Right , I have had a hell of a few days, lots of thinking has been done and now Me and Andy are sorted at last .
We were gonna leave the site, but now we are not. Having been given a brotherly lecture by a fellow site member who I consider to be a very good friend. He has managed to set my brain straight, which is no mean feat. So thankyou , you know who you are.
I have now remembered that all this is meant to be fun, something which I had forgotten. Andy has been telling me, but with him being my hubby I wasnt listening !! We are a couple and we will stay a couple. When we first joined this site, it was slightly different to how it is now. There are some lovely people on site but also some not so nice. I am now not gonna upset myself over what these not so nice ones say. Many a times over the last few weeks I have been in tears over comments about my size, face, looks etc. I haven't told anyone cos thats not me, but from now on I will. The majority of you guys are fantastic friends who know more about me and Andy than our close normal friends.
So i'm afriad you are stuck with us. Andy will be in the chatroom more often with me to start, please be gentle with him as he cant keep up like me ( he is a man after all ).
Ok epic finished. Love you guys, esp my surrogate brother who gave me a good talking to this afternoon.
Sue xxxxxxxxx and Andy xxxxxxx
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Sue,
We are so pleased you are staying and that you will be here as a couple more in future. Honest hunnie there are some not so nice peeps everywhere in life, the best way is to ignore them and enjoy the good uns hun.
Russ and I had a great time with you at MK, shopping, eating, drinking and having a laugh. You are a star hunnie and we are always here for you, you know that.
Take stock now babes and realise that it was just one of lifes tough experiences that will make you stronger. As for peeps slagging you off, sometimes you wonder what they see in the mirror lol.
Chin up
love jules and russ xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
well it sounds like you have had some very horrible and hurtfull things said about you from ppl that dont know if you can call them that are just shallow and will never get anywhere on this site or anywhere you have decided to stay on the site we need the good ppl like yourselves to stay here and the idiots to leave xxxxxxxxxx
Warming the Bed
so happy to see ur staying need to keep us fellow scots here lol
Sue & Andy
We are so glad that you guys have decided to stay, we've spoken on here since we started and you guys has always welcomed us with open arms. We had the pleasure finally meeting at the MK meet and what a lovely couple you guys are. Don't worry what people think or say, you know who your true friends are on here and they will stick by you guys.
WELCOME BACK XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Casanova
Wonderful news.
xxx
Casanova
seems to me that these days there seems to be an underlying current of nastiness on the site... in my view if you cant be nice about someone then just dont say or whisper anything... and if you cant shut up and say nothing then get off SP :fury:
There isn't much better in this life than finding a way to spend a few hours in conversation with people you respect and love. You have to carve this time out of your life because you aren't really living without it.
in the mean time Sue dont let the bastards grind you down hun.......
respectdue xxxx
Glad to hear your sticking around Puss
you've been a member far too long to let immature dickheads get to you, you should only give them a moment of sympathy for the sad lives they must lead, then not another thought.
Your right things have changed around here but the good still well out number the bad eh X
Sal :rainbow:
[quote user=radiohead]Glad to hear your sticking around Puss
you've been a member far too long to let immature dickheads get to you, you should only give them a moment of sympathy for the sad lives they must lead, then not another thought.
Your right things have changed around here but the good still well out number the bad eh X
Sal :rainbow:[/quote]
I agree 100%
I know I am very quiet on the site, and the majority on the site don't know me, but I have been here for over a year now and watched some of these dickheads strut their stuff. They are not funny, not clever and must have very sad lives.
It makes me mad as hell to think that nice people like you are upset by their antics.
When we used to swing as a couple, we had some rocky moments caused by small minded people, it takes time to get over it but you do I promise.
Just remember you are who you are, and you should be proud of that.
Also the good people on this site will always outnumber these fools.
