the internet can bring good and bad. We have to say tho that SP doesn't hold too many of these type of unrealistic people, well from what we have encountered anyway.
When you mention about people playing up because that what they think people expect, that's exactly what you will NEVER get from us. The chat room is used for exactly that; an escapism and a place where we can get to know like minded people in preparation for real fun. We rarely get sexy on cam as we find it difficult to express our true horn with people we haven't experienced in real life, only after that experience do we love the cam sexyness one on one. (apart from a random few naughty cam sessions when the horn monster has taken over) but please be warned this is not any reflection on how horny we love our real sessions mmmmmmmmm random memories popping in head now rrrrrr.
Anyway we also have to say the people that we have met from SP have all been who they portray themselves to be and better in the flesh so bring it on so far so good you sexy bunch xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I am the shy quite one in the corner!!
:boo:I really don't know what other people think! I guess i always think the best of other people and i hope that's what they think of me!
Oh good thread True!
We are exactly the same in the flesh as we appear on cam, for this very reason True.
I will never say or do anything that may come back one day and bite me in the ass.
If I were to come on cam and fuck myself with the nearest falic object, people would probably think when they met me that they I would be pretty much up for anything, and that is not the case at all.
So on cam I play a little and tease a little, that way I never feel I have any expectations to live up to.
Same when we're talking to people, If someone says to me, if we meet will such and such happen , I won't say yes, I always say, we will see how the night goes... coz if they turn up and there is no chemistry or the people don't look the way the thought they were going to, there’s no point me lying, nothing will happen, the last thing I would want is someone turning up with pre-conceived ideas then leaving disappointed and feeling robbed in some way. Or worse still, actually assuming something when they walk in and having the awkwardness of having to say no!
I know there are people on all sites that say and do things just to get more meets and more attention, and I have absolutely no doubt that if we changed our profile to Full swap, and said I was Bi, we would get tones more meets... But we don't do full swap, and I’m not Bi, so the people we would meet wouldn’t be meeting the real Jo and Daz and they wouldn’t get what they thought they were going to, seems kind of pointless.
The Bi thing really annoys me coz it seems in this scene that everyone just expects you to be Bi, and it really takes some explaining when your not... I have had meets with Bi couples and Bi women, makes no difference to me, If a Bi woman wants to play with me that’s cool, and a bit of petting and kissing just adds to the fun, but if I then say I’m Bi, then all of a sudden there would be expectations from other Bi women that I simple couldn’t meet.
So there you go, no pretending here, and no false advertising, what you see is most defiantly what you get!
Oh except Daz talks a lot more in real life coz I don’t pinch his vocal chords like I do the keyboard lol
Jo & Daz xxx
I find being here allows me to express my really naughty flirty side which I don't get to do in real life:grin:
But I too have found a problem with the bi thing, I know if we put bi on my profile we'd get more interest, like blondes I can kiss another woman but I don't want to give false expectations to another woman/couple, or pretend to be something I'm not, but we've still met with pressure to do the bi thing and just had to say "sorry, we're not really what your looking for..".
I don`t know what i`m really like thats for the people i`ve met to say really........alright I know I`m a wanka....but i`m a wanka that means well.....:haha::haha:
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well ... I like to think that how I am in the room is how I am in real life - tho some people get the strangest ideas! - but I really dont get a 'kick' out of being horrible to people so don't actually enjoy some of the things I have to do in the room....
bugger, i ain't got a clue if i'm the same on and off line. i'll leave that up to people that have met me to make that choice for me. lol
As an afterthought ... it was mentioned about people telling fibs on their profile to get meets ... we know of at least one person who has said they have met a couple several times when in reality they have only spoken once or twice in chat ... now what's that all about lol
[quote user=northlondon12]I don`t know what i`m really like thats for the people i`ve met to say really........alright I know I`m a wanka....but i`m a wanka that means well.....:haha::haha:
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from my experiance northy ur normally p!ssed lol, as for me im shy and retirering in real life..................
we just be ourselves and tell no fibs an no bullshit , trouble is that sometimes bein honest can upset peeps or at least we have found so, but thats our motto an we stickin to it ,least that way we dont have to worry about rememberin what we said and whether peeps like us for what we are or not
yep we pretty much the same in chat as real life fluffs is just as much of a tart in real life and i (bumbles) usually struggle to get a word in edgeways
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As for us I think the main difference between online chat and cam and the real people, is that I am a fair bit quieter and quite shy in real life and mr serens is more the extrovert. Other than that we are exactly what it says on the tin .... we have a little tease on cam but never go that far in the chatroom, we're not against it but in an open chatroom it's not for us. Equally we're not looking to meet people every weekend or every month .... we know when the right people come along and we like to chat to them both and build up a connection, that's not everyones way I know but hey we do what we are comfortable with not what others expect of us lol. The ultimate aim is to meet likeminded people for us and if that takes some time then that's how it is. It is fair to say that a person can be anyone they like online if they so wish, but for us I think it's fair to say that in reality it's role reversal in the confidence stakes lol. 
