SINGLE MENS ATTITUDE !!!!!!!!!!!

13 Sep 2007

A Message From Mr Teecee :- Since Joining This Site, We Have Met Some Lovely People, But The One Thing That Puzzles Me Is The Attitude Of Men Especially Single Ones. What Has Happened To Good Manners, Respect, Etc Etc. As A Man I Would Not Dream Of Saying To A Woman \' Show Us Your Tits \' Etc. Think About It Lads, If You Walked Onto The Beach With An Abundance Of Female Beauty, Would You Go Up To Any One Of Those Females And Say \' Show Us Your Tits, Wanna Fuck \'. The Answer Has Got To Be No Because Whoever That Woman Is With, Is Going To Give You A Bloody Good Kicking, And Rightly So, So But What Token, Do The Few Morons Who Hide Behind Their Anonymity, No Web Cam, No Pics On Profile, Think They Have The Right To Talk To Any Of The Ladies On Here As Though They Were An Unpaid Whore. Please Get It Together Lads, Faint Heart Never Won Fair Maiden, So Get It In Your Thick Heads That Your Foul Comments Will Only Earn You a Hostile Reply. People Come On Here For A Bit Of Fun, Not Your Filthy Abuse !!!!

:fuckinghell: :banghead:

13 Sep 2007

Well said Mr TeeCee. We don\'t mind the odd comment or odd whisper, but continually keep on and on. Remember Mr whisperer, you aren\'t generally the only one doing it. Last night on cam Jeanne and I were having a bit of fun in front of the cam and must have had 10 people whispering all at once. I\'m sorry, but when I\'ve got my head between Jeanne\'s legs giving her a good licking, the last thing on our minds are whispers, so there\'s no point getting stroppy if you don\'t get an immediate responce. Just sit back, watch (or whatever you want to do) and respect others. Carl and Jeanne xxx

13 Sep 2007

I\'m really sorry that a few mindless people are spoiling for you guys, please report them through the abuse system (I know we keep saying this) but we will deal with them.:sparring: If you are these that constantly asking people to get there bits out just think what you are doing. Members do talk to other members whether its in whispers or emails and the chances of the mindless people ever getting any meets are zero. The site was set up to have fun either socially or adult fun, so why treat people like the local bike. Alot of people have family\'s and are normal people just out for a bit of adult fun. So come on treat people how you would like to be treated and you might get somewhere with members on the site then. People are choosy who they swing with, and the reason for this is because there is a lot of members on the site. Not everyone is everyones cup of tea, so if someone says no, move on and try your luck with the next person, but don\'t abuse them all because they said \'NO\'. Any abuse is taken very seriously, whether its unsolicited whispers, directing or simple abuse. Anyone found or report for any form of abuse will be dealt with in accordance of the level of abuse, this will either be a temporary ban, or a permanent ban. SO IF ANYONE FINDS THEMSELVES ON THE END OF ANY TYPE OF ABUSE, EVEN IF YOU THINK ITS MINOR OR PETTY, PLEASE REPORT THEM STRAIGHT AWAY EITHER TO A MOD (site moderator, they have yellow stars next to there names in the chatroom) OR THROUGH THE ABUSE SYSTEM, THEN WE\'LL DECIDE WHAT TO DO WITH THESE PEOPLE. If you do report anyone through the abuse system, please put as much information in the report as you can, even copy and paste chat from the chatroom. More information you give the quicker we can deal with the person/s in question. So come on, have fun and a laugh in the chatroom you might find it more pleasurable then abusing someone. MAKE LOVE NOT WAR passionkiss

:rascal: :therethere: :smitten: :love:

13 Sep 2007

I must say some men\'s attitudes do puzzle me as to why they are actually on this site and what they hope to get out of it. I detest whispers and have made that very clear on my profile. So those strangers who do jump in and whisper have either ; a) not read my profile or b) read my profile and don\'t care that I don\'t like whispers and carry on regardless. Either case what do they actually expect to gain? My favourite is those who whisper \'love your profile & pics\' - otherwise translates to - I couldn\'t be arsed reading your profile and jumped straight to the pics!!!! :doh: Do these people seriously want to meet up with someone or do they think this is a sex on a plate website? A free for all? A couple of whispers and you\'ll get an invite round, no effort required???? Thankfully there are some genuine, down right sexy , polite men on this site, who more than make up for the idiots. Now be nice and have fun!!!!! :rascal: :thumbup:

13 Sep 2007

[quote user=curvysue]Thankfully there are some genuine, down right sexy , polite men on this site, who more than make up for the idiots. [/quote] Ahmen to that Sue. We\'ve chatted to some very nice single males who stand a lot more chance of a meet that the constant pervy whisperers. Carl and Jeanne xxx

13 Sep 2007

Its Amazing,I get the same sort of Whispers too,do these sort of peeps read Profiles,I think not(I get are they Real,erm well if they had read my Profile they would know I`m Pre-Op). A simple \"may I whisper\",would be manners have gone these days.

13 Sep 2007

Ah i don\'t know what to say. The attitude i see of some of the men makes me cringe and i don\'t know how some people put up with it. I myself have had some run in\'s with single men but i just laugh it off and be the bigger man. I can only speak for myself and the regular single guys i know of and like curvysue says; we aren\'t all bad and i hate the fact that some give the rest of us a bad name. Just be sure to report the ones that continue to dis-regard your feelings. I know if the roles were reveresed and if i ever got whispered by someone i didn\'t want to be whispered by (which is hardly ever, thank god!) i know i\'d do something about it. Max x

13 Sep 2007

I am really sad that folk have been upset by single guys on site, but not surprised. I dont get a lot of nastiness anymore, I think they are scared now lol, but I have done and not always from single guys it has to be said. I would say 95% of the single guys on here are really quite nice and its the rest that give them a bad name. I dont mind whispers that much if what is being said is worthy of a whisper.. TAKE NOTE ; hello, do u want to see me wank, wow, get your tits out etc are not worthy of a whisper. Say hello in the room it will get you further. Rant over.

13 Sep 2007

I sigh.. every now and again we get the usual single bloke bashing thread. as puss said most of us are \"normal\" (ha) but there is the usual bunch of twits who think this is a knocking shop.. go figure,

13 Sep 2007

Well it has to be said sometime, SINGLE GUYS don\'t have a clue how to chat to people. Now thats a big thing for a single guy to say but facts are facts. Now not all single guys should be put in this box as the most in the chat room are decent stand up guys. Most have pics & cams & not all sit wankin hopin someone with look! All us guys know how hard it is to get established as a decent guy it takes time & manners & respect, but its well worth it & costs fook all. You get guys askin for tips on how to get meets off here. its all about RESPECT thats wot some don\'t get & until you get it thro ya heads the better it will be for all on here. Now its not all the single guys fault, some couples on here won\'t even say hello to guys even when we say hiya 1st, Just because we say hi don\'t mean can i play with ya wife! We are being polite SOME OF US CAN BE THAT! anyway thats my 2 pence worth....lol jxxxx

14 Sep 2007

interesting thread..........i used to be a single guy on here, now im in a couple so ive seen it from both sides as a single guy i always showed respect to any body i tried to chat to...always asked if it was ok to whisper first......was always mindful of what and how i said things....i have often given advice to other single guys when theyve asked for it....\'always show respect and be polite\'.....even had to warn a guy off once after a single fem i knew came to asking for help cos he was making her feel very uncomfortable...thing is he just moved on to the next SF (picked the wrong one mind :evil2: .....name and shame!!!lol ) now im a couple ive seen the other side....they always automatically think its Lynn on rather than me, even tho our profile says i type in blue and her in red!, shows how much they read profiles first!.......and ive had some crap whispered to me....get it in to your heads guys, if you aint nice what chance you got?....fraid you are just gonna get flipa

:flipa::flipa:....oh for the day when the chat room gets \'ignore\' buttons amazes me how some guys seem to think this place is some kind of meat market or personal live movie theatre.....must be loads of very lonely guys out there cos the thing is, if you are abusive or a general pain in the arse the word soon goes round amongst the regulars....i just feel sorry for the people who are too new and sit on the side until they get the confidence to join in who get this crap....not a very good impression final words....theres a lot of guys who are complete :wank::wank: who need to learn some manners..........but there are some good guys out there as well rant over ....normal service has been resumed :happy::happy:

14 Sep 2007

[quote user=xxxjamiexxx]Well it has to be said sometime, SINGLE GUYS don\\\'t have a clue how to chat to people. Now thats a big thing for a single guy to say but facts are facts. Now not all single guys should be put in this box as the most in the chat room are decent stand up guys. Most have pics & cams & not all sit wankin hopin someone with look! All us guys know how hard it is to get established as a decent guy it takes time & manners & respect, but its well worth it & costs fook all. You get guys askin for tips on how to get meets off here. its all about RESPECT thats wot some don\\\'t get & until you get it thro ya heads the better it will be for all on here. Now its not all the single guys fault, some couples on here won\\\'t even say hello to guys even when we say hiya 1st, Just because we say hi don\\\'t mean can i play with ya wife! We are being polite SOME OF US CAN BE THAT! anyway thats my 2 pence worth....lol jxxxx[/quote] amen brother :cheers:

14 Sep 2007

Jamie and Beowulf you are true Gents,we need more on here,see you in chat