CHATROOM DILEMMAS !!

11 Sep 2007

We spend a fair amount of time in the chatroom and we do speak to quite a few really nice people, but as time has gone on, we have discovered that there are times when things have not been so enjoyable. We get more than our fair share of people whispering without asking, mostly single males and when we ask them to stop, mostly they never speak to us again or they get quite aggressive, treating us with very little or no respect at all. On several occasions, mrs tee has put on a show via the webcam just for a bit of fun, but there have been certain individuals who have made disgusting comments saying what they would like to do to her, without even having the courtesy to even say hello. The last time it happened, the cam was switched off instantly and we seriously considered leaving this site. There have also been times when we have said we have to go, and despite approx 30 people perving the cam, less than a handful have the courtesy to say goodbye, much less compliment mrs tee on an enjoyable show. We have had enough of some people on here who let so many others down with their disgusting comments, and if things don\'t change drastically, at the end of this year we will be leaving !! banghead

:taz:

11 Sep 2007

I know some people (the bullies) hate this phrase.... But teecee........ Name them and shame them if they are disrespectful when you cam! Anyone that gets disrespectful should be shown for what they are, or speak to a wandering Mod and they are more than happy to remove the offending halfwit! As for anyone saying hello or goodbye...... Manners seem to have skipped a huge amount of the (apparently) single male population ....... although.... some of the women and a high percentage of teh couples are just as bad!!! As for the whispering problem......... either ignore them or name them and shame them. Again, if they get abusive, either ignore or ask a Mod to deal with them! There\'s not alot you can do about it. I have suggested to admin that we have a button whereby only people on friends lists can whisper each other...... don\'t know if anything will ever be done about this. Don\'t get disheartened or leave.... I luv ya both!

11 Sep 2007

Totally agree with the comments. There was one particular single male who kept barking orders like we were trained seals or something. There is a \"Report Abuse\" option on the profile which does alert all the mods/admins to the trouble makers. It is fun in the chatroom most of the time, just a few spoil it. Carl and Jeanne xxx

11 Sep 2007

I agree with all the comments!!! At times I go on cam on my own without Mr3 and at times have had uneccessary comments - from single males! Joke is we want to meet single males and so report the ones who are abusive and enjoy the ones who are genuine!!! There are a few out there!! x

11 Sep 2007

TeeCee - all who put on shows can end up getting same shite from singles who simply don\'t know how to behave and unfortunately your threat to leave will change nothing...xxx You could maybe try taking a few friends into a private room to have some enjoyable fun there and deny the idiots your cam?? Take care, have fun Jel & N xxx

12 Sep 2007

\'wandering mod\' CC?????.... I never wander, I mooch :evil2: Seriously tho.. us mods take a very dim view of directing and/or whispering of unwanted comments. Always tell us otherwise we can do nothing about it..thats why we are there. Tho at times it seems like I\'m banghead

(god I luvs that emoticon, wanted to use that for ages!!) we do get rid of offenders xxx

25 Sep 2007

:banghead: boink

That is nice to know babydevil! Didn't know what a mod was till recently...just thought they weren't into rock........ But you are into walls it seems!

28 Sep 2007

I have sort of started to ignore this.. but yesterday I did turn my cam off after a comment. Now wouldnt mind if I was doing something but I wasnt. I just like to have my cam on when I am talking to people. I live by Maddies idea..name and shame.

30 Sep 2007

The mods should have the power to ban people from the chat room if they persist in pestering members on cam with unwanted comments or those who persistently whisper with out asking or even when repeatedly told not to. If a member is constantly kicked out they should be banned from the chat room for a period of time. I hope i am not speaking out of turn here.

30 Sep 2007

[quote user=nathan_lisa]The mods should have the power to ban people from the chat room if they persist in pestering members on cam with unwanted comments or those who persistently whisper with out asking or even when repeatedly told not to. If a member is constantly kicked out they should be banned from the chat room for a period of time. I hope i am not speaking out of turn here.[/quote] The mods do have that power and do use it, hun. As far as i understand it they can exclude people from the room anything for anything up from an hour. Rosie :rose:

1 Oct 2007

well anyone that knows me knows I do use that facility..... I soo hate directing cams, one of my real pet hates.. And just to make everyone aware, with the new site came new time limits on bans.. minimum is 1 day - maximum is.. well infinity I guess...

1 Oct 2007

hehehe.....babydevil......queen of the banstick! :giggle::giggle::giggle: