ok.. recently there has been a few run-ins with members complaining of not being allowed to 'direct cams'., pointing out that the people on cams are in full knowledge that others are watching them. - yes this is obviously the case. But what all members of this site should realise is that when people decide to do shows of any sort on cam, then they are merely inviting you to watch. What they get up to whilst on cam is for their pleasure first and foremost. If a member really feels a need to ASK someone on cam to do something different, then that is one reason whisper function is there..a member has to realise that not everybody wants to hear what they have to say. Mods (me included!!).. are in the room merely to enforce a rule that is already in place to protect all members.... we didnt make it guys and girls!! So please dont have a go at us!
BabyD I wholeheartedly agree with all you have said. I have to say that many of us ladies - whether they be single fems or part of a couple- find it bloody frustrating when someone is "telling" us "get your tits out" , "drop your knicker" "suck his cock" etc. I think some people (and I say SOME) think that because us ladies are sat on cam with our cleavage out (thats me cos I only do the top half) or if a couple are having sex on cam for all to see that it gives them the right to ask for what THEY want to see - that is absolutely not the case at all. If I want to get my tits out I will (and I do) but only when I want to NOT when I'm "told" (and don't tell me they're asking cos it doesn't feel like I'm being asked). At the end of the day when people join this site they are asked to read through the rules (yes its boring but they ARE the rules) the moderators are employed to enforce the rules and as such should be respected if they remind people they are breaking the rules!! Come on people give the mods a break cos one day it might be you on the receiving end of abuse or bullying and then YOU'LL need them on your side!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
thanks puss and kel.... I've been on the end of some "asking" myself so know what its like - whether its to get my bits out or what time I'm doing a show on cam like its the west end or something!! I know we're paying members of an adult site but since when did that mean it entitles members to treat others like performing seals or pieces of meat??
And of course any whispering should only be undertaken within current site rules and common courtesy, respecting the wishes of those on cam. Getting agreement is good!...
Otherwise we have a potential issue in 'we were informed by mod in forum that is what whisper is for, to direct!!'...lol
Take care, have fun
Jel & N
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hell fire you are soooooooooo right JelandN I hadn't thought of that when I replied to this (what planet I was visiting at the time is classified lol) Ooooooooh yes ALWAYS get permission to whisper other members as its classed as polite
Well done JelandN :clap:
sorry jelandn... of course that is of the utmost importance.... permission to whisper must be obtained from the person on cam etc or it will be seen as abuse by another member and dealt with as such. Thanks for the reminder jelandn :-o
