Whats the point in joining the chatroom and not chatting i thought the idea was chat be friendly and have fun not ignore each other
People use the chatroom for different things. Some use it to chat, some use it to watch cams, some watch it to read chat and some people prefer to chat privately. Different people, different agendas x
i agree laura but it doesnt hurt to say hello when peeps say hello to you
The chatroom's very clicky, but if you hang in there, join in the conversation etc. People will start to recognise you and start chatting to you.. And don't act like a tool, because you'll be remembered for the wrong reasons lol! ;)
[quote="beanflickr"][u]The chatroom's very clicky[/u], but if you hang in there, [u]join in the conversation [/u]etc. People will start to recognise you and start chatting to you.. And don't act like a tool, because you'll be remembered for the wrong reasons lol! ;)[/quote]
I agree with beanflickr that chat rooms may seem clicky, but this is just because the usual people in chat have, in the past got stuck in and gotten to know others.
We have not been on this site for very long at all but have been made to feel welcome on the site and especially in the chat rooms.
We have been long term members of a sister site to this one (owned by the same company) since 2003 and the same thing is said on that site by people who expect to be accepted on there first visit to chat.
Think of the chat rooms as a pub that you have never been to before, you don't expect all the regulars to stop what they are doing and make you feel like the center of attention straight away. As long term members of that sister site, we do make every effort to make new chatters feel welcome by saying hi to them when they first chat and welcoming them to join in. It is, however up to the new or shy chatter to make the effort to type and join in with chat.
I hope that this is helpful to those who want to chat but find it hard to be accepted :welcome: