I know your here till feb doc but i'd like to take this oppotunity to say thank you for all the daft and not so daft chats we've had. I've always found SP to be non judgemental and a community where you can be who you really are not the person we all present to be in public. I'm sorry you feel otherwise.
Speak soon and on those occasions you do nip into chat, i can guarentee we'll say hi.
Love to you and may all your endeavours be pathed with gold and rose's
xxx kc's xxx:angel:
Ello doc,
I would like to say if the reason your leaving is due to what a small amount of others think, then please don't leave because of this, as we all know there are and will be a few people in life who don't like the way we run our lives, No one is perfect in this world and we all do what we think is best for our selves at the time, as long as your honest and upfront with others along the way there is no harm done, what your wife knows or dosn't know is "NOTHING TO DO WITH ANY OF US ON HERE" and from what i have seen you have been nothing but honest about your self. you may not have had any meets, but i see you have been to the socials and i would take it enjoyed them , why Give up something you enjoy.
I hope you change your mind and renew in feb. as i have yet to say hi face to face, and MK is coming up...
Mwah MO XX
Mo I have to agree with you totally. What and how you choose to do things are your choice and we are lucky that you have been totally honest with people your reasons for swinging.
I have met up with some men who like you are totally upfront and say their wife doesnt know aswell as some who say their partner knows, do they tell the truth... I have no idea.
This is a site for swinging and not a site for the correctness of a married life group.
I had the pleasure of getting a LOVELY email from you awhile ago paying me a compliment and asking if I would perv your profile. When I mailed you back you were totally gracious and I have to admit as I told you when we met at Manchester at Manc and KCs social, I did say that you looked far nicer in the flesh and your pic did not show how nice you are. I got to have a dance with you and some very nice lip action. :censored:
I did say to Drew that I thought you were lovely.
Let me put it this way Doc, if I was at a sp party or a play meet and you walked over to me I would not hesitate (after meeting you as we did)to invite you over to join me.
I now dont see you as anything other than a lovely man with soft lips, who is HONEST to his detriment possibly, and I would not turn you out of my bed. I now am going to remember to not say no because of age but wait til I have chance to flirt and meet socially before deciding on a meet.
Doc from the bottom of my heart please dont leave as I will miss you very much.
Sending my luv.
Carole (Fruit) :boo::angel::boo::angel::boo:
having had the pleasure of meeting doc in leeds - we are very sad to see that youre thinking of not renewing your membership.
hes a honest genuine guy and i certainly wouldnt want you to leave just because you hadnt had a one on one meet yet - ill join fruit in saying that i wouldnt throw you out of bed and that you are definately better in person than your pics lol
if however you do decide to leave please stay in touch and when we are back in action after xmas we would love to meet up with you for a meal, drink and whatever comes next :beer::happy:
take care
lolly and m
xxx
lolly we can start the Keep doc here thread cant we. lol
Doc again please dont go hunny, you are one of the nicest single males on here I know, and a good kisser too. Lolly is right,patience is the best thing to have. Get to some more socials and keep putting comments on the forum as you do but a different colur maybe pmsl.
Luv ya Fruit xxxx
DOC you`ll be missed hun,we`ll still be here if you ever
Doc although we haven't had the pleasure to meet you personally as yet, I Mrs C, stand by what the other ladies have said on here. You are a pleasure to chat to in the chatroom and always have time for everyone in there. Please resconsider and stay with us as you would e very much missed indeed.
mwahxxxxxxxx Ceylon
If it's any consolation doc we haven't had a meet for nearly a year now, But it won't stop us coming in here! lol
It will be a shame if you leave, genuine guys can be a rarity in this site xxx
[quote user=morkandmindy]If it's any consolation doc we haven't had a meet for nearly a year now, But it won't stop us coming in here! lol [/quote]
well what can we say M&M things have changed around here! bring back our wee smiley charlie in the afternoon make all our mamberships worth while XXX
Thanks for the colour change Doc,my eyes are feeling better now xxx
Well Doc I really understand you on this matter and was about to leave in August because 7 meets which to me should have gone ahead went awry(4 are no longer on this site,1 never comes in the chatroom anymore and 2 well let me just say the drinking did the talking).It really did my head in thinking that this site is not for me and should try another site!2 ladies convinced me to stay one sun evening which to me was my farewell evening!
I have not had a meet at all yet on this site if that is any consolation and after going to 1 swingers club party and 3 socials find it hard to cope with when you see people having so much fun on this site!Though have been promised 3 meets after the new year they are not concrete yet and can only look forward to what will happen instead of suppose this goes pear shaped!
The thing im more worried about now is 2 swingers events on dec 15th which I both want to go on the only problem being Dec is a busy month in my job and to take that weekend off is a financial loss!
It will disillusion me not going but will cripple me if I do not go!
Hope this advice comes in handy m8!
I forgot to mention that I think someone is trying to tell me leave (do not unsubscribe obviously) and come back when you have a swinging partner!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Good to see your staying Doc, see no one can really leave once they have joined :haha:
mwah speak soon
MO XX
Glad to see your staying DOC,although I`m not a Lady yet,and if you ever go to a meet I`ll buy you a drink.
[color="cyan"]Doc hun, :happy:
Really pleased you've decided to stay for a while.
As you are one of the nicest guys on here, it would be a crime to lose you
Teecee :inlove:[/color]
everyone,
[color="cyan"]Considering the posts that were put in my thread some time ago about not having my partners' consent, and that, after almost a year I have had no meets:violin:, I've come to the conclusion that I will probably not renew my membership when it is due:upset:.[/color]
[color="yellow"]Don't get me wrong :doh: as I have met some lovely peeps here on SP and at the socials I've attended:thumbup: but you can't deny that most couples are looking for bi fems or couples with bi fems, and not single guys like myself. [/color]
[color="red"]I appreciate that many don't approve of my being here without the knowledge or consent of my partner:giveup:, even though I have been honest and tried to explain this in my profile:small-print: [/color] [color="green"]I envy those of you that can enjoy a secure and satisfying relationship; unfortunately we are not all in that lucky position . My marriage is secure, but lacks the sexual level of my own desires. [/color]
I'll still be found in the chat room on occassion until my subs run out in February, so don't ignore me & say hello if you are in the room at the same time:thumbup:. It's been a pleasure to have met so many genuine peeps; pity about the :wank:ers and 
s but you always get those I'm sorry to say, and we can't :gagged: them :fuckinghell:
:rose: 
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I take on board all of the things you have said, and I will reconsider closer to the end of my membership; but I do think that a full 12 months is sufficient time for a meet to occur if it is going to
Patience may be a virtue Venus, but I don't want to be virtuos any longer:rascal::devil:
As for the soft lips Fruit , you should experience those all over your body:lick:
I loved the meets and, as I have said before, have met up with some great people. However it is still difficult for single guys to progress beyond even the social side of swinging at these meets as I suspect they can be pretty 'clicky' (if you know what I mean
) Although I guess the chemistry has to right as well; it does for me at any rate:smitten:
It is few months till Feb so we shall have to wait & see. In all fairness I have had 'inklings' of possible meets but these have never materialised; emails do not get answered or people say they will email but don't. It all gets a bit demoralising, as I'm sure many have experienced.
I do believe my honesty has been a detriment in obtaining meets, but I stick by that particular principal and I would hope everyone respects that.
Now I have made it quite clear that it is not I that is in control of things but those that may wish to try a meet with me. I have updated my profile in a way that I hope is attractive to there anything else I can do?
[color="yellow"]Oh and I've stuck to one :color: just for you Fruit, don't want you having to go for an eye tesy now do I?:crazy::haha::haha:[/color]
In the meantime we hope that you recondition your decision before your membership runs out as we really need to get lovely guys like you on here.
Take care of yourself, speak soon
T & C
:thrilled: :inlove: 
