Is there really anyone out there????

20 Jul 2007

Hi guys, I joined this site about mid-June as a premium member and as such I have to date sent out 31 messages. So far I have only received 2 in return and 1 of those was not in answer but an enquirey, to which I replied to but nothing heard come on peeps, give a guy a break, I don't bite, not unless you want me to.8) Post edited 20-07-2007 23:16

20 Jul 2007

Hi Rex, Well - a member for nearlyl 5 weeks and no meet yet? Let me reassure you, that is NOT unusual, especially for single guys. I can't speak for others, but it took me 6 MONTHS to get my first meet, and I don't think that's unusual at all. Fortunately for me, since then things have gone from strength to strength (so yes, there really ARE people out there) - getting the first meet is the key, as you can then get a comment on your profile and possibly and "Established" tag. I don't recall seeing you in the chatroom? You really should try it - by far the best place to let people see what your personality is like. Very few people will agree to meet on the strength of a photo and a profile. Can I suggest thath you read my thread "Chatroom Tips for Newbies" in the "New and Nervous" forum? That got a lot of positive feedback, so I guess I struck a chord with lots of other people. Persevere mate - it will be worth it in the long run, but you will need to be a bit more patient I'm afraid smile

Happy hunting, Suds Post edited 20-07-2007 23:49

21 Jul 2007

dont mean to but in guys i just wanted to say ... very well said true thank you :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap:

21 Jul 2007

Yep there are real people out here , it takes time, it is not an instant quick shag site as people have already said. Get your self known in the chatroom / forums. Even for some of us single women (before I had a partner) it was 6 months or so, before I went out and shagged!

25 Jul 2007

We've sent out loads of mails and had about 10% replied to. We haven't had a meet but we're talking to several girls and getting to know them as time goes by. Its a bit frustrating sometimes but i'd rather we took our time and did it right with the right girl ;).