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Oh dear, did we make a mistake?

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Oops. Been away for a few weeks. Well, since the end of October and what with Christmas etc. it's been hard to get on the site but I've (Mr MWM) spent a while today checking out what's been happening and it looks like not a lot. Having just renewed an annual membership I'm beginning to wonder if we made a mistake?!?! Forums are dead in the water, or at least very little banter and the general mood seems a bit down. What's up guys and gals? :bounce:
What????? Well as it happens I have missed my forum stalker... bring it on!!!! :bounce:
Oh it happens mwm..... it will all spring back to life soon, once folk get going again after Christmas.
oh did ya renew??? oh fuck it we may as well too
[quote user=twoontwo]oh did ya renew??? oh fuck it we may as well too[/quote] sooooo u fuckin shud u miserable buggas !!
and sexy mw..... iv gone no where iv still puttin my gobshite in these forums to keep em goin.... yeah the place as changed but dont forget we'v had chrimbo soooo peeps av bin dealin wiv all that bollox!! but im sure it will cum bak to life now, jus like sexy pussy sed!! oh and welcum bak....iv missed ya!! fuck me iv got sooooo much goin on in me bonce im slowly goin insane....wot wiv weddin plans and tryin to find a house (cus we'v got to move outta ere in 2 months) markies new job and movin premises....think i mite b hedin to the knackers yard soon....... can anyone help me.....:doh: funky nutta xx
[quote user=funkydiva35]and sexy mw..... iv gone no where iv still puttin my gobshite in these forums to keep em goin.... yeah the place as changed but dont forget we'v had chrimbo soooo peeps av bin dealin wiv all that bollox!! but im sure it will cum bak to life now, jus like sexy pussy sed!! oh and welcum bak....iv missed ya!! fuck me iv got sooooo much goin on in me bonce im slowly goin insane....wot wiv weddin plans and tryin to find a house (cus we'v got to move outta ere in 2 months) markies new job and movin premises....think i mite b hedin to the knackers yard soon....... can anyone help me.....:doh: come to wales funks funky nutta xx[/quote]
ffs im crap at this , funks come to wales
Funky..... i know how u feel.... selling up here, moving thousands of miles away, loads to sort, thank fook i'm not getting married lol. Hey but life is meant to be challenging and omg it is. Cant wait to be in Vancouver though....
Foooooooooooooooooooooka ka ka ka is this our cue to liven this place up again or wot.:bounce::bounce: :crazy::doh::crazy::doh:
Oh an yeh mw fookin m i`m still ere as well i bin a bit busy over christmas gettin pissed but now i`m back on the straight and narra (not):crazy::crazy: drinkiesduel:drinkies::duel:
hey norff....does that mean you cant remember christmas then lol ???
When was it Bays...........drinkies:drinkies: :crazy::crazy:
lets get this partaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay started.....im feelin rather horny!!!
norffy....just what i thought you would say lmao
I am beginning to agree with you mwm. I have really been getting bored and frustrated with SP lately and have thought about cancelling my membership many times. Even though there are so many fantastic peeps on here there seems to be a mass influx of desperados and wannabes that seem to be taking SP down a whole different path. I barely recognise the site I joined less than a year ago and am beginning to get disillusioned with the whole thing. Does anyone else feel the same way? I know there have been many great people already leave for possibly very similar reasons I am thinking of leaving.
To be honest, Oli and MWM, I've not noticed the changes that seem to be bothering you. I think everyone goes through phases of feeling like this (I certainly have) - it's a common topic in forum threads, and in chat too. The dynamic of the site does change noticeably at times, and this can seem like a bad thing the first time you notice it. Having been on the site for over 3 years now, the best advice I can give is to not make a hasty decision to leave - stick with it and you'll probably find that things improve again before too long, or else you start to find that you discover more in common with the newer members than you thought. Newer people still may join who suddenly bring a breath of fresh air from your point of view. In fact, Oli, it was you joining that stopped me from cancelling my own membership about 12 months ago, so there you go smile I hope people like MWM and Oli do stick around and grace this site with their presence. Friendly, genuine, fun people will always be welcomed and needed, so please stay! Suds
Yeh Oli i felt like that......but the doctor changed me tablets and I stayed :crazy: Now you know why i`m scared to ask sudsy a question...........only jokin suds i luvs ya really :love: loon:loon:
[quote user=sudsy] The dynamic of the site does change noticeably at times, and this can seem like a bad thing the first time you notice it. Having been on the site for over 3 years now, the best advice I can give is to not make a hasty decision to leave - stick with it and you'll probably find that things improve again before too long, Suds[/quote] I have said the same thing in chat to people but didn't want to post it on here cos i thought, as a moderator, you may think i had a vested interest. The site does go through a state of flux now and then- in a way, although uncomfortable, it is healthy. It is not just people leaving though. I have noticed that some people who have been gone a while (a year plus) are back as well. Sometimes we see the negative aspects but forget to see what is great about the site. Where else can you see people getting so excited about a social that Christmas is just something to get out of the way :giggle: Ok soap box gone Over to you norffy to be rude about me :grin: :rose:
Wise words from sudsy and rosie there .... we've been through the same things that oli and mwm have mentioned. We just simply ignore the people that are not worth bothering with for reasons too numerous to mention, although we try to be friendly to all, sometimes people are just too different from you. Among other things over the two years or so we have been involved in this lifestyle, we have been accused of being fakes and of having our heads up our backsides, all total nonsense but we just laugh about it and carry on. The people who have got to know us will know the sort of people we are so we're not bothered what the numpties think lol. Oli and mwm you are good guys and we hope you stay, you'll know when it's run it's course for you so don't let anyone else drive you away .... ok it's mental pill time again lol xxxxxxx
Why should I be rude about you rosie I agree......................dynamics an fluxin fuk you and sudy are both right...........I just wish i knew what the fuk you are both on about.:haha::haha: Rosie I sat too near the winda at school....:crazy::crazy: Luvs ya really Rosie..............but lifes too short to be serious.:haha::haha: :giggle::giggle:
OK OK i'll go take me mental pill.... Serens can I have one of yours please?? I seem to have ran out...lol
sexy oli...... u can hav one of mine.....norffyyyy foooooooooooooooooooookas had sum and he talks a load of gobshite sooooo u kno there good ones!!....rotflmao:rotflmao: but if u want summat stronger....best to ask nurse rosie....:color:....dont u jus love her!!:inlove: funky nutta xx:P
I deffo love nurse Rosie and it is all of you my fave peeps that keep me here :inlove::rose:
:wave2::wave2::wave2: Im here, Just not as much as i used to be, due to different commitments in my life now, and now i have decided i need to move house, so going to have all that going on to, But im still about and like to add my little bit of shite to the chatroom and forums every now and again. xxxx
[quote user=oliviak]OK OK i'll go take me mental pill.... Serens can I have one of yours please?? I seem to have ran out...lol[/quote] Course you can oli ... I go a bit mental now and then so keep a load in my secret little place {bottom drawer my side of the bed in my toffee tin) ........ Doh!!! herbal and legal too lol xxx
We wont be going anywhere for a while folks.....paid up now.sillyhwoar:..but would be great to have some of those mental (legal) pills. Everything helps :giggle: What else ya got in that tin Serens ??? :rascal:
No clues mwm .... but it's small and vibrates :giggle:
[quote user=mwm69]We wont be going anywhere for a while folks.....paid up now.sillyhwoar:..but would be great to have some of those mental (legal) pills. Everything helps :giggle: What else ya got in that tin Serens ??? :rascal:[/quote] no good cumin to me for mine then sexy mw.....rotflmao:rotflmao:
[quote user=serens40]No clues mwm .... but it's small and vibrates :giggle:[/quote] Ahh, mobile phones huh! :bounce: