We had MOTM in our first month here ... ok we were using the chatroom and cam regularly but it was something we weren't comfortable with and were more than surprised about. I think jels bells is right, mostly pic collectors do the voting, but that's not to have a go at the people who genuinly vote for the right reasons. As there's no proper criteria for this "acolade" then things won't change ... but do we care? do we fook! lol
Well said nancy :lickface::clap:
well sed folks....we shud at least get a prize......or a booby prize......mmmmmm can i hav urs sexy 40???
we have never voted and don't see the point really of being motm,but one question i do have......if you are voted to be motm do you have to take up that position so to speak or do you have the right to refuse?
hmmm interesting... you know what I think its an automatic thing, I guess you would have to complain to get motm removed.
surely not everyone would want all their pics on display on the home page for all to see,perhaps one way would be to put all your pics in a private gallery that would put the spanner in the works lol
Sexy bays you are right ... we didn't want to be on the front page and people should be given the choice, but unless people complain it isn't going to change I guess. Some people are happy with it and that's cool but it's not something we would welcome again let me tell you lol xxx
I know when I first joined 3 years ago (now where did that time go?!) there used to be a opt out of MOTM box somewhere on the profile settings. Just had a look for it but can't find it - maybe it went in the 'new/improved' look we got earlier this year?
Firstly a very good and valid point, we underwent being member of the month the first month we joined, and felt very honoured made us feel very welcome and that we at last had found a friendly site that wasn't rude to new cummers, this in turn encouraged us to join the chatroom as often as we could and enter into commenting on the forum offering thanks for such alovely welcome.
So guess it had the right effect for us and welike to think since joining we have contributed to the site and chatrooms so although it may be wrong sometimes for us it was right.
we now love this site and have made many good friends and hope to make many many more.
hope my thoughts dont offend
see you all at MK4
Del xx
Del.....nice to see another point of view,glad it had a positive effect on you both,and carry on enjoying the site xxx
hey sexy peeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeps........
i dunno why iv got it agen, and im really sad that midgie as left us cus i was really good friends wiv her on ere in the short time we'v bin chattin!!
im not gonna say im not pleased that iv got it, cus i am, i luv bein mom!!
even if it is sloppy seconds....lol
but i do contribute alot in ere and in the chatroom and i do my upmost to help and welcum newbies.....
i kno sum peeps wont b pleased that i got it, but hey i cant vote for meself.....yeah iv tried.....lol
but who really givs a toss about mom anyway....obviously not alot of u from wot iv read in ere!!
soooooooo i apologize agen for midgie goin, (i jus hope shes ok......) and 2 u lot 4 gettin my ugly mug everytime u log on!!
pleased but a ikkle bit sad too funky nutta xx:P
ickle funky...dont be sad hun,
funks dont be sad babes she be back xxx
thanks bay, yes we loving the site very friendly hehe xxxxxx
Hey we too are sorry midgieeeeeeeeee has gone, but lets hope she will come back soon. Well well well funky motm,
what can we say congratulations funky. well we do vote when its some one who adds to the site not just free members, and we did vote for katndel cozzz they sexy.
one day we will have a male as member of the month.????
oooh cc WE LOV YOU.
PORKY N PIES
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coz i dont want be motm ok :happy::happy::happy::happy::P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:
Funks - just to reassure you, Midgie's fine. I chat to her regularly and she's perfectly happy. It is a shame she's gone, and I miss her loads like most of us do, but she had her reasons.
Suds
I luv you too Porkies, and congratulations Funks, you do have nice pics and i dont mind looking at them when i log in.
I dont vote for MOM to be honest i have to say i think its a bit of a scam too. It seems as a few of have said you get it on your first month of joining. Funny that. (I know this aint the case with you Funks, Its just cause your special and as you say do make peeps most welcome on the site)
I wouldnt want it and i wouldnt get it as i dont have facial pics on my Public gallery and so therefore wouldnt get picked anyway as they dont want boring pics on there to show the free members. They only put the sexy ones on so the free members are more tempted to cough up money and join.
Miss cc
XXX
P.S Funks i like the one of you in the bath...............kinky.
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i also hate the way these threads go funny and hand off the edge of the screen,
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All I want to say is that the MOTM,up until a few days ago was Midgie,but she has now left the site probably due to all the hassle,& now I miss her all you buffoons.
thankyou porkies u sexy too mwah xx
well we read all the replies with interest but we love to know if we did win mom we have the chance to say no ty as we do not what our pics all over the site.. and as someone said surely it,s about the most helpful people and friendles not who the single guys like to shag the who ever mention about the profile have something in it to say no please tell us were it is
At the end of the day no one can help being "voted" motm .... just as we couldn't in our first month here. It creates bad feeling (although that's just a narrow minded few) ... an option as to whether to accept or not would be a good thing .. but hey ho we've all still got all our fingers and toes :giggle:
Well fukkas when i win M.O.T.M. I will accept the award wiv the dignity that the award deserves...........Just one thing wtf do i have to do to get man of the match on here.:haha::haha:
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We have never understood the member of the month thing. For the majority it always seems to be people that we have never heard of. We have always voted for peeps that we have met in the room and seem really nice and have hot pics, and that does not always come down to the girlie being a hottie. How can so many people vote for peeps they don;t know or have never heard of??
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That's just the point seduction .... are people actually voting or are darker forces at work here? ...... whooooooooo!
We always thought there were darker forces....lol.
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