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been on this site for a while dont participate much just sometimes the chatroom however i am a member of this community i dont hide the fact im bi and if there is a good looking man or women writhing around on cam naked i will comment to them(not whisper) its up to them if they reply, no male has complained to me about this so never really thought it a problem if they had i guess i would respect there wishes while politely reminding them there on a public cam. in addition i have had quite a few bi/bi curious men in relationships that have initiated conversation with me all good fun!!! very recently however i was in the chatroom and my sexuality was brought up by several people ... go and get a private gay room... you must have a slack ass !!........etc etc all very childish but as i wasnt really in any converations i felt this was out of order when i questioned there comments a women replied that straight men dont like it !! i asked her about bi women and straight women she replied its up to them i would like 2 know if this is a general feeling in the community 1. is this site exclusivly heterosexual it ok for two women but not men a bi single female is publicly allowed 2 appreciate stright women but for a bi single man its frowned upon should all the bi single males get kicked out regards Davy
Davyxxx I think that is disgusting behaviour, you should have reported the people that were bullying! I can't believe that in a site like this where people claim to be "open minded" that members have such a childish attitude and prehistoric opinion!
Trust me mate...you're not the only one this has happened to. I've encountered it several times in chat. Once I was even told (by another bi male) that it was my fault because I am so open about my sexuality. Why the hell should we hide or feel ashamed of who we are? This is a swingers site...bi and gay people have as much right to be here as anyone else, and should not have to fear the chatroom. If individual members/couples don't want to meet bisexuals then that's fine...it's their preference and should be respected. Just as we would expect our preferences to be respected. As for those who excuse such bigotry 'because it's just joking around'...if it's all in jest then why to the offending people never use emotes to indicate this. Are they so insensitive and narrow-minded that they are unable to tell when something ceases to be funny and becomes offensive? Would they make similar comments about someone's skin colour or creed? Remember...discriminatory remarks and behaviour are strictly against the T & C and AUP of the site...
davy... id report em, thats disgustin behaviour and yeah i agree a type of bully and u cant hav that on a site like this.... and as u rightly say if it was a bi/gay woman chattin this wud not b frowned upon but njoyed... funky xx:angel:
Not good Davey... and its funny we had a discussion recently about something very simular. Im really not sure why its so accepted for women to be Bi (in fact, almost expected these days) and yet straight men are horrified by the thought of bi men .... I reckon its to do with floors in their sexuality not yours though if Im honest. Report any bullies, and please dont think we are all like that, coz we are not wink
i think ( dave) its all to do with us blokes thinking we are mr matcho king of the jungle, complete load of bollocks i have come across a few men that say do way would they have anythin to do with a cock thats also bollocks . you would be surprised how many would love to have the balls to admit they are interested in cock !!! and those that bully are prob the 1s that are full of shit , maybe its a way of convincin theres selves they aint really interested lol
I agree with the last comment. I check out loads of guys/couples who say "straight' - and find they certainly aren't. We're all here to have fun and sex, for fuck's sake, no matter who it's with. It's not as if bi is so unusual!