Folks, I have met some lovely people on this site and had some wonderful meets, no question! What I struggle with is the chat room because:
1. Chat is supposed to be 2 way - you talk they respond - BUT, mostly if there are 10 people there only 3 say anything!
2. Chat is supposed to get something over about you, your thoughts, your attitudes, sense of humour, all of which point to your personality! - How the F**K do you do any of that with one liners like:
a) looking good (add name)
b) wow (add name) you look sexy
c)pmsl
d) lol
e)hi (add name) pm me?
I can approach and talk to literally anybody from a stranger off the street, to a person in a club, but if they only respond in 3 word answers what do u do?
Answers on a postcard here please in more than 3 words at a time!!!!!!
Yours , utterly bewildered of Berkhamsted!
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OK sell me the chat room - show me how its done!
Sexpert
lol
Sexlightened
pmsl
Warming the Bed
LMAO
Sex God
ROFLMAO
Sex God
it had to be done really
Yet again somebody takes the time to make a valid point about the problems on here, and yet again people take the piss.
Is it any wonder this site is going down the pan.
Until people start taking people's comments seriously and respectfully, what hope is there ??.
What happened to the old SP that we all knew and loved ??
Sexpert
[color="olive"][quote user=teecee1309]Yet again somebody takes the time to make a valid point about the problems on here, and yet again people take the piss.
Is it any wonder this site is going down the pan.
Until people start taking people's comments seriously and respectfully, what hope is there ??.
What happened to the old SP that we all knew and loved ??[/quote]
I thought this site was all about having fun? Agree with you on the "going down the pan" bit though!
And as for the original thread question, the reason no one has replied informatively is because no one (including you Teecee) can answer it! There's Nothing to sell at the moment, because it's arse and everybody is taking the whole thing too seriously![/color]
Sexlightened
[quote user=teecee1309]Yet again somebody takes the time to make a valid point about the problems on here, and yet again people take the piss.
Is it any wonder this site is going down the pan.
Until people start taking people's comments seriously and respectfully, what hope is there ??.
What happened to the old SP that we all knew and loved ??[/quote] excuse us for have a laugh ffs !!!!
Sex God
i read and re-read the initial post. Because i tend to talk a lot in the chat room i find it hard to respond to this but here goes for a more considered reply- hopefully it will be serious enough for teecee.
There will always be those who say little in the room etc but what can you do? I ask open questions but must admit i don't tend to talk to the silent lurkers very much - mainly because when i have tried to draw them into the conversation they don't even reply.
Sometimes it is hard to pluck up the courage to chat in there but if you don't then nothing will come your way. How much do you chat when you go in there? Do you sit on the side and hope that someone will initiate conversations?
Eventually you are going to need to be brave, ask some silly questions and just join in!
Sex God
And btw teecee it is really boring to take life seriously all the time. I don't think anyone was really taking the mick out of steed himself. Lighten up!
just be yourself mate... takes time!
Have you tried introducing yourself and adding you're new and a little nervous. Don't just jump in, wait until you feel you can add a positive or witty response to a subject being discussed at the time and I'm sure someone will respond and soon enough you'll be chatting away like a goodun.
It just takes a little time and patience. Good luck :thumbup:
Mrs Cey xxxxxxxxxxx
Sexlightened
Not enough time for cock lol
Oh sorry thats my problem, duh
[quote user=nortypair2][quote user=teecee1309]Yet again somebody takes the time to make a valid point about the problems on here, and yet again people take the piss.
Is it any wonder this site is going down the pan.
Until people start taking people's comments seriously and respectfully, what hope is there ??.
What happened to the old SP that we all knew and loved ??[/quote] excuse us for have a laugh ffs !!!![/quote]
Thanks for this teecee and big girl!
My sense is this:
A sense of fun goes hand in hand with good sex and good contact. I never in my life got on with a woman unless I could make her smile at the very least - or more importantly Laugh!! So sure, we should not be too up ourselves on the site. BUT the the first few posts at the top do nothing to move this thread on. A bit parasitic lol they just feed off other peoples attempts to be constructive. ANYONE can do that, and if everyone does you kill the thread!
Must say I have introduced my self every time! I actually write copy for some of my work and I am not in the least bit shy or nervous! But I find that when you actually get involved it gets as silent as a tomb and you wind up with the PMSL, LOL, Looking good? tendency again. Up myself here? Naaaa - surely its not too much to ask for something more than the equivalent of sound effects in a human conversation!
In my humble opinion, unless the chat is not only fun but also raised above the three letter abbreviation or four letter acronym level it has to die, or be populated by people who have nothing to say! Surely you write LOL AFTER you say something, not INSTEAD of saying something! Everyone here is perfectly capable of having a great laugh AS WELL AS being responsible for keeping the site alive and growing.
Its up to us! Constructive or just taking the michael!
Ok - I better get to the bunker and wait for the incoming heavy artillery fire lol!
"from this day until the ending of the site/ we in it shall be remembered/ we band of brothers (and sisters)/ we lucky ffew/ for whosoever shall restore this site with me/ shall be my brother (sister)/" W. Shakespeare! I just jazzed it up a bit [i]lol[/i].
Sexlightened
lol
Sexlightened
Only joshing :lol2:
But had to do it!
Sexlightened
[quote user=meli]lol[/quote] smack botties for you two lol lol lol lol
Sexlightened
[quote user=thesteed][quote user=nortypair2][quote user=teecee1309]Yet again somebody takes the time to make a valid point about the problems on here, and yet again people take the piss.
Is it any wonder this site is going down the pan.
Until people start taking people's comments seriously and respectfully, what hope is there ??.
What happened to the old SP that we all knew and loved ??[/quote] excuse us for have a laugh ffs !!!![/quote]
Thanks for this teecee and big girl!
My sense is this:
A sense of fun goes hand in hand with good sex and good contact. I never in my life got on with a woman unless I could make her smile at the very least - or more importantly Laugh!! So sure, we should not be too up ourselves on the site. BUT the the first few posts at the top do nothing to move this thread on. A bit parasitic lol they just feed off other peoples attempts to be constructive. ANYONE can do that, and if everyone does you kill the thread!
Must say I have introduced my self every time! I actually write copy for some of my work and I am not in the least bit shy or nervous! But I find that when you actually get involved it gets as silent as a tomb and you wind up with the PMSL, LOL, Looking good? tendency again. Up myself here? Naaaa - surely its not too much to ask for something more than the equivalent of sound effects in a human conversation!
In my humble opinion, unless the chat is not only fun but also raised above the three letter abbreviation or four letter acronym level it has to die, or be populated by people who have nothing to say! Surely you write LOL AFTER you say something, not INSTEAD of saying something! Everyone here is perfectly capable of having a great laugh AS WELL AS being responsible for keeping the site alive and growing.
Its up to us! Constructive or just taking the michael!
Ok - I better get to the bunker and wait for the incoming heavy artillery fire lol!
"from this day until the ending of the site/ we in it shall be remembered/ we band of brothers (and sisters)/ we lucky ffew/ for whosoever shall restore this site with me/ shall be my brother (sister)/" W. Shakespeare! I just jazzed it up a bit [i]lol[/i].[/quote] ffs mate you need to get out more why did you quote us ?? big girl an teecee had their say we just took the piss
LOL. You got me PMSL ing now! We ought to put this thread on the national health! Its gotta be a better cure for lifting depression than Valium or whatever they chuck at folk with the glums these days! Here is to you all!
xx to the fems and a warm shake (of the hand - you filthy minded so and so's lol) to the fellas!
Phil
[quote user=ceylon1]just be yourself mate... takes time!
Have you tried introducing yourself and adding you're new and a little nervous. Don't just jump in, wait until you feel you can add a positive or witty response to a subject being discussed at the time and I'm sure someone will respond and soon enough you'll be chatting away like a goodun.
It just takes a little time and patience. Good luck :thumbup:
Mrs Cey xxxxxxxxxxx[/quote]
Thanks for your input cey...you're welcome steed! roflmfao
