On the 2nd of June my Renewal is up and Coming.
To be Honest I have had enough of this just dont chat in chatroom anymore,its Hi and Bye for me mainly,I have more fun watching paint dry.
I have some Very Good Friends, and others are just Chatroom Friends.
In the 3 years I have been in here,I have had 3 meets with very nice people(non seuxal).
To be HONEST WHO ON HERE wants to meets a BISEXUAL TRANSEXUAL NON OP GUY?
If you can give me 10 Reasons why I should stay, per person, then tell me before my renewal date then I may consider.
Otherwise its back to TVCHIX for me, at least I have more fun in there.
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Should I Leave or Stay
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Hi Debs,
Sorry to hear you're feeling that way - what can we do?
Do you really need TEN reasons before you'll stay? I'm not sure that I could come up with 10 reasons for anyone to stay ! Let's try a few ...
1. You are a popular member, despite what you seem to be implying
2. I've seen you chatting lots in the chatroom, so maybe you're just recalling a few recent dull days? I have those too - I think lots of people do.
3. You talk a lot of sense in the chatroom; we need that !
4. Who else are the ladies going to turn to for advice about shoes?
5. I think you'd be surprised about how much you'd be missed. You ask "who wants a non-op transexual"? I think it's precisely because this that you bring a unique perspective on things to many topics, and I actually think that the site as a whole would be poorer without that refreshing alternate slant on things.
I've given you 5 reasons there - could that be enough? (Like I said - that's possibly as many as I could fnd for anybody!). Hopefully someone else can give you a few more, too, that I couldn't think of and we can pool our resources 
Don't disappear Debs - I'd much prefer you to stay.
Suds
xx
Don't disappear Debs - I'd much prefer you to stay.
Suds
xx Debs...
You cant go because... are a fab friend to a lot of people (including me)
2. You are the voice of reason!
3. You're good fun
4. I know for a fact that there are a lot of people on this site that love you to bits.
5. As Sudsy said - you do bring a unique perspective
6. I like hearing about your shoes
7. You are trustworthy and loyal
8. The site needs you!
9. You have mad taste in music
10. You are the only bugger on here that appreciates my singing!!!!!!!!!!!
STAY!!!!!!!
Midge
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Casanova
Debbie hun..
Having spoken to you in the chatroom over the weekend I'm not surprised you're asking this question. I wish I could give you 10 good reasons to stay (omg that sounds like a Jason Donovan song!!) but I can't as I feel pretty much the way you do right now.
BUT .. it would be a loss to everyone if you do decide to leave hun , you're a well-loved and respected member of SP, you were one of the original gang to welcome me when I first joined and I've never forgotten that. As everyone else has said, you do have adifferent perspective on a lot of things and that is something that this site needs sometimes. It makes no difference what gender, orientation etc members are and have, what matters is how they treat others and you are one of the best.
Whatever you decide, I hope it brings you the happiness you deserve :rose:
Sex God
Stay Debbie you like us have an insane sense of humour you are also a character which is what the site needs, sorry its not 10 but just a MAJOR one .:devil::clap:
Sex God
STAY!!!!
1. Because we all love you so much
2. your a soft bugger like me
3. your trustworthy
4. loyal
5. Always got something nice to say
6. Everyone wants you to stay(look above)
7. Did i mention love ya lots?
8. So want to see your shoe collection
9. The most warmest sweetest person ive ever had the privelige of chatting too
10. STAY PLEASE :) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
9. The most warmest sweetest person ive ever had the privelige of chatting too
10. STAY PLEASE :) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 
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Warming the Bed
Ow debbie im so glad your staying only just seen your post. Was reading through only to see midgie had gone.......panick 2 peeps that lighten the room up going.......jezzzzzzz:crazy::crazy::crazy:
Ok total calm now midgies come back too!!!! Alls good nd well on sp again......................:rose:
Sexpert
Hey Debs, although I haven't had the pleasure of chatting to you much it's clear that you have been going through some tough times of late.
To me, SP seems to be as much of a social support network as it is a place to meet other like minded peeps and get down n dirty!
It's clear that no matter who you are or what you're into, the lovely peeps on this site will rally to support and offer friendship and advice to anyone that needs it.
So by that rationale, if you enjoy the friendship, support, banter, being silly or simply being heard that this site offers, then you should stay.
End of
xxx
Warming the Bed
Debbie,
I am new to the site and as a result have not personally chatted to you in depth like many of the above members have. However I have been in the chat room when you have been chatting and your sharp whit and incisive comments have been right on the mark.
Some of the reasons that I like this site are that the people on it are so friendly, supportive, open, diverse and that there is normally a calm head that can prevail no matter what the subject or the concern voiced. I feel from what I know about you that the site would be far poorer in all these areas if you decide to leave.
However that is about the site and not about you and how you are feeling. I get the feeling that there is more to this than has been posted here. But like the members above point out this site is in many ways as much if not more about having a support network of friends than about multiple meets. From the comments posted above I would say that you have some good friends here and it would be a shame to lose them.
Sorry if I am going on or seeming to lecture (that is not my intention - especially as a newbie :gagged.
I wish you success in finding happiness be it on this site or elsewhere.
Good luck, org
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I wish you success in finding happiness be it on this site or elsewhere.
Good luck, org Org Very positive comments, must admit I do have alot of very good chat friends on here, yes it would be a shame to leave, maybe not spending everyday on the site might be better.
Its just what do you do when your recovering from a back operation that seems to take eternity to heal, so my only outlet is to chat.
Org Thanks
Warming the Bed
Hi Debbie,
Sorry to hear about your back operation they can take time to heal and I don't envy you that (I've had sciatica in the past and that was bad enough let alone surgery on top).
Research is now showing that if people have back problems that put them off work for extended periods of time they become socially isolated and are far more prone to certain conditions including depression. So perhaps it is not surprising that you are feeling low. 
Hang on in there and there will be light at the end of the tunnel. :thumbup:
Hope you are feeling better soon, and if you see me in the chat room and want to vent or bend my ear any time then feel free! 
org
Hang on in there and there will be light at the end of the tunnel. :thumbup:
Hope you are feeling better soon, and if you see me in the chat room and want to vent or bend my ear any time then feel free!
org 