Some members may be aware of some trouble recently involving 2 members who decided to use this site as a battleground for their personal vendettas. This behaviour is unacceptable so as a result both members have been banned. This is a site where like-minded people meet and have fun not an area to vent personal grievances. If any members are seen to be using the site in a similar way then they will be banned instantly, no warnings given.
baby, luv you loads, but if this is the one i think it is, no one ever has any excuse for reporting someones personal activities for revenge. I dont care what their issues are, but the above is not acceptable whatever their motives are. Someones life is in tatters here!
Post edited 28-02-2007 10:27
sue babes, luv you back...... I dont condone for 1 minute the actions that have led to this ban.. this is why this warning to all members is here.
Its pretty dire if things get that bad, this is supposed to be fun...xxx
as I said.. this is supposed to be a site for fun and friendliness... but trust me, right now I don't see much of either.....
i know wot u mean ali babe cos im finding it hard just now to come into the room or else im the 1 that might get banned cos of all the aggro at the mo!!!!and the worst of all im losing out on potential meets here!!! if they want to talk personal it should be done on not on a swinging site that is friendly and all good is gonna come out of it if we all keep the peace :mad:
oh ffs why wont it post M -S-N
Well said Fifies and baby,
There is a lot of back stabbing on this site lately which is a shame because it wasnt like this until recently. We all have peeps that we would rather not meet or indeed meet again lol. Lets all just live and let live, move on and let them get on with their lives and you yours.
We have learnt a lot recently that has made us even stronger as a couple on here and totally realise that if this all ended tomorrow, we have had our fun, made some great mates but most of all still have each other and the kids and our 'real' lives. I think thats what will keep us focused from now on.
I think we know most of the good guys on here.......... just stick around with them and there will always be more nice guys joining at some time. For us, if we have issues, we will from now on just let that person be and get on with our fun on here, both in chat and in person.
Here endeth the sermon :moon: :moon:
jules and russ xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I know i have personal issues and i do try and not let them effect the site but they issues are deep and personal but when you feel intimidated by someone and they ruin the one escape you have in life its very hard not to bring into chat .
just like to say qutebum very true and even worse if they insist on taunting you ,but we must shut up or pack up. don't let them win and don't spoil it for everyone else,
Hey Baby,
Well said hunni ...... i have been a member here quite awhile now myself and i have seen behaviour such as this before - it lead to me becoming sick of all the bad feeling it created in the room between a few members and also resulted in the loss of a few fantastic regular members too !!
I left the site myself for awhile and discovered a new fab site where peeps actually meet without all the BS that was happening on SP at that time - but the chat room was no where near as social and fun as here, hence me popping my face in from time to time to chat. The chat room here is a fab place with lots of great peeps wanting to have a laugh and a good time.
There is far too much pollitics and back biting in the room at times tho and this ISN'T what swinging is about at all. It should be about having fun with like minded people without judgement or jelously....... and if it isn't then you should stop it now !!!
Without prattling on ..... this whole malarky is all about meeting nice likeminded people who want to have fun, and not to be taken too seriously - so lets get back to it eh peeps !!! lol xxxx
Have fun xxxxx
Qute babes,
We were not referring to you in anyway........ I know your issues hunni and they aint nice.
We luff ya babes
jules and russ xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
:clap: mo... can I get that enbroidered onto a pillow please hunny???
I think this is an issue that does need to be in everyone's mind. IF there is an issue of any abuse on any part of the site it can and will be dealt with as quickly as possible. Abusers in any form don't last long here. It is quite easy to deal with them. What complicates it is people retaliating or sniping or just plain bitching. That means we no longer have a clear cut issue to deal with, no one is the innocent party. As Baby has warned, in that instance people will have to leave the site.
thought i would add my two penneth
my philosphy is at the end of it all i don't want to be lowered into the ground in a quiet studious way. i want to come skidding in, fag in one hand, drink in the other shouting WHAT A WILD RIDE, WHAT A WILD F%$KING RIDE.
