Its something i`ve always found difficult to answer,but how do you peeps know when your in LOVE.
Ok so i`ve been out with a few girls/guys,had the tumble in bed,but never had a long enough relationship to say \"I Love You\".
Yes I have friends in here I Love,but thats it,nothing else.
What i want to know is how does it make you feel,why do you stay with the \"person\" you love,is it just the sex or does the earth shake when there around(is that an earthquake).
It must be me,I`ve obviously not met the right person yet.
Hope I get some answers to my problem,or I`ll be lonely in the ground(Hell here I Come).
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All I can say debbie.. is I met chip via text messaging. I used to look forward to his texts more and more each day and really missed him if I hadn\'t heard from him first thing in the morning. We hadn\'t even met when I knew I loved him - but when he came down to stay with me for a few days I didnt want him to go home...
..but I knew I truely loved him when I uprooted my children and myself from everyone I knew and moved 200 miles to be with him. And I still think I made the right choice! :smug:
Debbie.,. I am a firm believer in the old saying that when your not looking for it you will find it.
PS....we luvs ya!! :rose:
what can i say babes, apart from what i know and that is love hurts. but in saying that, that is from my own experience and not talking for other people.
i have been in love with two people in my life, the first went wrong.
The second, took a long while for me to fall for, but unfortunatly i did (wish now i hadnt). I have to admit it takes a while to get over someone that you love and care for and you get that strange feeling when they call and you hear from.
I love being in love but wont be doing it again for a very long time.
Cos when your hurt so bad it takes time to heal.
But you know what, i love all you guys on site cause alot of you have been there when i needed it.
not saying anymore, but debbs, you will know when you are in love,
Miss cc
xxxx
Hmmmmm now where to start??......
We met at 15yrs old on a blind date at a local swimming pool, organised by mutual friends. For N it was lust at first sight - Jel was blonde, had great boobs and was fit from synchro swimming for town... N on the other hand was a metal head, had long hair, a bobble hat, RAF great coat and any redeeming qualities seemed to be humourous!!... :bounce:
From that intial social meet we played at boyf/girlf with other mates and in the process were bestest of friends until 18yrs old when we became the \'item\' that others knew us to be...lol
Engaged at 20, married at 23, kids at 25 and after 25yrs marriage looked back and asked each other \'would we still be together if we were able to go back in time and start over again\', answer was YES...
We have always thought alike...share a passion for music, travel and new experiences...and together we now swing, so life is good for us!!!
Take care, have fun
Jel & N
xxx
That is a very hard question to answer. I met Jeanne via an internet dating site. We spent two weeks of chatting online, emails, texts and on the phone. I then asked her out but already knew that I\'d fallen for her.
After that first date I knew I\'d found someone special and I relocated to Chelmsford and rented a house for us and her son, all within the first 2 weeks of meeting. Was it too quick, possibly but there were extenuating circumstances, like Jeanne was in an unhappy marriage when I met her.
Out relationship hasn\'t been easy, we\'ve had our problems, but 5 years in and we\'re still together.
So, to answer your question, love is...
...having that special someone which you have a spiritual connection. We know each other really well and know what the other is thinking.
...having someone to talk too when things get back and won\'t judge you.
...still being together no matter how tough things get.
...someone who wants you as a person not just what you can give them.
...someone who is happy just to have a kiss and a cuddle.
Good luck in the hunt Debbie.
Carl
Debbie that is a hard one and i think for everyone its different. I cant even speak for chris when i say this but i know i\'m in love, the signs are like flashing neon ones for me!
We\'ve been together 18 years now and still to this day i want to know what he\'s thinking, how he is, what will he do next, when will he touch me, when will he lie next to me. If we end up having sex then fantastic but thats not the be all and end all of me and chris. He has hurt his back to catch me when i\'ve slipped, he\'ll die before he lets anything happen to me, he buys me flowers just because i\'m beautiful. With him i have no doubts that i am safe The man saw me give birth (3 times) and knows me like no other. He \'gets\' me in a way i dont get myself. Its like he\'s the other half of me and i adore him ... to me this is love.
He keeps me wanting more Debbie and to know more, if you find that then grab it with both hands and do whatever it takes to keep hold of it coz its fabulous.
xxxxxxxxx your old romantic friend, kc xxxxxxxxx
Hi Debbie, you ask of LOVE? mmm it like a whirlwind, it grabs your heart, it hurts, but in a good way. Allan and I been togeteher since we were 16, married at 21 and still together after 27 years. We have been through EVERYTHING, but we talk, talk, talk. Had the children, and giving each other trust and space to do our own thing. Don\'t know how we got through the other end sometimes, but we did, we share lots of interests and when i\'m away i know i can\'t wait to see him again. Being away makes the returning even more passionate. there is a lot of passion and trust in our relationship. Good Luck x
[quote user=kcmanc]Debbie that is a hard one and i think for everyone its different. [/quote]
Kc is right there, it is different for everyone.
We have been together since we were 16, we have had good time and bad ones but we have always made it through. We spend alot of time talking to each other cos its the only way to find out things and sort problems out. We are more in love now then we were 18 years ago when we first met. Jayne gave us a beautiful daughter 3 years ago, and that has made us even stronger. We can even finish off each other sentences, and know when there is something bothering the other person. You know when the person you meet is the right person as its a different feeling all together.
So don\'t worry yet if you haven\'t found your soul mate, the person is just round the corner. You tend to find the right person when you least expect it, so don\'t try and look to hard.
Sexlightened
I ain’t a romantic sap or anything, but to me, it’s knowing someone, and them knowing me. Understand and accepting all my little imperfections. Knowing that I get craggy in the mornings cause I like me bed too much, or the fact I never remember to replace the loo roll when it runs out, and loving me anyways. Love makes you feel warm and fuzzy whenever you’re with them, that thing that makes ya heart groan when you’re not, but the miles never really separate you, cause you know they are yours and you can wait.
wow i love questions like this lol
i met jim on a night out down the local with mates, i had just finished work at the pub an was ready for a night out i had had a few drinks an was waxing my friends face(yes a male) when jim walked in, i had only met him once b4 so only sort of new him, i thought wow your FIT so called him over an he watched me carry on waxing this lad, we played pool flirtied an i done nothing but laugh with him all night we had lots to drink a had a great night an since that date almost 5 yrs ago he has never left my side!!
i have been married b4 an so has jim but what i feel for jim i never ever felt for the man i married!! i thought i was in love then but i now no i wasnt(i was very young then)
jim is my life an soul he makes me laugh everyday an everytime he walks into the same room as me my heart lights up, even if im doing the ironing an he has had a shower it makes me smile to see him, he knows me better than i know me, we make love everyday an it makes me tigle every time too, in the time we been together he has given me beuitful kids an had a go at me when i was in full labour!! telling me hurry up an stop having contractions over the bonnet of the car in the carpark!!!!
when you find love debs hun you will know it hits you like a bolt of lightening
someone said \'love will find you when your not looking for it\' such a true saying too!!
luv ya xxxxxxx
jen xxx
Not going to go on too much and bore you babe! For me being in love means you can be yourself! Me and Chad have been together 14yrs and married for 12. We still laugh all the time into the wee hours over silly childish things. We still kiss and cuddly very often and as for the sex (well thats a total new thread on its own hehe). We are completely relaxed and at home with each other, yet still make the effort to look and smell good too! You should never lose sight of those little things.
Some people think if your marraige is so perfect then why do you swing. We both have a high sex drive and love to explore and experiment with certain boundaries and found we could do this together. This is a whole new journey and to be honest we arn\'t on this planet long enough not to have a go at it allllll 
loads love
Lilly :love:
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Lilly :love: :inlove:thats a great question not just about lovin someone its about being in love .i love all my mates on here ,but i\'m so in love with scott .i\'ve been with scott for 5 yrs now both second marriages for the 2 off us and i now know the first one was wrong coz i never had these feelings before i meet scott. scott works niteshift hence me being on my own a lot on here but the 2 days he does get off we are together all the time always cuddling,kissing and just being there for each other when i know he is on his way home from work i get butterflys in ma tummy always keep the spark there by naughty text messages and live every day 2 the full . plus after failed ivf scott gave me my princess and i thank him so much for that i got 2 be a mummy at last :rose: there is someone out here for you debbie u will know when u meet them .:inlove: ye mate janice:angel:
[quote user=miss_ccrider]what can i say babes, apart from what i know and that is love hurts. but in saying that, that is from my own experience and not talking for other people.
i have been in love with two people in my life, the first went wrong.
The second, took a long while for me to fall for, but unfortunatly i did (wish now i hadnt). I have to admit it takes a while to get over someone that you love and care for and you get that strange feeling when they call and you hear from.
I love being in love but wont be doing it again for a very long time.
Cos when your hurt so bad it takes time to heal.
But you know what, i love all you guys on site cause alot of you have been there when i needed it.
not saying anymore, but debbs, you will know when you are in love,
Miss cc
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Evertime I read this I get a tear in my thank you for your input,Love Debbie xxxx.
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i luv ya sexy deb xxxxx
funkyD xx:P
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and listenin to fucka naggin.........hehehehe
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LOVE... when it finds you it comes in all diffrent forms, And when you do find it, its diffrent for all of us.
Debbie.. I was on my own for 10 yrs after my 1st marrige ( which i knew from the start wasn't love was just to young ) in tho's 10 yrs i knew i would find love one day and when i did i wasn't letting it go...
Si came into my life, the 1st time i met him i knew he was the one, the feeling i felt deep in my tummy told me this. he asked me to marry him after only 1 month of knowing each other ( some said i was mad for saying yes ).
Love isnt easy, the first part is exciting, lust, butterflies in ur tummy, but that wears of then ur left with "Real" love thats the kind of love that needs spark, learning, listening,giving and most of all understanding. when you have that you have true love.
Things can come along and test the love you have but when its TRUE love they just make it stronger.
si and i become stronger and more in love with each other as each day passes and new things come our way, we are each others rocks.
thats my thoughts on LOVE :love:
Mrs Hot x
