Apologise for my rant, but currently the member of the month is a young couple with pics of an attractive lady on many of the pics.
They only joined last month!!!
Sorry but why o why on earth is this couple member of the month??????????????
Have they contributed to the chat room so much or the forums that everyone thinks they are the best of the best in current members. Is their profile full of lovely comments saying how lovely there are. NO. All it is in MY opinion because the female is stunning with a young fit body.
Sorry but I feel this totally wrong and they have been voted on face value possibly alone.
I think member of the month should be people who continue to contribute to the chat room and the forums and go out of their way to arrange group socials or club spend the time searching for a good deal on clubs and find accomodation for us all and try to get a discount,
Now those ate my member of the monthe on SP, change the rules on this to people who actually deserve it, not just for a fit young lady.
No offence to the attractive lady in discussion tho xxx
Fruit xxxx
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Sexpert
[color="olive"]Funny thing is Sid said, whilst perving the gallery, that they would be members of the month this month about 2 weeks ago! We're not complaining though! :clap::bounce:
You're right in a way though Fruit, there should be a better system. Problem is how would you make it fair for all members? Not everyone likes the chatroom and hardly anyone uses the forums. It would be really difficult to avoid starting another popularity contest and that never ends well!
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[/color] Understand where you are coming from Fruitie...xxx
We see MoM as more a voting contest by the predominant single guys on any site ie. 'who I would want to fuck? given half a chance!'...lol
However, it is unfortunate for those voters that Jemma and Dwyane are not seeking in that particular ballpark and clearly it is not their fault in any shape or fashion to be tagged as MoM...xx
Jemma and Dwyane are a lovely looking couple and best of luck to them and those that are sexy enough to get bedded with them...
Take care Fruitie, Jemma and Dwyane...have lots of fun xxx
Sexpert
[color="olive"][quote user=fruitmedley] I think member of the month should be people who continue to contribute to the chat room and the forums and go out of their way to arrange group socials or club spend the time searching for a good deal on clubs and find accomodation for us all and try to get a discount. [/quote]
The other problem is who would police/judge it? The Mods have got more than enough to do, there would be hundreds of complaints if Admin set up a league system and if you left it down to the members they would just vote for their friends?
Anyone who has been on this site for any duration knows that m.o.m is a complete sham anyway! lol
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:boxing:[/color] I do agree with you Fruit in a way. I think maybe a way to monitor it could be that you needed to be established and have comments in order to qualify to become MoTM.
I mean there are a lot of successful peeps on here that do not actively take part in the chatroom or forums so you couldn't really use that as a qualifying tool.
Just my tuppence worth...
Sex God
i can undastand where ur all cumin from....
wot i wanna kno is.....how cum wen i got it......i got lousy february.....the fooooookin shortest month!!????:doh:
funky nutta xx:P
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:rotflmao: Sex God
iv neva seen the new MOM b4.....lol
and theyv not bin on in 2 weeks.......and daddy ur jus tryin to get ur leg ova a young bird!!.....:rotflmao:
:rotflmao: when i saw the motm my first thought was who the f*ck are they as i can ever recall seeing them in the chatroom.i did ask in the chatroom if anyone had seen them and surprise surprise nobody said they i have no problem at all if the motm is a cpl with a stunning body etc but its annoying when the ppl have been on the site less than a month ,appear to have met nobody and nobody knows the motm should go to ppl that contribute to the site and are frequent visitors to the chat offence to this months motm its not there fault at all i'm sure they are a very nice cpl and we wish them well on the site
Orgasminator
I did a post very simular to this about 6 months ago lol
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[color="darkred"]Can admin note on my part i never want to be motm, i hear it sucks big time and you get sooooo many stupid emails or in reversal people asume your the couple that have shagged the most people on the site 
and that deffinatly isnt us 
dam! somone come shag uuuuuus 
but back to fruit i agree i logged on earlier and very weirdly said to mark im sure its been a month since the clowns were on have they been voted again for this month but obviously not its a couple that weve never seen before and a very lush women with her boobies out :D 'thanks god for boobies' dont think id get through the day without seeing a pair
and lastly how come its not 1st-30th/31st it changes on the 5th :S bit wierd aint it?[/color]
[color="violet"]luff tiffy and mark ...but mostly tiffy :D:D xxxxxxxxxx[/color]
and that deffinatly isnt us dam! somone come shag uuuuuus but back to fruit i agree i logged on earlier and very weirdly said to mark im sure its been a month since the clowns were on have they been voted again for this month but obviously not its a couple that weve never seen before and a very lush women with her boobies out :D 'thanks god for boobies' dont think id get through the day without seeing a pair
and lastly how come its not 1st-30th/31st it changes on the 5th :S bit wierd aint it?[/color]
[color="violet"]luff tiffy and mark ...but mostly tiffy :D:D xxxxxxxxxx[/color] Orgasminator
The worst part is, that as MOTM anyone who clicks on the site sees your pics, you dont even have to sign in. So people bored surfing click on the site and theres a picture of you looking for all the world like a swinging representative. Lets hope family and friends dont get too bored eh! lol
[quote user=tiffany_mark][color="darkred"]Can admin note on my part i never want to be motm, i hear it sucks big time and you get sooooo many stupid emails or in reversal people asume your the couple that have shagged the most people on the site and that deffinatly isnt us dam! somone come shag uuuuuus but back to fruit i agree i logged on earlier and very weirdly said to mark im sure its been a month since the clowns were on have they been voted again for this month but obviously not its a couple that weve never seen before and a very lush women with her boobies out :D 'thanks god for boobies' dont think id get through the day without seeing a pair
and lastly how come its not 1st-30th/31st it changes on the 5th :S bit wierd aint it?[/color]
[color="violet"]luff tiffy and mark ...but mostly tiffy :D:D xxxxxxxxxx[/color][/quote]
Thanks fruity hun but we have already been MOM and yes it did suck lol. We always feel sorry for the people who are voted on nowadays and think, oh dear wonder if their mailbox looks like a cock forest yet! :haha:
Ok we're off for our break now lol :bolt: Sexpert
[color="olive"]Well i'm sure that Jemma and Dwayne are feeling really great now! Lets hope this thread hasn't put them off completely!
The fact that they do not use the chat room or the forums doesn't make them any less deserving or geniune![/color]
Stop it all of you, You're talking about the woman I love 
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She's purdy :inlove:..... and they live in Bristol - only minutes from my house... Now all I have to do is change myself into a bi woman.... hmmmm, may need help there...
but I can see your point... They have been on here for 2 minutes, not really contributed to the community (other than those breasts - thank you for bringing them too us)...
On the other hand, they received the most votes... Maybe someone should suggest a criteria for eligibility for MotM?? Nomination by an established member or something......
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She's purdy :inlove:..... and they live in Bristol - only minutes from my house... Now all I have to do is change myself into a bi woman.... hmmmm, may need help there...
but I can see your point... They have been on here for 2 minutes, not really contributed to the community (other than those breasts - thank you for bringing them too us)...
On the other hand, they received the most votes... Maybe someone should suggest a criteria for eligibility for MotM?? Nomination by an established member or something......
DD Its all a ploy for the free members to encourage them to pay,
Take a look at your homepage. Heres the poeple who will interest me (or who SP thinks will interest me)
Beachman - free member, no pics
Stillplaying - free member, no pics
Billbo - free member, no pics
corkhotcouple - free members, no pics
geordiecuple - free members, no pics
Now tell me, why would any of these people interest me, in the slightest, for starters free members, shall i use telepathy to talk to them. No pics, im not into folks looks, as im not that kind of person (look at me exes), but i still dont want to meet a shrek look-a-like(no offence princess fiona, each to there own).
Also MoM is never anyone that dont have facial shots on there profile, so unless you want your mug of public display for all to see then fat chance of getting it. and no i dont want to be MoM thank you very much.
Rant over, i shall go back to me tea now.
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xxx Sex God
[quote user=miss_ccrider]Its all a ploy for the free members to encourage them to pay,
Take a look at your homepage. Heres the poeple who will interest me (or who SP thinks will interest me)
Beachman - free member, no pics
Stillplaying - free member, no pics
Billbo - free member, no pics
corkhotcouple - free members, no pics
geordiecuple - free members, no pics
Now tell me, why would any of these people interest me, in the slightest, for starters free members, shall i use telepathy to talk to them. No pics, im not into folks looks, as im not that kind of person (look at me exes), but i still dont want to meet a shrek look-a-like(no offence princess fiona, each to there own).
Also MoM is never anyone that dont have facial shots on there profile, so unless you want your mug of public display for all to see then fat chance of getting it. and no i dont want to be MoM thank you very much.
Rant over, i shall go back to me tea now.
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u moanin agen.....:rotflmao:
i luved bein MOM.....i did get lots of mail but most of it was off peeps congratulatin me!!
and cus im a vain foooooka i luved clickin on and seein my bod there.....:rotflmao::rotflmao:
funky nutta xx:P
hey sexy cc.....luv ya!!:rose:
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u moanin agen.....:rotflmao:
i luved bein MOM.....i did get lots of mail but most of it was off peeps congratulatin me!!
and cus im a vain foooooka i luved clickin on and seein my bod there.....:rotflmao::rotflmao:
funky nutta xx:P
hey sexy cc.....luv ya!!:rose: Funks, you know me, nothing like a good old moan these days. Think i need me bed :) and not for a good kip, wink wink
Im just glad all my pics are post baby, or is that a con to anyone who may meet me now. Note to self go and take pics of the jelly belly now, so they can go in gallery so as not to lure people into a false sense of security :)
xxx The plot is getting thicker .... how come the photos for the 'new' MoM have only just recently been 'added' yet they have had already over 550 viewings? Not that I am jealous or having a go (never spoken to Princess but am sure she is very nice) but for other members surely this smacks underhand tactics or ulterior motives??
P.S Admin - can you at least respond to our previous query on voting numbers, give us some guidance on how this can happen or tell us where we can get the info????
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P&H
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P&H Its pretty simple really, any member can vote once, whoever gets the most votes over the month gets to be MOTM. Its hardly surprising that newer members often get voted in as they appear in the 'Newest' categories on the right and will most likely get more attention while they are new, its even less surprising that the attractive ones get more votes.
One other thing that strikes me is there's complaints about people that do things such as participate in chat not getting MOTM, well if people don't vote for them they never will, can all of those having a rant above honestly say that they vote every month?
