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but why?????
Orgasminator
Sorry I do not have a postcard, but the answers to all your questions are the same
Coz we can!! lol
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Sex God
wondered how long it wud take u sparty to follow in my footsteps and open a thread.....
why do we do it???
cus u love fuckin ikkle meeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!
norty funkyD xx:P
why do we do it???
cus u love fuckin ikkle meeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!
norty funkyD xx:P Orgasminator
Oh and the time wasters are people who THINK they want to, but then realise they can't, with singles Im not sure why they come here then do nothing, seems a little odd when you have nobody to concider but yourself.
With couples, its because they realise they can't handle seeing their partner with someone else, and that is more common than anyone is willing to admit!
I expect the answers to your questions will all be very different Sparts.
For us, highly sexed peeps, always had fantasies and never did anything about them..... until Mrs C became very ill 3 years ago, recovered, had 2 kids with very different disabilities which was terribly stressful in their younger years.
Kind of made us realise, life is for living and we should do the things we really want to do in our lives. Nearly 3 years on, here we are and never looked back.
ceylons :love:
[quote user=ceylon1]I expect the answers to your questions will all be very different Sparts.
For us, highly sexed peeps, always had fantasies and never did anything about them..... until Mrs C became very ill 3 years ago, recovered, had 2 kids with very different disabilities which was terribly stressful in their younger years.
Kind of made us realise, life is for living and we should do the things we really want to do in our lives. Nearly 3 years on, here we are and never looked back.
ceylons :love:[/quote]
Well said :clap: For us it goes like this ... our kids are older now so we have the time to realise our fantasies and have fun as consenting adults. It's not a full time thing for us and we do have our boundaries. We enjoy the chatroom and the social side of things and although we have had meets from a previous site, we have only had one meet through this site so far. This is because we prefer to get to know people first which we believe makes for a better time when we eventually meet up. In addition we don't have any issues with people watching our cam as long as no one is downright rude, or with either of us watching someone else's cam. We dare say there are many good (and strange) people out there each with their own preferences, limits, likes and dislikes, it's what makes the scene go around ... whether they be wannabee's or fakes they will always be there. Our attitude is we will do what we are comfortable with and if others think that is boring or whatever then too bad lol. We are partners for life and more than happy with the fun we choose to have with no petty jealousies or insecurities, this is something we have entered into together as a couple. At the end of the day it's all about fun, I mean hey we're all grown up's right? if not then why are we here?
Sexpert
[color="olive"]Like Billie Piper said.. "because we want to!"
(I wish she was a swinger!! 
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To be honest We don't feel the need to explain why we do this, we should just all be proud that we do! And that we are strong and open minded enough to enjoy what this scene has to offer! By explaining it's almost like trying to justify ourselves and swinging, and I don't think any of us should have to![/color]
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To be honest We don't feel the need to explain why we do this, we should just all be proud that we do! And that we are strong and open minded enough to enjoy what this scene has to offer! By explaining it's almost like trying to justify ourselves and swinging, and I don't think any of us should have to![/color] 
hwoar::haha: Sex God
hey sparty....was it not to fuck me then???
:smoke::love::rose:I think some people are more open than others and just because they don't go on about how many meets they have had etc doesn't mean that they don't meet anyone or that they are timewasters. Nobody needs to justify their actions on this site. Respect for other people would be a nice touch though! :clap:
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Politician alert... who air their own views without looking at the questions of debate!!!
highly strung is an understatement pmsl
help help help....i joined sp to have a place of fun & laughter and it's all going tit's up!!!!!
:-? :upset:
help help help....i joined sp to have a place of fun & laughter and it's all going tit's up!!!!!
:-? :upset: 
Sexpert
To have fun, to meet fantastic like minded people, to enjoy their company, to feel alive and liberated and comfortable with these people, to live out some fantasies ...... i mean, why should they just remain fantasies ??!! lol xxx
These are just a VERY few of my reasons ...... but my main reason has always been to meet fabulous cpl's whose relationship is so strong and secure that they want to share mutual pleasure, sexual or not, that gives pleasure to them both. Its hard to describe this to some people ..... but you either get it or you don't i find !! Love is love, sex is sex and friendship is friendship - i have always been very defined like that and if you are a cpl who can combine and differentiate this then and want to incorperate this into their repitoire then why not ??!!
As we all know ...... life is for living, you only get one chance and the things most peeps regret on their death bed are the things they never did than actually did !! ........ and you are a LONG time dead !! lol xxxxx
Sex God
too true fun4, cudnt put it betta meself, even tho im twatted :fuckinghell:sittin ere wiv one eye covered so i can read n write!!
like i sed in a recent intaview, wen i finally kick the bucket and go to hell...:devil:..il get to the devils front door, and wen he opens it, and says well Funky how was your life, and i will say, i have done the fucking lot and enjoyed every second of it, now shut the fucking door, i am cold!†:rotflmao:
not gonna get too deep and bore u all wiv my gobshite...:doh:..but i nearly died last year afta havin a cancer scare!!
and most of u all kno i lost my mommy wen she was jus 54 to cancer and from that point i sweared i wud live my life to the max and enjoy every second of it, to always treat others wiv respect and till i snuff it, be a happy ikkle soul and to spread me funkiness!!:mrgreen:
and if peeps wanna brand me a slapper for bein on ere, then sooooo b it.....cus honestly.......i dont giv a flyin fuck!! :grin:
off me soapbox and stopped chattin :fuckinghell: gobshite ikkle funkyD xx:P
like i sed in a recent intaview, wen i finally kick the bucket and go to hell...:devil:..il get to the devils front door, and wen he opens it, and says well Funky how was your life, and i will say, i have done the fucking lot and enjoyed every second of it, now shut the fucking door, i am cold!†:rotflmao:
not gonna get too deep and bore u all wiv my gobshite...:doh:..but i nearly died last year afta havin a cancer scare!!
and most of u all kno i lost my mommy wen she was jus 54 to cancer and from that point i sweared i wud live my life to the max and enjoy every second of it, to always treat others wiv respect and till i snuff it, be a happy ikkle soul and to spread me funkiness!!:mrgreen:
and if peeps wanna brand me a slapper for bein on ere, then sooooo b it.....cus honestly.......i dont giv a flyin fuck!! :grin:
off me soapbox and stopped chattin :fuckinghell: gobshite ikkle funkyD xx:P Sex God
sorry sparty for gettin serious.....:doh:
kjfedwijjgvnufyuehsdj luv ya tunt!!:inlove:
It is interesting to read the reasons why people start swinging, for us, there is it was to help us find a real pleasure in sharing sexual pleasures with others which in turn added to our own sex life. :devil: We are a very strong and happily married couple with no jealousy issues which I think is important if you are going to swing. 
: I was initially the one that wanted to swing more than sm, however, we are now both very keen and I have been amazed at the pure enjoyment for BOTH of us. We also met some very interesting and friendly people which is a great part of the swinging scene. Although this lifestyle does not suit everyone particularly those couples that suffer from jealousy issues it has made our relationship stronger.
Also what else are you meant to do when you get into your 40s:devil::devil::devil::devil:
: I was initially the one that wanted to swing more than sm, however, we are now both very keen and I have been amazed at the pure enjoyment for BOTH of us. We also met some very interesting and friendly people which is a great part of the swinging scene. Although this lifestyle does not suit everyone particularly those couples that suffer from jealousy issues it has made our relationship stronger.
Also what else are you meant to do when you get into your 40s:devil::devil::devil::devil: [quote user=fun4u2me2]To have fun, to meet fantastic like minded people, to enjoy their company, to feel alive and liberated and comfortable with these people, to live out some fantasies ...... i mean, why should they just remain fantasies ??!! lol xxx
These are just a VERY few of my reasons ...... but my main reason has always been to meet fabulous cpl's whose relationship is so strong and secure that they want to share mutual pleasure, sexual or not, that gives pleasure to them both. Its hard to describe this to some people ..... but you either get it or you don't i find !! Love is love, sex is sex and friendship is friendship - i have always been very defined like that and if you are a cpl who can combine and differentiate this then and want to incorperate this into their repitoire then why not ??!!
As we all know ...... life is for living, you only get one chance and the things most peeps regret on their death bed are the things they never did than actually did !! ........ and you are a LONG time dead !! lol xxxxx[/quote]
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