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An Apology
True, a lot of people may think this is a wind up but having made the declaration you HAVE to see it through, otherwise you'll never be able to show your face (or other bits) again.
Never met you, as you know, but we're looking forward to the next social - so stay in this mode until at least then!
No reason why we can't debate in the mean time...as long as it's no too deep and meaningful or serious!!!
Sorted!
:bounce: = Mr mwm (Paul)...Jan fills the page with all sorts of emotes..she just can't help her self!
I'll wait and see if this is a wind up or whether you will actually become the respectable and intelligent bloke I know you can be.
And ...
Lets hope you will issue this apology on a certain other site where you've berated, humiliated and generally 'pissed off' a whole section of real swingers.
We shall see .................
Sexpert
A leopard never changes its spots so to speak ..... and i'd say you are just a tad mixed up in yourself True !!
So you are now going to COMPLETELY change just because so many people have seen you for what you are ...... or once were ??!!
What about all these other people who according to you thought so much of the haughty, naive, pretentions, superscillious and generally up his own arse True ...... are you going to dump them and leave them behind like you have your previous ' persona ' ?? Or have you just suddenly realised that you really aren't that different or special as yet another single guy ??!!
Why have a ' persona ' in the first place ..... were you just hoping that people would find it more appealing that the ' real ' True ....... and now they haven't its time to try a new tact ??
I, as well as everyone else on this site, is a special person in their own right and it takes a LOT more quiet confidence and self assurance to be yourself than to adopt a ' persona ' to engraciate yourself to others !!
Are we now going to see the sensitive, happy, sincere True ......... i think you should probably consider leaving swinging and get yourself a nice little girlfriend personally and hopefully she will know that its our inperfections that make us perfect ...... for your sake !! ....... and here is a little ' lol ' as i know how much you like people who put that in their profile too !! lol xxxx ....... oops - 2 lol's there in fact !!!
If you do continue in the scene i'd probaly advise you keep your issue's with it to yourself and accept that most people have the same problems but don't take it too seriously or personally either.
I wish you luck either way ....... even if i am not convinced !! lol xxx
Sexpert
I initially wrote a pretty long reply to your reply True ...... and trust me, it wasn't flattering ..... but i chose in the end to not dignify your pathetic comment with a reply !!
I have ALWAYS been myself and honest in my opinions and my approach. I flatter myself with VERY little apart from being genuine and a genuinely nice person.
By your own admitance you have been ' very unpleasant and hurtful for no good reason, and toward people that didnt deserve to be treated like that '
That kind of smacks of immature and mailicious behaviour and suggests to me that you have purposely been acting an arsehole .... or you REALLY are an arsehole. I have my own opinion on that as i am sure many others do too. Regardless its totally inconseqential to me True as i have no desire to meet or know you and i doubt any of the people i personally know would want to either !!
It has always seemed to me that you have been naive and misguided in your approach to swinging. I have ALWAYS been happy to be myself and glad that people have wanted to meet me for this.... whereas you seemed to have tried to be haughty, pretentious and a self appointed intellectual ' successful ' swinger !!
Its only since you have been lambasted in recent threads that you have finally listened to some sage prudent advice. I have no desire to get into a slanging match with you True as that is not my style and i have a LOT more dignity than that but i am FAR from impressed with your comments....... but why would you change the habit of a lifetime eh ??!!
I have always been true to myself whereas you and thro your own admittance ' I was genuinely being very unpleasant and hurtful for no good reason, and toward people that didnt deserve to be treated like that ' don't seem to have been ........ or have you REALLY ??!!
Sexpert
[color="olive"]Why don't you two just meet up, get your cocks out and see who's is the biggest?
It would solve a lot of problems boys! lol
Nancy xxxxxx[/color]
Sexpert
Nancy ...... you just want to see BOTH our cocks .... your thinly disguised plot doesn't fool me maam !! lol xxx
........ and you would have gotten away with it if it hadn't have been for those pesky kids eh ??!! hehehehe xxxxxx
Sexpert
Lmao ..... and Now True is adopting MY views !!
He REALLY needs to find himself a new role model i think !! lol xxxx
....... i mean , trying to gets abs, being nice, trying to meet people ........ he is copying ALL my good points too !! pmsl xxxx
Sexpert
Yawn !! You are really starting to bore me now True. !!
So much for the nice side of you coming out ..... personal insults really are childish and i wouldn't stoop so low as to reply to them ....... as they are my last words to you and your pathetic threads !!
Sexpert
[quote user=fun4u2me2]Nancy ...... you just want to see BOTH our cocks .... your thinly disguised plot doesn't fool me maam !! lol xxx[/quote]
[color="olive"]I've seen 'em both already! And guess what? they look uncannily like all the other thousands of cocks in single male cock forest...... sorry gallery![/color]
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Oh boys, this sounds like something from the Jeremy Kyle show... seriously.
True, there is a bloody good reason why fun4 has been as successful in the swinging scene as he has been. As far as I am concerned his attitude is bang on the money and you could go a long way if you took just one wee bit of advice from him. Your problem is that your extreme arrogance will not allow you to see anyone else's point of view or understand their opinions especially when you try and force your own opinions down everyone else's throat.
As Oscar Wilde once said "Life is far too important a thing to ever talk seriously about".
Now just suck it up true, get that big chip off your shoulder and just enjoy yourself. Life is FAR too short for all this tripe.
[quote user=truescorpio]You know likewise fun4 - I have little particular desire to humour your silly little views with any kind of response either, in fact I probably shouldnt have done the first time.
And that would be pointless Nancy coz Id win 
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ENOUGH ..........
FFS True..... its been a few days and you are back to your oldself.
Lets get one thing straight. Fun4 is a REAL swinger. He is a REAL man. He is always TRUE to himself. He is one of the nicest, sweetest and most thoughtful men around. He is shy, self effacing and a thoroughly nice bloke.
How dare you berate someone who has sat back and watched, listened and (in the past) fought your corner as far as single males are concerned.
True, you have admitted you have hurt people and been nasty for no reason other than you are a prize b*stard. I for one had decided to give you the benefit of the doubt. What a fool I was.
Truescorpio, when you become half the man that Fun4 is................ you can open your big mouth and cope with what gets thrown at you. Until then............ SHUT UP.
**and before you make comment......... I've never been more than a platonic friend to Fun4**
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ENOUGH ..........
FFS True..... its been a few days and you are back to your oldself.
Lets get one thing straight. Fun4 is a REAL swinger. He is a REAL man. He is always TRUE to himself. He is one of the nicest, sweetest and most thoughtful men around. He is shy, self effacing and a thoroughly nice bloke.
How dare you berate someone who has sat back and watched, listened and (in the past) fought your corner as far as single males are concerned.
True, you have admitted you have hurt people and been nasty for no reason other than you are a prize b*stard. I for one had decided to give you the benefit of the doubt. What a fool I was.
Truescorpio, when you become half the man that Fun4 is................ you can open your big mouth and cope with what gets thrown at you. Until then............ SHUT UP.
**and before you make comment......... I've never been more than a platonic friend to Fun4** True a little word of advice if i may : Caution ,make sure your brain is engaged before you put your mouth into gear !.. Having read some of your posts over the months it comes as no surprise that you seem to of alienated yourself from pretty much any couple on this site.. As for your comments about fun4 - We as a couple have chatted to this guy for 2 years and he is a shining example to any single male who wishes to succeed in the swinging lifestye, he is always polite respectful funny and sincere .. His reputation here on sp and other sites speaks for itself and in our opinion is beyond reproach. Enough Said........... PK ( the one without the great tittys lol ) xx xx xx
Orgasminator
We been here nearly 2 years now and I have to say that without a few 'Truescopio' and 'Fun4' types it would be a more boring place.
EVERY single male has been in the chatroom and had a 'its not fair on single guys' day.. In fact most couples have too. Ok True has been more vocal, and annoyed people, but Its only logging off that has stopped me doing the exact same thing.
So maybe True now will also learn the power off the disconnest button... Coz if you gonna try to be nice to people that piss you off, or that you don't like it WILL NOT work.
Thankfully I have a very sensible partner, that says, "Jo you CANT type that", or I would be tarred with the same brush, lol.
True, it seemed a very honest and sincere apology (not that I needed one) so if they cant accept it, then they are the ones that dont deserve it, time will tell, and I will be watching, as always.. and i WILL tell you if you screw up (as you know)
Peace out xxxxxxxxxx
if someone says sorry and means it, then they should be given a chance ! Every person has a different style and that may not be to every ones taste. The one thing I have learnt in life is to respectful of other and that is very true in swinging. If someone upset you or says something off then getting into a slagging match benefit no one. It can also put people off the swinging game and effect the tone of the site and the community. We are fairly new, but have seen some bad comments from true and sometime others. I hope that people can learn from there mistake sometime learn to sleep on a comment before posting it 
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P.S. No one minds and joke sometime but been hurtful is wrong and he has said sorry or did I miss read (time to move on :give up
less fighting more loving
Mr Pd
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P.S. No one minds and joke sometime but been hurtful is wrong and he has said sorry or did I miss read (time to move on :give up
less fighting more loving Mr Pd :cheers:lol i love this thread, true and fun battling it out. anywho true mate you have said ya sorry and i think people should leave it at that, people dont need to blast you with the mistakes you have made after you have said sorry, that makes no sense, true you a good guy and always have good banter with you in the chatroom, as far as i am concerned, there are much worse single males in the chatroom (not mention any names) who have given me abuse for no reason or to show off or try and impress couples or singles. good on you for sayinf sorry and speak soon dude,
Sparxy
