During chat, I commented how by "saying get ya tits out", and "show me your pussy" isn't the way to go about getting a woman to chat to you.
I was then told to mind my own business and piss off, I didn't tell anybody not to do or to do anything.
It was disrupting a conversation, It was just an obsevation, not a dig at anyone.
So you know who you are and i'm only trying to help fellow single guys like myself.
I know i'm not perfect or even close, but at least I have manners!
Post edited 27-02-2006 9:57
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Nice guys finish last.......again!
good for you matt - and the person who told you to piss off needs to get a life, or find himself a girlfriend or two! Your quite right to say what you did,and people will always respect you more for it - keep up the good work, and keep this place safe for all of us
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Sexlightened
Go for it Matt! Excellent work! You keep saying it! For every idiot who tells you to shut up there will be ten of us who say GO FOR IT!
(Should you want to make an abuse report about the people who told you to "piss off" I for one would be more than glad to sort it for you!)
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[quote user=matt21]During chat, I commented how by "saying get ya tits out", and "show me your pussy" isn't the way to go about getting a woman to chat to you.
I was then told to mind my own business and piss off, I didn't tell anybody not to do or to do anything.
It was disrupting a conversation, It was just an obsevation, not a dig at anyone.
So you know who you are and i'm only trying to help fellow single guys like myself.
I know i'm not perfect or even close, but at least I have manners!
Post edited 27-02-2006 9:57[/quote]
Well done Matt :clap: :clap: :clap: I for one chatted to you in the room this morning, and I found you to be an exceptionally switched on guy. So please don't worry about the idiot and a :wank:er in fact if you remember his user name go to his profile and put an abuse report in so the mods can deal with it please.
I also agree one hundred percent with Ej as usual only cause I Luv her :lick: :lick: :lick
Seriously Ej is right and she knows mine and many other "normal" male peeps sentiments about the subject on the site
Sexpert
Hey Matt,
Good on you buddy !! I hate rude and disrespectful people too - its just unfortunate it happens to be single guys too and it gives the nice guys a bad name.
Its also unfortunate that in trying to help people sometimes you will also be seen as interfering by some small minded individuals ..... which leaves you thinking ' why do i bother ? ' etc plus its easier to just say nothing.
Well i have always been a bit of a bastian to help to try and keep this room full of nice people and to look out for people but a recent development has made me a tad more wary in the room.... and altho it goes against evrything i stand for .... i think in future i will be standing by and letting people make their own mistakes in future and letting them get on with it and learn the hard way. I always thought it was better to learn thro others peoples mistakes but i must have been mistaken ..... well wise people learn thro others peoples mistakes..... i will just let the rest learn for themselves !! lol xxx
I am a honest, upfront person and i expect the same in return but i suppose its unrealistic to expect that returned with some people.... especially if they have something to hide etc. As cop said .... its always better to just report abuse and let admin deal with it as getting involved yourself usually leads to more grief than it is worth.
Not too worry tho Matt as i am sure you will always try to be on good terms with as many people as possible while knowing we can't all get on with everyone.
Keep the faith mate and have fun !!! lol xxxxxxx
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Post edited 27-02-2006 13:47
Well said, i hate rude and disrespectful people and that really pisses me off, i have always treated everyone in this room the sam level of curtisy, trespect and honesty and unfotunat ther are a lot ot false , rude, liars in here and sooner they get kicked out the bettere this room witll be for everyone.
Top man yourself Matt! As a fellow campaigner for better behaviour from single men, I support you entirely, and I'm sorry you had to put up with a barrage of stick back. What more can you say about these guys? Pathetic, sad losers.....and that's putting it politely!
Don't let it put you off though mate. It's good to see guys like yourself speak their mind in chat. Take cop's advice; if it happens to you again, send an abuse report. That way, the tosser who hurled the abuse at you will quickly be indicated of the error of his ways!
Look forward to catching up with you in chat.
Cat.
