TJ u are so not like Mr Bean lol.....way too damn tall for that.
I agree with Fruit...u and Sudsy are 2 of the most respected men on site...although I have to say that 90 % of the single guys on here are very polite and just want a chat, a flirt and if anything happens then fantastic. I have met several single guys now... and they have always been lovely. Maybe if everyone stopped taking this soooo seriously and just had fun it would be better. Swinging is not the be all and end all of life it just spices it up. We all have 'normal' lifes too.
Rant over..........cant wait til weekend !!!
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How rude you are. I don't find it an ill conceived idea at all. It is my opinion, am I not entitled to it? Are you the only person entitled to to an opinion? Because any opinion you don't seem to like or explanations people give you, you seem to shoot down. You don't seem to take on board what people say, it's a case of your right and thats it or some smart arse retort so you can try and score petty points. Part of the swinging scene is having an open mind. As I've said it is about choice, do you think people should amend their choice to include single men if that is not what they are looking for??? How can you disagree with their choice, what do you know about them that makes you an expert at the age of 25!!!
Elvis has left the buliding.
Are we still ranting about single men. lol how about i get about 10 of you up to my flat and i see how much of a rant and rave i can have with you all. Oh lovely jubbly, get yer man bits out for CC.
This is the thread to find a nice single male isnt it.............................lol
God u guys are lucky, i dont get any mail , dont know if thats a good thing or a bad thing, but hey im not complaining.
i have a no single male on my profile, but im really looking forward to meeting sudsy, sooooooo cant wait, but the reason i have no single males on my profile is because i dont want the shit u get in the room, if i want one i know where to look, thats jst my views, everyone has there own rights to do what they want when they want.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Cherese&Colin
may i add as a single guy yes it is true that single guys dont have so much luck so to speak but i can totaly understand why couples and single women say no single guys as certain peple can be overpowering and pushy and if they would just show a little more respect to the couples and single women and get to know them then they may have more uck and meet more people on the site. chat and get to know people true listen and read what has been put on here and take notes it is all what many of us single guys (or once single guys in my case) take to be common sence take notes and learn something from all of the coments
BLOODY HELL This has caused a bit of a stir....:O
ME personally i love single males and females and couples (guess im greedy) :grin:.... But Each person and couple are entitled to their own choices.....TRUE you are a nice guy and i am sure that you will eventually find the right couple or female to meet with......
BUT take heed of the comments made babes people on here are mostly genuine and very nice but unfortunately there are a few that are arseholes and therefore makes it harder for SM to actually be taken seriously.:upset:
I NO i have had a few of them arseholes e-mail me and harass me into meeting them alone (NO NO)
Good luck TRUE Hun hope you finally get what you are looking for...................♥
Big kisses and hugs SEREN xxxxxxx
Sexpert
blah blah blah .... quit gas'in get back to teh shaggin 
[quote user=truescorpio][quote user=morkandmindy][quote user=truescorpio] Wth regards to my 'attitude', it is apparent that you find a man who asserts himself to be threatening? I suppose we'd have more success if we sat quietly up a corner yes?[/quote]
[color="darkred"]Actually I find confidence and assertiveness in a man really attractive.
Arrogance on the other hand is a massive turn off.[/color][/quote]
Cant you just put your responses in one post? Cant keep up with you 
Arrogance: 'I am better than everyone else'
Confidence: 'I am as good as everyone else' (which is the basis of my entire arguement)[/quote]
i can guarantee i'm 100 times more confident than you pal, but i would never act like this. congratulations at alienating yourself from most of the site...
i lol'd
mr pacha
Arrogance: 'I am better than everyone else'
Confidence: 'I am as good as everyone else' (which is the basis of my entire arguement)[/quote]
i can guarantee i'm 100 times more confident than you pal, but i would never act like this. congratulations at alienating yourself from most of the site...
i lol'd
mr pacha [quote user=truescorpio]You misunderstand me Mindy, I never said for one second that single males are OWED anything, my arguement was that I am sick of the attitude toward us as a whole. [/quote]
Fascinating thread. Almost an accusation of racism.
Almost didn't reply as there are so many issues being covered where does one start, and at the end of the day I have no real desire to knock True's chip off his shoulder. However the amount of passion and understanding shown in this thread does prompt it.
In some ways I get True's point. Some people on this site are capable of being pretty unpleasant. When we first joined there was accusations thrown that we were a single male in disguise and it was really quite nasty. Having been on the cam a few times has sorted that, but if True has received some bile then I get it. On the other hand if he is attempting to get some of the males in couples to rethink their position then he is generating more prospects 'for his kind', although the way he has gone about it suggests he has been successful on behalf of sm's other than himself.
I offer our story as one suggestion to True to help him understand some of the couple's perspectives on here, which resonates with other posts in this thread.
We are new to this. Before we came on here we attended some clubs to see how we felt. Bluntly, the behavior of many single males can only be described as 'animal like' and threatening. We discussed at length what we would like to do and the extent to which we feel comfortable, and the fact is that our NSM statement is Mrs. Ci's choice. It represents her own strongest fantasy, as well as being the 'gentle' and 'least threatening' way into the scene. I constantly fantasise about seeing her with another man or men, but at the moment neither of us is confident enough for that. We may never be, and we may drop out of the scene altogether. Or we may be come fully-fledged members, but for now this is OUR chosen way in, it is not about my ego. I suspect that many if not most couples start out like us.
Mr. CI
[quote user=truescorpio][quote user=pacha][quote user=truescorpio][quote user=morkandmindy][quote user=truescorpio] Wth regards to my 'attitude', it is apparent that you find a man who asserts himself to be threatening? I suppose we'd have more success if we sat quietly up a corner yes?[/quote]
[color="darkred"]Actually I find confidence and assertiveness in a man really attractive.
Arrogance on the other hand is a massive turn off.[/color][/quote]
Cant you just put your responses in one post? Cant keep up with you
Arrogance: 'I am better than everyone else'
Confidence: 'I am as good as everyone else' (which is the basis of my entire arguement)[/quote]
i can guarantee i'm 100 times more confident than you pal, but i would never act like this. congratulations at alienating yourself from most of the site...
i lol'd
mr pacha[/quote]
Aww, so glad I could put a smile on your face mr pacha, after all, if I'd been here over a year and hadnt had a single meet I'd be in need of a laugh too! :wank:[/quote]
excuse me...?
Arrogance: 'I am better than everyone else'
Confidence: 'I am as good as everyone else' (which is the basis of my entire arguement)[/quote]
i can guarantee i'm 100 times more confident than you pal, but i would never act like this. congratulations at alienating yourself from most of the site...
i lol'd
mr pacha[/quote]
Aww, so glad I could put a smile on your face mr pacha, after all, if I'd been here over a year and hadnt had a single meet I'd be in need of a laugh too! :wank:[/quote]
excuse me...? 
well we have met a few single guys and most have been quite good and polite ,but one when he arrived was asked if he wanted drink and while mr mark6y was geting his drink proceeded to jump on mrs mark6y totaly shocking her some etiquette he had then he couldnt get it up ,now we know nerves can happen but surely in this day and age there are things that can help .also the amount of single guys who turn up without condoms,also when some have comments on their profiles such as 'show me the woman a man sleeps with and i will tell you his self valuation ' does this mean if he doesnt fancy your mrs you are of low self esteem, maybe seeing this attitude is one of the reasons why singles do find it hard to get meets .also some tend to give the attitude they can give what obviously the male cant give to his partner, we find most couples on here use this to add another aspect to their already complete sex life not suplement it .also as is said this is a couples thing and for mutual satisfaction so why is there a problem with couples saying no singles .:bounce: True why don`t you put no married couples on your profile and strike a blow the single males you think you are standing up for. Me personally I dont care as long as I can have a bit of banter with the couples in the chatroom I`m happy,each to there own I say.
Anyway you must be well pleased with the response to this thread you certainly rattled a few cages which I suspect was your motive .
[quote]What I want to know is, why are single males excluded so often?[/quote]
Once and for all True............
Its personal choice.
Simple
End of
If a couple want a single male fine. If they don't.... fine. If they want a couple, fine. If they don't... fine.
Its no of your business who wants what and ALL single men should accept that as a fact of life.
Preference is human nature!
Sex God
wot the fuck??? :fuckinghell:
wot i missed ere then?? :O
cant see and cant read...........wheres the 
pics??? :laughabove:
funkyD xx:P
pics??? :laughabove:
funkyD xx:P What precisely are you trying to achieve here true :doh:
Think you'll find that none of us want these heavy debates and want to have fun outside the stress we all have in the outside world. You seem obsessed with trying to wind everyone up constantly.
Please do stop hun, it's not nice or at all funny. 
Mrs C xxx
Mrs C xxx [quote user=ceylon1]What precisely are you trying to achieve here true :doh:
Think you'll find that none of us want these heavy debates and want to have fun outside the stress we all have in the outside world. You seem obsessed with trying to wind everyone up constantly.
Please do stop hun, it's not nice or at all funny.
Mrs C xxx[/quote]
LOL...get him to come to the Southern Social...we can all put him right then!! :bounce:
Mrs C xxx[/quote]
LOL...get him to come to the Southern Social...we can all put him right then!! :bounce: Oh dear god... the time I have just spent reading this thread is time I will never get back.
I'm sorry, but this just seems a completely pointless debate to me (but of course that is only [b]MY[/b] opinion). Who cares if peeps prefer to meet single girls, single males, couples, groups, whatever. We all have our own preferences and have the god given right to chose who we do/don't want to meet. And why should ANYONE have to justify their reasons????
I love a good serious debate as much as the next person, but some of the threads posted on here (I am not mentioning names :wink) just seem designed to wind people up on purpose. Why oh WHY do this? To me this site is about having fun and chatting to some like minded people and getting to know them via the forums, the chatroom or socials. Whether or not I meet them is completely my choice, whether they be singles, couples or bleedin aliens!!!
I personally think that ANYONE who likes baked beans are complete loons as they are the most disgusting things ever invented. How about we discuss this instead??? Now THAT would be so much more fun....:haha:
:giggle::rotflmao::giggle::rotflmao:
:bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce:
:giggle::rotflmao::giggle::rotflmao:
:bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce: 
Sex God
:laughabove::laughabove::laughabove:
not mad keen on beans myself but...
vegemite!!!
what is that all about? :crazy:
vegemite!!!
what is that all about? :crazy: [quote user=truescorpio]
.... nice guys finish last.[/quote]
Nonsense True! It's aggravating and annoying guys that finish last, or don't even leave the starting blocks.
Humour me for a week!! Just change your tack and inject some funny stuff, senseless even but have a laugh if you are going to use the forum. I bet you in a week you will have more interest in you as a swinger than ever before.
Paul...:bounce:
