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Slightly off-topic, but just a quick apology to Fruit! Hun, I totally forgot to say thank you for your lovely post earlier in this thread! Very sweet of you to say those things, and it must have seemed very rude of me not to respond earlier! I did intend to, but I got distracted :crazy:
Suds
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(Oh - and you're wrong; I'm sorry to say I HAVE been known to get my cock out in the chatroom, just not very often :embarrased2: )
Sexlightened
i'm sooo sorry, but this thread is just making me laugh.
i'm sorry, but to be honest, true, whether ya a single male, single female, couple of pervs, a cross dressing donkey with a liking for raspberry nipple rub, its never gonna be a cut and shut "wanna shag? yeah, see u in 5" thing.
no matter who u are, its always difficult finding someone that u get on with on a level that makes ya wanna met them.
i personally think u met people based on how u get on with them, how u interact in the chatroom, on the phone, 's quite a few on here that i see chatting and based in the way they talk to people, i know i wouldn't get on with them so i stay clear, doesn;t matter to me if their a couple or a single man or woman.
having been on here 6 months now i've had my ups and downs, met some totally wicked people, spend some really enjoyable time with them, whether its been in or out the bedroom. i've also been annoyed with the amount of people that whisper me without even having the manners to say hello or ask first and then get the ass when i don;t reply as if i owe them the right to chat to them.
as far as i am concerned, joining a swing site doesn;t automatically intitle u to get laid, its the same as everything else in life, nothing is given to u on a plate, u work at it, take ya time to talk and respect others, and then see what happens.
ok, mad ramblings over with now, gonna go pour meself a glass of cherry coke and see if my son's left any smarties in the fridge lol
[quote user=truescorpio]...most people eager to disagree with me are ... single males who have been here so long theyve grown accustomed to rejection and have dropped their standards accordingly.[/quote]
Now that I DO take exception to. True - don't tell me I've dropped my standards just because I don't agree with your point of view. I'm perfectly entitled to disagree with you, and I don't appreciate being told that I'm accepting second best and therefore somehow letting the SM side down. Personally, I don't suffer from rejection very much (no more than normal I suspect), and I'm mature enough to accept the rejections that do come my way.
Sexlightened
don;t worry about it sudsy honey, true came on here and expected to shag the "creme de la creme" as he put it, and i think he may have become sorely disappointed when all the size 6 perfect models didn;t drop their clothes at the door and fall to his feet begging for the fuck of their lives.
true, one day i would love to know exactly what ur view is of urself cause it seems to be totally different to the way i see u.
and before ya start bitching about me being nasty to ya, let me remind ya of the two lines ya used on me
"one day ya going to come begging for some of my cock"
or
"i may have to shag u as u seem to yak to everyone and u can tell them how good i am"
i found neither cute or funny, just arrogant. so remember, when ya chatting to someone in the room, everyone can see what ya typing, and then they make their mind up about the type of person u are. its nothing to do with being a single bloke, act like a pillock, ya be treated like one.
oh and btw, sudsy, ya wanna come play tents under my quilt later? :evil2:
OK......I have been reading this post for a while now and thought i may add my 2p worth lol.
Being a SM on here i thought i would share my thoughts on how i met people and how i have made some great friends from this site.
When i first joined the site i didn't know what to expect, i hardly used the chatroom and didn't really know what to mail people when i thought of asking them if they were interested in meeting. Being a complete newbie this was a lil scary.
Anyways i found the chatroom and got talking to people had a cam so put it to use as i got the feeling people were more comfortable talking to someone they could see.
I have had some great meets from here and although i have been on two years or so now i haven't had loads of meets. This still doesn't put me off as i am not here to find out how many women i can shag. I always talk to the partner of the women even if she isn't on cam or in the room.
I have made some great friends on this site that i would help at the drop of a hat.... I have met people after playing socially and find that just as enjoyable as actually playing.
As a single male i do agree it is hard to meet people from here, but with patience and respect and chatting to people it can be sooo much easier.
I admit i have been lucky on this site with the people i have met and that i have made these friends.
On a personal note i would like to thank all the people that have made my experiences so great and hope to have many more.
Well here we go don't normally reply to this type of thread because its just a persons opinon against another and so on As someone(SM) very new to this particular site my first impressions are very good compared to other sites i have been on my attitude is that i joined this site to meet and make new friends male and female married or not partners or not. To think that you can just jump into bed with out having some sort of inter action i think some of the SM on here may think is a bit naive i think you have to have the attitude that you will be invited to join a couple if they want not if you want . There ar plenty of ppl on here i think that want to meet SM but on there own terms and i think that is the way it should be.:laughabove:
[quote user=sudsy]Slightly off-topic, but just a quick apology to Fruit! Hun, I totally forgot to say thank you for your lovely post earlier in this thread! Very sweet of you to say those things, and it must have seemed very rude of me not to respond earlier! I did intend to, but I got distracted :crazy:
Suds
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Damn did I miss you getting your cock out! Pooh!! And thanks for noting the detail about you but you were the obvious person to choose to describe xxxx
(Oh - and you're wrong; I'm sorry to say I HAVE been known to get my cock out in the chatroom, just not very often :embarrased2: )[/quote]
Mr Sudsy, i still wanna snog the face off you, lol, and maybe more if your lucky. Only if this is not seen as lowering your standards as to look in my direction.
As for true, im afraid that this thread seems to have made you out to be a bigger twat than you make yourself in the chatroom. Good luck in getting that meet, and as for single men on this site lowering there standards to get meets, i have to say there are a hell of alot of sexy single men on here i would be quite happy if they would lower there standards (as you like to call it) and look at me.
happy hunting true, think you may be doing it for a hell of a lot longer.
xxx
Sexpert
Can I rant about those who click loking for single bi males and then have no singles or no males inthe profile or neither are bi or the male states inthe profile no to bi males.. lol
mixed up bunnys !
oh, Mork not atall, i have seen you on camera and your lovely. I find that nice when you get to see people on cams, shows who they really are and you canalso get the feel of a person better as by there expresions and such when they are typing to you. You do see (and im not saying all of them before you shout at me)alot of single men, either wont go on camera, or if they are on camera they have there cock thrust up at it, as if we all want to just watch someone we aint even chatted to let along seen wank off to the cam. Im sorry but this firstly puts me off a male, and no i wouldnt want to strike up a conversation with a mans cock. Although sometimes the cock will make more sense.
right im off to work now :wave2:
[color="darkred"]What i was saying is that True has a system where he can instantly tell if a couple meet single males or not.
1. Their is an attractive girl in the pictures.
2. The male half doesn't appear in the pictures.
Now we do meet single guys so logic dictates, using Trues 'scoring' system that mindy is not attractive?[/color]
There are pictures of Jay in our private gallery. Neither of us want to show our faces in our public gallery and we find taking 'sexy man' pictures difficult 
??: He's also shown his face on cam in the main room a couple of times. He is certainly on no ego trip, opposite in fact, he mainly wants to watch me have a good time!
??: He's also shown his face on cam in the main room a couple of times. He is certainly on no ego trip, opposite in fact, he mainly wants to watch me have a good time! [color="darkred"][quote user=truescorpio]If I am so wrong then why all the defensiveness?[/quote]
1. We replied to this thread in the first place as your original question is asked in here far too frequently. We just thought we would stick up for the couples in here for a change!
2. We love a good argument.
3. You are wrong!
4. We were bored!
[quote user=truescorpio]And for the record I think Mindy looks lovely[/quote]
Thank you very much! 
(Although you have just proved that your system is flawed!!) lol
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(Although you have just proved that your system is flawed!!) lol
:boxing:[/color] I guess I'm not attractive either true?:upset:
we don't advertise for single guys, but have met 2 now and had the greatest of times!:devil:
When we first joined the site, there was no chance but as we got more experienced, and confident it was something different to try.
We also said we wouldn't full swap, but that wen't out the window at the recent utopia meet, in fact miss cc was watchin over the top of the changing room doors! pmsl
Can I ask a question True? if you were on here as a couple, would you let single guys play with your wife or GF? and if so by what means would you select the right candidate?
( no pressure, think of it as an audition :grin: )[color="darkred"][quote user=truescorpio]One thing I love about this site is how predictable people are, and how easily preconceptions can be shattered
As an individual, I can honestly say that if I was in a full, loving relationship wth a woman then I certainly wouldnt want to share her with anyone, male or female. This is just my personal preference and isnt a slur on any man who would (although judging from the number of couples looking exclusively for women it seems that there are no shortage of insecure men out there needing an ego rub)[/quote]
[quote user=truescorpio]
If I was in a particularly deep and close relationship however then I wouldnt, in fact I wouldnt be swinging at all - but thats just my personal preference and isnt a slur on anyone in this kind of relationship who does choose to swing
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[quote user=truescorpio]So why dont you then explain to me why couples openly looking to invite another man into their bed are so few and far between? If the balance struck me as 50/50 then obviously I wouldnt have any sort of arguement to make[/quote]
[quote user=truescorpio]Because it makes me sad to see perfectly good sockets go to waste[/quote]
Why have you created this whole thread and offended so many people, when bringing another man into bed with you and your loving partener is something you're not willing to entertain??
Surely you've answered your own question??
What if the girl you deeply fell in love with decided it was something she would like to try?
God i love being part of an angry mob! Where's me pitch fork!!![/color]
I think you may have hit the nail on the head as to why we wouldnt want you in bed with us!!! We want people who see eye to eye with us and can understand that we really love each other, and that it turns us on to see each other doing all this stuff... It almost seems like you think what we do indicates a weakness in our relationship, whereas its really a strength.
And as it happens, our only swinging experience other than a meet with a couple and a bit of a kiss and cuddle is with ellie and a young guy, and I wasnt even involved. The fact is it turns me on like crazy to see ellie being naughty with other men, and girls, in fact its such fantasies that got us into swinging in the first place, its just important that people feel about sex how we do...
Jay
[quote user=truescorpio]
Because it makes me sad to see perfectly good sockets go to waste
Whats this doing here?
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[color="darkred"]Merely to prove another point. If you're in a completely loving relationship but you wouldn't want to share her, Surely by your reckoning there are definately sockets going to waste??!
You've completely contradicted yourself in this thread. You can't complain about or pretend not to understand why most couples don't want to invite other men into their beds when you wouldn't yourself![/color]
