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Sex God
I agree with Mindy on this one, True.
If it was on a voting system then there would always be some who didn't get through who were really nice guys and some absolute :wank: would lie sufficiently well to hoodwink us into getting on site.
I think that that it should be open to all as we all have our own idiosyncracies and interests. One girl's meat is another one's poison ;)
As it stands we have the right to complain about idiots and that would work fairly effectively if we all police the system properly through the correct channels about abuse.
Rosie x
Yes, sorry True but I can't agree that that would work.
Besides, who is anyone to judge who is worthy of site membership? It would be impossible (and unfair) to deny anyone membership on the basis of a profile, since they're very poor indicators of true personality. Some people just aren't good at expressing themselves in words, either - doesn't mean they don't potentially have terrific personalities.
Once people are members, however, the control over their success is then in the hands of other members. They will have to win people over if they're going to get any meets, and that is the best way of vetting them. No one is going to meet people they don't like, so the idiots do themselves no favours when they come across badly. Of course they can be irritating in the chatroom, but there are ways of dealing with that.
I think this site actually does pretty well overall for maintaining a high standard of membership.
Suds
p.s. Looks like we're all ignoring your "Don't take this too seriously" plea 
Still, it did seem to be a fairly serious suggestion ...
Post edited 21-07-2007 18:55
Still, it did seem to be a fairly serious suggestion ...
Post edited 21-07-2007 18:55 [quote user=sudsy]Yes, sorry True but I can't agree that that would work.
Besides, who is anyone to judge who is worthy of site membership? It would be impossible (and unfair) to deny anyone membership on the basis of a profile, since they're very poor indicators of true personality. Some people just aren't good at expressing themselves in words, either - doesn't mean they don't potentially have terrific personalities.
Once people are members, however, the control over their success is then in the hands of other members. They will have to win people over if they're going to get any meets, and that is the best way of vetting them. No one is going to meet people they don't like, so the idiots do themselves no favours when they come across badly. Of course they can be irritating in the chatroom, but there are ways of dealing with that.
I think this site actually does pretty well overall for maintaining a high standard of membership.
Suds
p.s. Looks like we're all ignoring your "Don't take this too seriously" plea Still, it did seem to be a fairly serious suggestion ...
Post edited 21-07-2007 18:55[/quote]
oooooooh it's those very carefully chosen words of wisdom again sudsyyyyy. What a man :clap:
mwahxxxxxx mrs c
Still, it did seem to be a fairly serious suggestion ...
Post edited 21-07-2007 18:55[/quote]
oooooooh it's those very carefully chosen words of wisdom again sudsyyyyy. What a man :clap:
mwahxxxxxx mrs c 
Casanova
all I can say is if ever this idea was given a trial then I would volunteer to do the vetting.... a tough job but I would sacrifice my time for the good of the site.. :P 
Casanova
I'm going to help babydevil and venus with the vetting, I have a tape measure to hand :devil: 8) 8)
Sarah xx
Actually True i can see how you got to thinking that way and thank you. Your thinking about how to stop the women being over run lol
However that is not the way swinging works. its women orientated and in most of the relationships we've come across, the meets are sorted by the women so therefore its kinda like you want it to be, run by the women but mate i'd not want that responsibility.
I believe there is someone for everyone and if that person is not for me they will be right up someone else's alley.
You have a lovely idealistic way about you tho true bet your a librian lol
And anyhow if i did the vetting they'd all be tall, blonde or dark hair, uniformed and be married to angelina jolie, how boring would that be :doggy: :doggy: :doggy:
Nice thought tho in an idealistic world we'd not need sites like this coz we'd all live in the same village !!
Mwah
xx Kc xx
[quote user=marple]we meet single guys all the time have no problems with them you can email your mobile no if you like to meet get chatting to them not all couples want to meet singles but there are quite a few that will we have several singles we meet regularly chris n jules xx[/quote]
I agree with you. Just take it easy guys. Everyone has an opinion. As they say, opinions are like assholes. Every one has them. Some are big and nasty and some and small and cute. Let the girls read our profiles and if they like what they read, they will contact us. Just make sure you write a profile that most women will like to read.
Post edited 27-07-2007 15:37
Warming the Bed
[quote user=sarahnmal]I'm going to help babydevil and venus with the vetting, I have a tape measure to hand :devil: 8) 8)
Sarah xx[/quote]
Fairly new over here, but I will also help out with the personal vetting 
[quote user=truescorpio][quote user=kcmanc]You have a lovely idealistic way about you tho true bet your a librian lolxx Kc xx[/quote]
Its because I am blessed with the spirit and impetuousness of youth! Such a shame people forget that being young is'nt just about sexual inexperience, its also about seeing the world as a big juicy apple ready to be bitten.
Or maybe I'm just being idealistic? [/quote]!
I'M A GRANNY SMITH . BITE ME BITE ME!
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I'M A GRANNY SMITH . BITE ME BITE ME! Casanova
[quote user=nwc][quote user=sarahnmal]I'm going to help babydevil and venus with the vetting, I have a tape measure to hand :devil: 8) 8)
Sarah xx[/quote]
Fairly new over here, but I will also help out with the personal vetting [/quote]
Hello NWC
Well fancy meeting you here.
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Hello NWC
Well fancy meeting you here.
