Hi we have been members on here in various forms...is where we met, for nearly a year now and despite numerous attempts to establish contacts with what we think are like minded couples the responses have been few and far between!!!
Is it us?
Are we too forward?
Are we really such a turn off?
Is it we are too far away from the real swinging action?
Or is it that very few people on here are actually interested in swinging?
We would love to hear your responses.
n & r xx
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is anyone for real here?
We understand totally where you're coming from. We've been on here for 16 months now (took a break late last year due to personal reasons) and have started making some great contacts.
We still haven't met anyone from here yet as it's trying to find a time that is suitable for all. Like you, we'd like to meet first in a neutral location to see how everyone got along and to break the ice.
We think the biggest turn-off from our perspective is the fact that Carl is Bi. We have been told on more than one occasion that a meet would be out of the question due to this fact alone, regardless of it being on our profile that we respect all boundries.
Most of the couples that have a mutual interest all seem to be so far away. But we'll persevere (sp?) and I'm sure we'll meet a couple before too long.
We'd love to attend a club on one of the meets but we have childcare issues so aren't usually free when they are on, and when we are free, there's nothing happening.
Oh well.
Carl and Jeanne xxx
Socials are just that guys, I have been to 3 now, on my own as Andy was unable to come. And be assured while out at the bar, nightclub, pub whatever noone does anything with anyone ! ( well ok not much but thats only if both parties want to hehe ) Socials are a time to chat, get to know folk, flirt, and have a good time. There is no pressure that at some point during the night you are all gonna strip naked and shag each other. BUT should you want that to happen, it may well in the privacy of a hotel room.
I'm sure other folk will back me up that we all had the best time in Leeds and noone unless they were looking very closely would know we were swingers. However what they thought of madmanc and mrherts doing that very rude dance together noone knows lol.
:clap::clap::clap: well said puss, I will back you up there on the Leeds meet. It was our first social and we had a fan-bloody-tastic time!! Great to meet people who we had been chatting to for ages in the chatroom (another way to get to know everyone!). We have had some good experiences at swinger clubs too and not always got upto naughty stuff just relaxed and socialised!
Good luck guys and keep at it
Lilly & Chad
Hi,
We've tried socials - Leeds was fantastic!!, clubs and arranged meetings thru chatrroms and etc.
We know for a fact that a number on here are very real, saying nuffin more lol.... and are awesome fun too - both socially and more!!
Moving forward and finding the right playmates can take time.
Just try to join in the chat and see where it all goes.
SnT x
Hi scots, I think it could be very difficult to strike up a friendship with one couple out of about 40 couples in the chatroom at any time. Do you have a cam? We found that once we had a cam, more people would speak to us. I think they felt that it was a form of validations. Also there are two types of "meets". There are meets that take place at swinging clubs and then there are social meets that take palce at normal pubs/nightclubs. Social meets are just like one big group of people meeting up except that we all have one thing in common! It's very much easier to strike up a conversation face to face to face x
