eye: :wank: My first thread on here and something of a rant but I really feel it needs to be said.
Over the last few days while I've been a member here I've chatted to some great people, and also had a meet with a lovely single bloke, so my rant isn't aimed at EVERY single man. Let's get that out of the way from the start.
I've also had a few mails from single males who genuinely seem to think that I'm here to fulfil their fantasies. Now I know that's what we all want, but my sole purpose in life is NOT to be a character in every man's fantasy of him and 2 women. I am bi, but that doesn't mean I want to get intimate with every bi female in the world, any more than being straight would mean I'd sleep with every man in the world. Why do some people think I would?
The other thing I've noticed is that quite often someone will contact me who's over 100 miles away. When I point out the distance I'm usually met with the reply "well I travel with work quite a lot". Now there are 2 different scenarios here. Scenario 1 - I chat to the single guy in question, we get on well, fancy each other and are both a bit gutted that we're so far apart. He then finds he has to come to my area with work... fantastic! We get to meet at last! No problem on that score.
Scenario 2. Some random bloke has seen my ad and likes my pics. He lives 200 miles away and I reply saying thanks for your mail but you're just too far away. He then sends back "oh well I travel a lot with work, and I'd love to fulfil my fantasy of me and 2 women"
So what? I know nothing about you, you're a single bloke so you don't even have ONE female to start the ball rolling.... then he reminds me that I have female friends I can play with. Yes, I do, can't deny that, but it says in my ad "I already have female friends I can play with alone"! We're not a travelling show to fulfil YOUR fantasies! We enjoy spending time together, but that doesn't mean we want to put on a show for you!
So come on single guys, think about it. This is a swingers site. OK, lots of people may think I can't be a real swinger because I only meet single men, but I do play in clubs. I need single men to go to clubs with because I dont feel safe going on my own, but I want to get to KNOW people before I get into bed or go to a club with them. As far as I'm concerned, swinging isn't about getting an easy lay, so stop treating me like I should be grateful for your attention from hundreds of miles away eye: :wank:
eye: :wank: 