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PUTTING THE RECORD STRAIGHT

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ok, i feel like i have to put the record straight about me and boldbostonian as i really am getting totally pissed off with the amount of crap that is going round about us and i am liturally at the point where i am gonna wave goodbye to the whole SP scene if it doesn't stop. ok, first off, me and bold are friends that sleep together every now and again. this is always what i thought swinging was about,sex with people on the same wave length as u. we are not a couple, married, dating, living together or any other way u can think of saying we are a couple. we are just really good friends that have a laugh and a chat when we're onling but people seem to want to read more into it then what it is. at first i could laugh off the stuff that was beign said about us but finding out what people are now saying and the fact that people are actually contacting people that talk to either me or bold and saying that they shouldn't get involved with him because i won't allow him to play is taking it a step past my tolerence level. so, to put all the rumours, gossip, shit stirring and what not to bed, i AM NOT in a relationship with bold i AM NOT living with bold i AM NOT married to bold i DO NOT have a jealousy issue with bold i WILL NOT scratch ya eyes out if you talk to bold i DO NOT control who bold sleeps with i HAVE NO issue with who bold sleeps with oh, a little piece of advice, if you are going to say something about me, then have the balls to say it to my face instead of taking the cowards way out and doing it behind me back, ya only gonna piss me off doing that. if u wanna know something, ask. ok, i think my rant is over lol
well said misss s hopefully people wont bother you, i hate it when that happens, wot u do is ur buisness and no one elses so once again well said miss xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Miss Serenity I Applaud you,for what you said. Theres too many judgemental peeps around these days.I hate peeps who Snipe behind peoples backs. Hope these comments haven`t affected Bold,as they have you. Miss, you have a good friend there,so dont be put off by the snidy remarks. Debbie xxx
Well said miss-s I like you always thought this scene was all about having fun with like minded others, im shocked my what your saying, i always thought this would be the one place that you wouldnt get that type of talking about people going on. dont you think that in a way it is laughable, that because your friends and get on so well , your coupled up.:crazy: please dont let this make you leave the site,i for one would miss you both so much. chat soon sandi & gutz xxx
Right my turn to rant now.......knowing both Miss and Bold as i do i consider both of them as good friends and hate to see what is going on. This is not fair on either of them and i can totally back Miss up when she says nothing is going on between the. They are good friends but that is it.......Miss don't let the idiots on here get you down, they must be jealous and have nothing beta to do then start these stupid untruths and believe they ain't worth leaving the site for hun. I'm here for u both u now that so if u need to rant again, do it on me shoulder, thats what i'm here for. Love ya lots Carms xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx:inlove:
Hey Miss hunni... I'm sooooo sorry to hear you've had some crap thrown at you recently.. I know we've had a laugh about your 'wedding' but cant believe anybody has taken it as far as this!! Swinging is about having fun and if you find a few special friends along the way that your comfortable with then so much the better ..thats the same thing I had until fri when a person special to me left sp..of course we still have that relationship but when it started a few people had something to say about it too. Miss hunni... just ignore it all .. jealousy has no place on sp and as long as you and bold are happy and naughty then who cares!!! (just remember you still owe me one!) :giggle:
think gobsmacked is the right phrase im groping for :crazy: havent had the pleasure of meeting either of these two but having chatted with miss for ages i know shes a great mate and if carms is sticking up for her then i want to too:giggle: think we should all have a girlie night at carms and say :fuckinghell: to them all kisses and you know what right at you misskiss
ok just home from work and read what you said miss and thank you for doing it you are a greate mate. and to all those who have been so judgemental and come up with all the rumours about the 2 of us i am the same as miss she has actualy talked me out of leaving the site on more than one ocasion. if you do have something to say about us have the decency to come and say to either one or both of us and say it in public. as for everyone that has replied to this so far i would like the opertunity to say thank you for your support and see you all in the chat rooms and keeep on swinging.[b]
Miss.... so shocked at this.. How can you be in a relationship with someone you met off here. Its rather amusing but I do know how rumours tend to get added too..and then people here it and take it that step further. Its part of the reason I always talk to the people I do in the main chat and mostly in plain view, even if I do get a few blushes from it. And anwyay, if you were getting married I would certainly know about it.. biggrin (shall hide the hat for a few months) silly P.s does this mean I can now perve on him.. (Private Joke)
:boxing::boxing:duel:duel::kick::kick: sock it to em miss n bold. I have no idea of course what is going on cause I am too busy perving but just thought I'd say I lurrve yah both. kiss
Hey don't go - just enjoyed some banter in the chat room with you...! Seriously though, this is a swingers' site - who cares who's with whom or why? The whole thing seems silly, especially if it is causing offence. There, that's my community group hug post of the day!smile
Sitting going over the posts as its 5am and I cant sleep, read your post and I am amazed.. What???????? Sorry I do not know you or bold but I have seen you both in the chat room.. What does it matter if you are in a relationship, not in a relationship, love each other, hate each other, see each other every week, have great sex, have bad sex ( now that would be bad ) But come on, ignore rumours, that's just what they are, this is a swingers site, peeps meet, have sex and yes are human, we make friends, we are not cold unfeeling beasts here... What I'm trying to say is, you only get one life, do with it as you wish and always be the real you. You and bold are adults, you hurt no one, you have no need to prove anything to anyone, its your life, your choice to be close to someone.. Don't think of leaving because this gives the backstabbers great power and they will continue to do it to others.... Take care and enjoy your friendship, Virgin xxx
:rose:gobsmacked the same as lolly read this twice just to make sure as i could not believe what i was honey don\'t u dare explain yourself to not to the assholes on here,it is no ones business what you and bold are a big star in the chat room,we need more peeps like you in there cos you brighten up the room with your banter.:thrilled:and i would miss yoursillyhwoar:cam [size="9"][/size]and to the a**holes you know who you are \\\"get a fucking life\\\" love ya Becca Janice[size="9"][/size]xxxxxx
just want to say thanks to you all for your support agaain and to all of those who did go along with and believe the romours how wrong wher you. its carms that im with not miss s and yes me and carms are amazingly happy
Im so sorry you have had to go through all that, i hadn't heard anything about it but you have my full heart and sympathy with you. It is not nice to be talked about and accused of things that you didnt do, people can be so hurtful, why ? it hurts more when they wont even say it to you and they can only spread nastyness about you. thye should take stock of their own lives and realise its too short try to be nice, we are all adults here. i hope things get easier for you and happier. take care sue & andy xxxx :rose: