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Bi.. Bi- Curious.. Straight????

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This is Jo typing just so you know... I have a confusion and curiosity and these titles and what they REALLY mean I have to confess I have always believed there are straight people, gay people and greedy people, lol. So whats the difference between Bi and Bi curiuos? Does one mean you like it and one mean you dont know yet? and if you curious, does that mean once you tried it you change to either Bi or straight coz you have had the experience and now know? I have straight on my profile coz i dont fancy women, that being said in the right situation if it feels good I really dont care whose hands they are ... therefor I am greedy, but still straight ! So come on what is Bi- Curious? coz some people are curious for years.... can you really still be curious if you have done it and KNOW whether you like it or not? I really am asking coz I am curious about the answer... nothing else... I KNOW I fancy men, I can say if a woman is attractive or not and appreciate their beauty or sex appeal, but it doesnt make me wanna jump on them. I have played with women and men, and if they know what they doing its great ... good hands are good hands, whoever they belong to... but I dont think this makes me Bi, would love to know what you all think Jo xxx
jo, Just remember guys curiosity killed the cat......so for years we have been on the hunt for a great pussy :angel: Seriously thhough............. I thought bi-curious was the interest or intrigue that is shown in the situation. So as a consequence, once you have experienced this you surly cannot be curious!!!!!!!!! You are either bi or straight. However, i much prefer Jo's title of greedy people......this says everything without labelling lol. :evil2::giggle::boo: Anal Fairy & the Fonz
Personally I don't think it matters...it's just a term..people will do what they want and are comfortable with. In everyday life I don't go looking for other women but when it comes to fun then being with another woman is both enjoyable and part of the fun....simple as smile
i think we should all petition admin to have greedy as an option, Jo. I can't really say that i am curious anymore. I would not actively seek an exclusive meet with a female only as it is not enough for me:-o i like men too much and would find there was something missing. In a group though :welcome:i am happy to actively play with anyone involved :lick: The trouble comes if the bi tendency conversation has not really taken place because i will not make a move without knowing for fear of offending a lady. (I am sure the same can be said for guys who are open to both though, to a greater or lesser extent.) :rose:
I have bi-curious on my profile because I am just that! I haven't actually done anything with another woman, other than kiss and that made me want to experiment more. I don't know if I could ever say I was bisexual as that might suggest that my attraction to women is equal to my attraction to men. I could never imagine myself having a proper relationship with a woman, it's just the sex I'm curious about. When it comes to sex I am just greedy, it's the only word for it! Ellie xxxxx
lol think i'm in the greedy category as well:lickface:
[quote user=ellie_n_jay]I have bi-curious on my profile because I am just that! I haven't actually done anything with another woman, other than kiss and that made me want to experiment more. I don't know if I could ever say I was bisexual as that might suggest that my attraction to women is equal to my attraction to men. I could never imagine myself having a proper relationship with a woman, it's just the sex I'm curious about. When it comes to sex I am just greedy, it's the only word for it! Ellie xxxxx[/quote] Agree with Ellie. Despite already having ff sex, originally had profile set to bi-curious as whilst sex with a woman is a real turn-on, it doesn't mean that a full-on relationship is what is wanted. Our desire is for a threesome, and would not want ff sex outside of that. However, changed profile to bi-sexual to indicate the level of desire is very strong. :-)
LOL I totally agree Rosie, greedy should be an option, except that EVERYONE would tick that box if they were honest Jo xxx
There is a term for those females who have played with another female or who wish to play with females if the situation arises (regardless of what is involved. ie. kissing, touching or full sex). However, these women do not actively seek the attentions of another woman nor do they expect it, regardless of the situation. Its called being......... PLAYFULLY BI Easy really. I class myself as playfully bi. I don't always play with women. I certainly do not have to play with women. I do not fancy women per se...... only erotic notions take over in the right situation. Its just a term that actually expresses how normally straight women would perhaps react in the right situation.
A lot of sense there mad hun in this thread....at last xxx
JO I`m BI I`ve tried both Love Both,sorry straight guys I`m not a Fem yet. Think True got it to the point. JO hope it aint put you off but I`d love to turn you BI. Debs XXXXX
im classed a s HOVIS = BEST OF BOTH WORLDS!!!! funkyD xx:P
[quote user=truescorpio] Bi-Sexual: Former straight person who HAS played with the same sex, enjoyed it and would be willing to do it again with the right person [/quote] actually, I am a lesbian who is now classed as Bi for this scene. I have no interest in a long term relationship with a man. If I find a man interesting then I will have sex with him. My g/f and I are very happy and very open and I class myself in reality as gay. She also occasionally fucks men. But we both are attracted to women in every way and very very few men are interesting to us. And certainly even more rarely do any of them appeal to us physically. Where as women.... oh my word. I could fuck all of them. So I, for the purposes of swinging, am bi.(formally lesbian) In real life I am a fully fledged of the 7th order. (It is a clan thing :colorsmile
I know i am not bi but i have tried it in the heat of the moment but as was said a finger is a finger a tongue is a tongue but when you are swinging most fems do it for there partners. I can appreciate a nice body but in the heat of the moment YES i could be with a fem.
p.s. blondecouple good call xx